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Calling all SB's

If you’re a SB and need a friend REBLOG!!

Texas heauxs

Los Angeles 👼🏽🤘🏽

Los Angeles 💕

Atlanta 💁🏾‍♀️

studyandstorms-deactivated20250

I cannot stress this enough- Build a routine. Build Habits. Wake up every day and get used to being productive, one day at a time. Do this for long enough and eventually you’ll be at your goal without even realising it.

somalisugarbabe-deactivated2018

giiirl! I need to step up my dating game because I’m seen too desperate and needy when I’m interested in someone. Please share more of the vanilla rules you follow!

Here’s my rules for vanilla dating ( or POT dates) that I have used and stood by for the past few years.

1) Never text a man first, never initiate plans or hangouts, I let him run things. When a guy first texts me, I don’t respond for at least three hours and always end the conversation first, saying I’m busy or in a rush. When men ignore your messages and calls, they often do it to see how the woman responds, so if you act clingy or desperate for a response, that ruins everything. Vice versa, imagine a man doing the same if you ignored their messages and calls? And they act clingy and desperate for a response? You would be put off immediately or call the man creepy! Think first before you call or text a man. Always be classy and aloof. Long story straight, NEVER TEXT A MAN FIRST. LET HIM COME TO YOU. SHOW HIM THAT YOU HAVE A LIFE TO LIVE THAT IS EXCITING AND FULFILLING AND IT DOESN’T MATTER IF HE’S IN IT OR NOT.

2) Never accept a date after Wednesday. If a guy really likes you, he will reserve plans on the weekend to take you out so you can spend more time together. Which is why most men will ask early on in the week if you’re free Friday or Saturday. So, if he texts you on Thursday to hang out on Friday, its because he’s got no plans, bored, or wants sex. If you have any sense or self respect you would say HELL NO. It’s too last minute and screams you’re a last minute resort. DON’T EVER LET A MAN MAKE YOU HIS LAST MINUTE CHICK. It means you aren’t their first choice and was only asked because he knows you are readily available, into him, and desperate for his attention. Even if you have ZERO plans and REALLY into the guy, TURN HIM DOWN GENTLY, and make him wonder who’s taking YOU OUT when mention you already have plans. If he’s really into you, he’ll be sure to plan accordingly next time.

3) Don’t text any men during the weekend. As soon as it’s Friday, its blackout until Monday afternoon. This is allow you to avoid any last minute texts to meet up, hook up, or make a giant mistake. I notice men get very curious and end up texting me more as I ignore them on the weekend. Be exactly like that bad bitch in Drake’s “Hotline Bling” that got him confused and curious.

4) Don’t friend him on Facebook, Snapchat or IG. If you already did, don’t like or comment on anything he posts. EVER. Don’t even look at his feed or stories. He’s gonna start creeping on yours and wondering why you aren’t complimenting him like the other girls are. Girls that constantly are on social media stalking men are pitiful and sad; it’s also hella toxic.

5) Just be a goddamn mystery. Keep things fun, outgoing, but distant at times. When you go on the first date, don’t spend more than two hours together. Make the guy want more with everything you do. Don’t kiss too long, don’t hug too long, don’t give too much attention. All this is building up to make the guy fall for you as quickly as he can. When you put everything on the table and show too much interest, it makes things too easy and boring for the males. Even if the guy is meek, shy, or awkward, men are all hunters. Anything you start in this world, you got to keep it going, relationships included. Which is why men, even if you chase them down, give them bomb ass pussy, treat them good, they will always go after the women that don’t give them the time of day or attention because they ENJOY the chase more so that the “pick me” chick that is so readily available to them.

Walking into a restaurant for a date and seeing the love of your life at a business dinner.

Definitely not how I wanted to start the year off lmaooo

jassythesassy

hailneaux

https://www.instagram.com/p/B16ab-rlIrs/

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me: [taking a piss in my own house like normal]

my anxiety: “what if someone slipped you hallucinogenic drugs and you’re actually in walmart right now pissing in the middle of the store?”

me: “…we’ll confront that problem when we come to it”

theblackcourtesan

Essential Steps followed by the most successful courtesans:

She drastically improves her appearance.

She upgrades her knowledge of etiquette and manners and improves her social skills.

She changes her environment in order to increase the chances of meeting men with money.

She makes a conscious decision to stop associating herself with men of lesser means and inferior position.

She continues climbing no matter what, because settling is never an option.

From ‘How to Date Like a Courtesan’ by Celeste Mgboli

First time traveling in an arrangement and it was a dream. The hotel suite was stunning, everything was so beautiful. did so much shopping and had a great time. Had to catch myself because i got irritated when he made it clear he’s not the type to buy designer bags and material items. Can’t fumble a bag that pays the bills just because he won’t buy me Chanel. In all he spent so much more than that on me anyway. We spoke about doing this again very soon, he’s looking for more of just a travel buddy so it’d be ppm, I’d love to be in a standard arrangement though. He knows I genuinely enjoyed the trip and the sex so definitely have to tone it down next time before he gets too comfortable. Also as always, so grateful he’s Black and aged well, the stares were so much less frequent.

#brownsugarbaby #sb

On my way to Vegas to meet up with Mr. Cannabis. I’m so excited!! We get along soo well and his ex wife and daughter are from my country as well and it feels so great to talk to someone who’s been immersed in the culture! Our first meeting was SO SO much fun and very unconventional lmao which led to the second meeting. He’s been very generous and I’m so excited to see what Vegas has in store!!!

Thank you universe 🤗

#brownsugarbaby #sugarbowl #sugarexperience

About to start responding to all the trash in my SA inbox with my only fans link. Let’s see how this goes

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emmyandsuch

This is the line that has gotten me through life.

blvcksvgvr

Sugar Babies are sex workers. Ya ain't prostitute lite. Society still views you as a whore. There is no real hierarchy. Get over yourself.

lillkash-deactivated20240712

Facts. When you’re at the bar freestyling, the hotel staff all think you’re there to sell pussy.

weloveshortvideos

When you make the football team try a stunt since they’re always sayin cheer isn’t a real sport

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scallioncreamcheesebagel

this california power outage shit is literally going to kill people.

the company only gave a 12 HOUR warning.

things powered by electricity:

life saving medical equipment

fridges and freezers which keep food from spoiling. this would be much less of a big deal if people were given a week or so’s warning, but they were given 12 HOURS.

many devices used for preparing food (ex microwaves and electric stoves)

phones, computers, televisions, and radios, aka everything that allows people to get news quickly, in an area extremely prone to wildfires and other natural disasters.

phones also serve as communication devices for both loved ones and emergency services. if your phone runs out of charge during these 5 days and you need to call 911 because you’re having a heart attack or got in a car crash? you can’t.

all lights… which is going to force people to use candles for light at night… in an area where fire is extremely susceptible to spreading… and all devices that can be used to contact emergency services are depowered…

cooling and heating systems (luckily california tends to be pretty stable temperature-wise this time of year)

electric wheelchairs and other electric disability aids

i feel like i should re-iterate life saving medical equipment

this INTENTIONAL outage is affecting over half a million california residents, and not everyone has the money to just go get a generator, or go stay in a hotel out-of-state for a week, especially on such short notice. this is evil.