Talked to Chris and she agrees!
Now that she has been offered full time hours at her job effective today, and with me at home managing the house and kids, she was able to confidently accept the offer.
I can focus on bottom surgery for now before I put any serious effort into finding a full time job.
Chris’s parents own the house we live in, it’s in their names, and fully paid off, so it’s untouchable in the divorce.
Which means that I don’t have worry about banking 2-4 months of rent while I’m in recovery on bed rest either.
She pointed out that her sister and their family, the sis that goes to Burning Man that I met in February, lives in Montreal with a house and cars so I don’t even need hotel or food while there!!!
She says that she’ll make sure I don’t have to worry about arranging anything for after care and bed rest, that I don’t have to worry about it at all.
For the summer (at least) I’m officially a house spouse so that I can watch the (step) kids over summer vacation, and we’ll re-assess our situation in the fall during back to school.
In the meantime I can pick up temp and gig work wherever I can, and I’ll be able to stash the money away as all my money goes to the family anyways.
HOLY FUCK I FINALLY HAVE A 100% VIABLE AND REALISTIC PATH TO BOTTOM SURGERY WITHIN THE NEXT COUPLE YEARS!!!
I love this woman so FUCKING much!!!
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