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sideblog for being intersex and non-binary please read my carrd

[austim]

Space and Vaporwave/Retro-themed Androgynous stimboard for anonymous

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[ijaazat]

my gender is if you date me you're gay one way or another

[lgbt-tiktoks]

[intergender]

it makes me so happy that people are using the gender i coined, oh my gosh.

[thisisalsoyou]

[ramjam-view]

[angesirene]

The Moon and Venus, early this morning ♡

[123iloveyoutoo]

time to spread positivity

people who are just questioning their gender deserve support. it’s okay if your identity changes over time. your relationship with gender is allowed to be complicated.

[tedpaints]

[fuckyeahpaganism]

[preschooldr0pout]

[anarchopuppy]

I’m a radical inclusionist. I don’t think I have any right to tell anyone else what queerness is or how they’re allowed to experiment with their own identity. “Infiltrators” are a completely negligible problem, respectability politics is bullshit, and any downside of just trusting people with their own experiences is enormously outweighed by the problems caused by gatekeeping

Just mind your own business, I promise it’s okay

[interfemmasc]

Intergender flag updated design 1/17

This flag was designed primarily by me and @cripdeaf (Cey), I tweaked the colors a bit this time to be stronger/bolder and also I would like to add for home flag makers - use whatever colors are available to you to sew! The color doesn’t have to be exact. For web use I just wanted the colors to be like a bit more bold. This version of the flag I made myself from scratch in the program.

Royal gold & purple pride, of course! 

Intergender is a gender identity/modifier phrase that explicitly denotes the experiences that being intersex has had on one’s gender identity. It can modify someone’s gender identity (i.e. intergender demiboy) or it can suffice to say that it is the identity as a whole (i.e. I am intergender because being intersex practically is my gender experience). 

There’s no special meanings here - it’s really just the colors of the intersex pride flag + a white circle which I feel as part of the original intersex flag was a deeply important symbol. The white circle indicates our wholeness as ourselves, without intrinsic need for modification. 

Only intersex people can identify as intergender and use this flag! Please do not use this flag if you are not intersex!

[abbf26]

dont forget that trans men actually face more violence in some areas (such as domestic and sexual abuse) than trans women. yes trans women are being murdered, but when your activism focuses exclusively on trans women you erase the plight of another minority, and to see so many people just disregard trans men during this time (especially considering the murder of Tony McDade) is highly concering

your activism must be for all trans people. that means trans women, trans men, AND nonbinary people. just focusing on trans women does nothing to protect trans men and nonbinary people. just focusing on nonbinary people does nothing to help trans women and trans men

and just focusing on trans women and nonbinary people, as a vast majority of people on this website do, does nothing to help trans men

believe it or not but our lives aren't magically easy. just as calling a trans woman a man as an act of violence, so is every time a high-profile terf talks about women bleeding and how the uterus and vagina defines womanhood, which all actively seeks to misgender and essentially taunt trans men

your activism for trans people must be an activism for ALL trans people. if trans lives matter that means EVERY trans life matters, including the ones of men who you like to think have it easy but are facing disproportionate levels of domestic and sexual abuse. you need to do better

[gradienty]

Starship Wheat (#f6ed3a to #f6deb8)

[potoh]

Pride Colours Day 14: Intersex Pride! Stretchy.

[dog-teeth]

it used to feel confusing to have my gender just up and change on me, but now its freeing to lean into that & remember i dont have to be any one gender forever. it gives me the space to use any form of expression & presentation to make myself feel comfortable