This tiktok about someoneās pre-transition self is so so SO tender and I just want anyone who has transitioned and may be mourning their old self to see this and to know itās okay. Itās okay to miss that person you once were, itās okay to wish you had embraced what you had and who you were before transitioning. It doesnāt mean you regret it, and it doesnāt mean you made the wrong decisions.
Itās okay to think about that person, itās okay to mourn them, and itās okay to wonder. The person you were before transitioning may have been a trick of the light, but it doesnāt mean they werenāt special while they were here.
Everyoneās experience is different⦠but if you find yourself feeling this, just know itās okay. You donāt have to completely block out every aspect and memory of who you were before. Itās okay if you do, but you donāt have to.
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