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toy•ya Teaching myself to be selfish

[imthedaydream]

Apple. Let me adjust the volume of the FaceTime so the video I’m watching is louder than the venting happening on my phone. Please.

[imthedaydream]

Coworker “That’s what you look like without your mask!”

Me “Yes! I know.. I’m gorgeous”

[imthedaydream]

I play East Atlanta Love Letter on shuffle when I’m down.

The album meets me where I’m at (down/sad) with the tone which allows me to sit in the feelings and not push them away. But his words also remind me I’m her, I’m it.

[imthedaydream]

Tutorial. Take me notes please.

[thoughtkick]

“She distanced herself to save herself.”

— Unknown

[imthedaydream]

Nighttime and drinks

[biryannie]

I watched a TikTok of a girl who said her natural mindset is that when something good happens to her for her, it feels like her whole life is amazing and it's full of many beautiful things. When something bad happens to her she thinks that this is one small thing in a sea of beautiful things. I love love love that mindset. I am not even close to it, and I am aware that a lot of things contribute to that mindset such as privilege and mental stability etc, however I think I can work towards having that mindset. Ever since I started reading about the way the brain heals and how we can change our neural pathways, I am committed to having a more positive and constructive outlook on life and working on simply observing thoughts which are unhelpful. I genuinely believe we can work towards developing healthier mindsets and it definitely takes years and a lot of work and therapy but it's possible and that excites me.

[imthedaydream]

One small bad thing in a sea of beautiful things

[erickalarissa]

everything comes to you when you actually , truly let go. often times , this shows up as the energy of completely giving up. when you release your energetic grip , or desire for control in a situation — your desire will come to you much more rapidly.

[imthedaydream]

Can I get you on the line?

[imthedaydream]

[imthedaydream]

New Moon in Virgo ; September 6, 2021

• I commit to Vanity Chemist blog

• I understand organic chemistry for cosmetic chemist which makes me a stronger formulator

• I invite in romantic relationships and I’m not guarded by the ease of casual safe relationships

• I travel to 2-3 places

• I curate my own community through intimate experiences

Circle back in 6 months on March 18, 2022 to see how my achievements look.

[imthedaydream]

Body.

[imthedaydream]

[scandalousladysuggestion]

picture in your head a woman who can get anything she could ever want. see the way her eyes court promises and threats. listen to the way she laughs in the face of the world. study the way she walks. the ways she strides. always having someplace better to be than the last. picture a woman who can get anything she could ever want. become her. 

[1moneychaserworld-deactivated20]

I’m a keeper But I’ll never beg to be kept

[imthedaydream]

Actively working on leveling up my confidence and was told to study black women. Such stunning advice

[thefinefriend]

you can't hope, maybe, and probably your way through life if you want to get shit done. be confident in what you want or shut the hell up.