MN Sugar

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[neverbiso]

Yo stop telling temporary people too much about you.

[angelicalmentenegra-deactivated]

This is important

[f0reignluxe-deactivated20221120]

You’re never asking for too much, you’re just asking the wrong person.

[ambrosiagfe]

I was getting petrol last night and this guy was like you’re so beautiful can I know your name. And I said the price to know my name will cost you a full tank and he actually put his card in the machine and let me fill up my car for £60 worth 😂😂 then I gave him my fake name and fake hoe number. I’m not wasting time with no mens anymore. You want to breathe in my Gucci perfumed air? pay for it

[allicisdollasigns]

Wow big dick energy

[assyrianjalebi]

Bluebeard’s Eighth Wife (1938)

[milaluxe]

Don’t let these men call you their girlfriend

Something that’s been sitting on my heart for a minute now (thank you current sponsor for that discussion and who just doesn’t fucking get it). Men in this lifestyle are so quick to call us girlfriend, say we’re in a relationship, introduce us (or want to be introduced themselves) to family. It actually really ticks me off cause there needs to be a lot done before then for me to be able to agree to all that. These men will take you on dates, love to be with you, and expect sex, but won’t invest a lot in you. I expect equality of the sexes.

Let me be clear: if we are together and are at two different tax brackets, you’re not my man.

Period.

If you are eating $500 meals three times a day and I still have to budget my groceries, you’re not my man.

If you just bought your sixth home and I’m late on rent AGAIN, you’re not my man.

If your garage is filled with foreign cars and I’m still paying a car note, you’re not my man.

If you want to go on luxury vacations and get upset with me because I have to work two jobs to make ends meet and can’t get or afford the time off, you’re not my man.

The only way you become my man is either by lowering yourself to my quality of life or elevating me to yours. Thassit. No way in hell am I introducing you to my family, being in love, doing all that girlfriend shit for a man who sees me struggle, is comfortably in a position to make sure I never struggle again, and just...doesn’t. You are my sponsor, my client, my almost-friend (cause even a friend will do something for you) until you elevate me to your tax bracket, cause let’s be real, these men are not lowering themselves for women.

It honestly baffles the entire shit out of me when men and even sometimes women don’t understand this. How would the relationship work? If we get married and have kids and whatnot, will you be living the high life while I struggle? No! Will you be vacationing in 5 star hotels while I’m just renting out the cheapest Airbnb? No! It’s equality in a relationship. Not saying we have to have the exact same income or the exact same wealth, but definitely we should have at least similar quality of life. If not, you’re not my man ✌️

[limperatricedesvices]

I tell them I’m your distraction,

They get mad and offended.

[milaluxe]

[modelinterrupted]

This so real.

[musingsofasexworker]

The SB/sex worker side of tumblr may seem more catty and materialistic to outsiders but never have I seen a group of women more aware of our self worth and confident about what we want out of life. According to the real world we should all not want to look our best, not use the looks we have to our advantage, not want to be with financially stable/generous men, and the list goes on and on. At least here we can all be young, hot, and demand the best. Sometimes I really worry that without sex work I would have just settled for a life of mediocrity and putting everyone else first.

[middleeasterndime-deactivated20]

I can’t emphasise this lesson enough.

The ONLY way to truly grow, flourish and get what you want is to do the OPPOSITE of what your comfort zone tells you to do.

Everything you dream of in life? The incredible potential within you that is ready to be fulfilled? That’s all waiting for you on the other side of your comfort zone. When you’re faced with a decision that needs to be made, doing the scary thing will be what gives you the opportunities you need and desire; as well as turbocharging your inner evolution into someone stronger, self-respecting, smarter, savvier, happier and more confident. 

[satcgifs]

[jehovahhthickness]

I want my future man to have this kind of energy

[clst]

LGBT stands for

Let’s Get This Bread

[zaddybonglegs-deactivated202305]

[dahliaborne]

Complete Ballets To Watch Online

A Midsummer Night’s Dream

Raymonda

Proust Remembered

Anna karenina

Manon

The Firebird

Rite Of Spring

Lady Of The Camellias

[blackberryshawty]

my regular bartenders seeing me show up to the establishment with another old ass white man:

[hathor77]

I feel like a lot of girls on here are chasing a lifestyle that doesn’t really exist in the way they  think it does

[blackwoolncrown]

This. I was talking to a friend of mine about it and she put it so well “They believe the lie we sell to the guys” it’s so sad

[billiondollahbaby]

Never feel bad for taking rich men’s money because:

1.) They will spend it anyway

2.) You were a terrrific asset to them during the time you spent with them

3.) Someone else will get it if you don’t!

—How to Marry the Rich by Ginie Polo Sayles

[qingsugah]

Pretty sure I've said this before

BUT GIRL! Don’t let tumblr convince you $1,000 is not solid money! If you can’t buy groceries and are struggling to get your rent together, feel free to take that $1.5k offer and do what you have to do. Yes, honey, you’re priceless and time is money and whatever else, but there’s no reason that you should allow any other baby, especially not one from tumblr who could very well be lying for all you know, convince you to turn down a great starting offer because you’ve let pictures of Loubs and G-wagons cloud your senses.

My first ever SD gave me $1,500 a month. Do y'all know how substantial that was for me? I am in school, working retail part-time for minimum wage, and that money let me keep my on-campus housing, fill my fridge and stack my closet on a consistent basis. Sure, I made a lot of mistakes and didn’t save/invest literally any of it, but that was my start. If $350/meet is going to pay your bills, take that shit and be proud of your hustle, there is always time to grow.

[sugaryblonde]

Always reblog 👌

[middleeasterndime-deactivated20]

I don’t believe in love at first sight, I believe in love at first swipe.. of your American Express.

[sexpensed-deactivated20210529]

But wait, you can’t fall in love until you ask him if he used his business card or personal card

[sugaran0n]

I'm so glad I've never fallen for any of you money grubbing whores. It's so sad that you find joy in manipulating guys that you obviously have no interest in except what's in their wallet. I'd be surprised if you don't wind up washed up working a pole one day, whether it's in a club or on your knees in an alley, it's what you're stone cold heart deserves really. So I'm flagging and reporting your entire page til tumblr deletes you or you leave on your own.

hiii hunny go back to reddit with the other involuntary celibates who believe that the exchange of sex and money between two consenting adults makes the woman (not the man!) yucky and worthy of destitution. also omg I would love to be a pole dancer! one day, once I have ab strength and better sleep hygiene :)