In Violet Love

Superlesbian. Feminist. Gender apostate. I don't go to your church; it doesn't mean I hate you. 💛 Married - 30s - TX 💛

[sanrio-femme]

To any lesbians/gays reading gender critical posts out of curiosity/anger --

You can disagree with everything I say, but I want you to listen to this one thing.

You're not wrong for being exclusively same-sex attracted.

Before I was gender critical, I thought something was wrong with me because I was only attracted to "afab" individuals. It's okay to not want to interact with a dick. It's okay to not want to interact with a pussy.

No matter what your friends/the internet want you to think, you can actively desire one sex. It's not hateful. It's homosexuality.

Your sexuality doesn't have to be passive. You don't have to close your eyes or pretend that the dick/vagina isn't there. You can actively want only vagina or only dick.

It's not evil. It's not wrong. It's not discrimination. You are not a bigot for not wanting to date/have sex with the opposite sex, no matter what they say.

I honestly hate how I feel the need to say this. But, I think more LG individuals need to hear it.

[hyperions-fate]

Identity has become the axis of so much university activism because, for all the radical posturing associated with it, identity politics does not threaten the established order of society. It promotes a moralistic and self-indulgent anti-politics, where a person’s use of language and the purity of their thinking matters more than confronting collectively the material conditions and social relations under which they are forced to live. It creates a simulation of political struggle - one that doesn’t merely fail to challenge the material inequality and unfreedom of late capitalism, but fundamentally aligns with the dynamics and interests of its atomised, spectacle-driven society. It is a perfect mirror of consumerism, playing-upon the individual’s desires for real freedom, only to perpetuate and prettify the conditions of their alienation.

[that-old-hermit]

I can’t believe some people really think that if you’re against porn and prostitution, then you’re also against sex. Painting us as conservative puritan bitches is just a lazy way of ignoring what we’re saying. 

[oneoclockfox]

When a feminist says “We are against sexual exploitation and abuse,” and a man responds, “So you hate sex?” he has just given you vital information about himself.

[lesb0]

weird people who look completely clean cut and dress plainly are always SO much more interesting than people with bizarre counterculture fashion who are usually just highly annoying and boring lol

[lesb0]

this post is really rustling up jimmies in the steven universe fandom 😩

[dispatchesfromtheclasswar]

"People just don't want to work anymore! That's why I can't find employees!"

[pansyfemme]

weird little girl to gay trans man pipeline

[garfieldcunt]

not like other girls, but like, now we take testosterone

[sahpho]

not to derail your post but this is is legit the best way i’ve seen it summed up that it’s now more acceptable for women to mutilate themselves trying to be men than it is for women to be GNC

[enigmatic-insect-deactivated202]

Unintentionally very insightful

[butchfagminotaur]

[genderistdeku-deactivated202302]

men love pretending that it’s the autism that makes autistic men Like That. sorry but no it’s just his y chromosome. if it was the autism then autistic women would be just as deranged as your finest specimens and guess what. they’re not.

[radfeminismes]

Pure gold that doesn’t deserve to drown in the tags

[pretty--poet-deactivated2018120]

my professor called andrea dworkin “anti-fun” and i feel like that is an accurate depiction of where liberal feminism is at right now

[lesbophobes-deactivated20220907]

>spent her life crusading against the sexual exploitation of women >”anti-fun”

i’m concerned about their idea of fun!

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

According to my grandmother, who met her in person, she in fact had a wicked sense of humour.

[nomenculture]

Reminds me of what @savingseeds23’s has written about. Queer theory is all about being playful. It evades any serious discourse, and criticizes any serious discourse. It’s not meant to be a tool that challenges oppression. It functions as a toy.

[historicalbeauties]

Photos by Michaela Magaela Ďurišová

[lesbiansarefemale]

oh my god. i actually hate this, i hate this so fucking much. sex education has so many wrong things with it but this?? this fucking scene????? this is not a queer relationship. it is a non-binary woman and a straight man. there is absolutely NOTHING “queer” about this. this is such a fucking mockery of actual same-sex attracted people. who the fuck do you think you are saying that this is progressive. that this is representation. because it’s not for me, someone who is ACTUALLY homosexual. fuck you and fuck this show.

[wellofwonders]

Wow what an insult. No soul would stigmatize that kind of relationship, be disgusted by it or discriminate that couple... because they are straight.

Ew ew ew

[exgynocraticgrrl-archive-deacti]

[pre-gifs] “…So, she [Paris Hilton] was a very wealthy woman, [initially] not that well known and then she gets to mega-stardom. How? The sex tape. Which was made by her boyfriend at the time, who was married, and thirteen years her senior. She sued to try and stop it [the tape’s circulation] and she couldn’t and it became the best selling sex tape for two years on the porn market.”

Dr. Gail Dines addressing porn culture and rape culture’s intersecting roles in patriarchy

[benzoparadise]

I think everyone should watch this video. It’s so real and the heart wrenching truth…

[feministsexed]

I would like to formally apologize to every woman i ever talked badly about without ever considering what you went through as a human being.  I am so very very sorry.

[cowboybeebs-deactivated20211104]

I still go on reddit sometimes, and someone posted this in the r/trueoffmychest subreddit:

The edit is a response to the absolute amazing replies of some of the redditors there. More and more folks really are peaking. My favourite response:

Shed a tear right there.

[radfemetc]

People hitting peak trans left and right.

[closet-keys]

every once in a while i can’t help but think about how wild it is that some lesbian was like “I’m so fucking starved for representation that I don’t watch movies unless there’s at least one scene where two women aren’t talking about a man so I can pretend they’re lesbians for five seconds” and then another lesbian put that sentiment as a gag in a comic, and then straight women took it and ran with it as Official Criteria for Feminist Media and then other straight women got offended by it and now straight women just debate the merits of it back and forth forever while still ignoring lesbian representation (and lack thereof) just as much as they always did

[cungadero]

[killyourlocalmisogynist]

can bisexual women please fucking stop falsely labeling themselves lesbian. lesbians don’t go fuck guys because we are horny and can’t find a suitable woman to have sex with. this woman is literally pushing the harmful narrative that lesbians are all secretly attracted to men and we posses the capability to want to engage in sex with them. if you are a bisexual woman who does this i honestly fucking hate you with a burning passion.

[misandricsappho]

this just in: narcissist bisexual thinks everyone likes dick like she does and actually lesbians can enjoy sex with men if horny enough

with a side of: bihets spewing homophobic nonsense to make the most hardcore conservatives proud 

the ride never ends

[catgirl-critical]

she think it's funny too like. this is blatant lesbophobia and not to mention potentially dangerous for actual lesbians. but bi people treat this shit as a joke.