"the world isn't kind" ok??? Much more importantly are you?????
"the world isnt kind" skill issue. I am

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"the world isn't kind" ok??? Much more importantly are you?????
"the world isnt kind" skill issue. I am
Okay so, I saw a post asking for a word in mando’a for surrender, and I meant to do a short reply, but this got entirely too long … so new post instead.
This is more than a little complicated due to the nature of the word surrender, as its meaning is incredibly contentious depending on who you ask, who says it, and in what situation. If anything, mandalorians should have multiple words meaning surrender, depending on severity. But let’s start with what exists and why it’s bullshit as the sole word.
There is a word that is close: cetar — kneel in submission (from cetare, boot; as in licking someone’s boots), however … I don’t trust anyone that uses this word in a casual sense, and I suggest you follow suit, bc this follows an incredibly negative connotation attached to the definition of submission / submit, and tbh fits a toxic masculinity that is very much in line with Karen Traviss’ gross misunderstanding of war, fighting, and tactics. I mean sure, you can refuse to surrender, and where will that lead you? The death of everyone who follows you. The death of your people. Good job. Way to go.
It’s entirely misaligned with one of the core beliefs of mandalorians, and the reason why they still exist even after facing what would have been certain death to any other people: survival. It’s literally in the resol’nare poem. It’s said again and again. Survival is a common, repeated, but often never discussed theme, that is intrinsically tied with mandalorians and their history.
Surrendering means survival. It means living to fight another day. It means being able to reassess your plans and come back wiser than before. It makes me think of the phrase: He that fights and runs away, May turn and fight another day; But he that is in battle slain, Will never rise to fight again.
Surrendering also means knowing when to stop fighting, having the wisdom to end the battle so that you don’t lead all of your people to certain death … which almost happened to mandalorians, specifically (and did happen to the original species of mandalorians, the Taung). Thanks to the efforts of Mandalore the Ultimate, whose incredible leadership lead mando’ade to near total extinction.
This hut’uun was executed in the Battle of Malachor — and with him, the majority of the mandalorian people. It was horrible enough, extensive enough, that most of the galaxy (and most of the surviving mandalorians themselves!) genuinely believed that they would never recover from it. Most believed they would have died out during the old republic, and they would have if it wasn’t for the intervention of one person and a shitload of luck.
So. To tie mandalorians, and mando’a, with a negative understanding of “surrender” is to be completely ignorant of mandalorian history and what almost happened to them (more than once, actually, lmao) as a direct result of continuing to fight when it was foolish to do so, and obviously so.
I have seen his image held up by “mandalorian fans” asking “why is this not badass anymore?” and I can only rub my forehead in fucking fury lmao because Mandalore the Ultimate is responsible for the mandalorians nearly being wiped out, permanently, from the galaxy, forever. Why anyone would hold him up in veneration instead of using him as a cautionary tale is beyond me, but lmao. Toxic masculinity and an inability to take things with nuance in context apparently comes par for the course with a huge swathe of mandalorian fandom. But I digress.
So. What is a good word for surrender?
We can either redefine cetar, or we can create a new word that carries a neutral-to-positive connotation, so that we can keep cetar for its original incredibly negative intention (which does have its uses and is a necessary word).
Here’s what I suggest:
For serious occasions, we have
kyrte’anir — surrender ; quit while you’re not too far behind
From kyr, to end, and Te Ani’la, Ultimate. Simple, but straightforward.
For light / less serious occasions, there’s
kyrjar’anilar / kyrj’anilar — surrender, give in ; end ultimate foolishness
Again, from kyr, to end, jareor, recklessly risk your life, act suicidally (negative connotation - foolish, not brave (which, lmao, is what YOU ARE when you refuse to tactically surrender)), and again Te Ani’la, Ultimate.
Both words are tied inextricably with Te Ani’la Mand’alor, Mandalore the Ultimate. There’s an arrogance tied in with calling one’s self the Ultimate Mand’alor, a blind kind of arrogance — and given that he was one of the last of the Taung, it’s doubly tragic (almost exterminated all mandalorians, did exterminate all Taung).
Generally, mando’ade have a tendency to form words from names as cautionary tales — in remembrance of significant moments or people in history (look at, for example, demagolka’s origins).
They also do, in fact, have multiple other words with the same meaning, usually to carry different weight to meaning, in case anyone wants to comment on “why do we need another word for x.” Like … Mandalorians have MULTIPLE ways to say stupid or foolish. They have multiple words for knives. Multiple ways to apologize. You cannot look me in the eye and tell me that they only have one word for something as significant as surrender, and that its only flavor is coached in such a language as to deter someone from ever surrendering.
There is no excuse to have mando’a carry clever ways to call someone foolish, and not also ridicule them for getting everyone under their command killed because they were too arrogant, too brainless, and too cowardly to tactically surrender.
Tbh, crush this idea that all mandalorians, always, refuse to surrender. It’s an idea that’s only supported in a fragile sense of masculinity and pride, and has no basis in the reality of their history and survival.
Finally I’d like to thank @cassiansfuzzyjacket for bouncing ideas around with me, and @variative for wording a definition far more nicely than I could have.
“aren’t you tired of being nice” no!!!! i’m tired of everyone else being mean!!!!!!!!
dont we all commit attempted fratricide
I think u were looking for the confession box not the inbox
Viola the circus elephant didn't escape, she politely removed herself from an uncomfortable situation. role model to us all
"elephant runs loose through Montana downtown" she went for a WALK
this is a large, dignified lady going on a power walk. she is minding her own dang business. pursuing EXERCISE and FRESH AIR. god forbid plus-sized queens do anything
“she's disrupting traffic!” why do americans hate pedestrians? maybe build roads less hostile to foot traffic???
you bottle Miette??
You crush Miette like the grape?
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The Cask of Miettellado
What's some advice you wish you received much earlier
"When people come to you to establish a boundary or a need or to express hurt feelings, that's a compliment, not an attack. That is them wanting to develop the relationship and trusting you to listen and care to do better. And no matter how sad you are about accidentally hurting them, it's a GOOD thing that they cared to have a hard conversation with you"
seasonal affective disorder feels like such a fairytale made up thing but yet here i am. sad because the sun isn't out for twelve hours a day
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it's a lot of stuff...
I am actually so serious I think it really messes with a childs creativity and joy to tell them to never make a mary sue OC. Like that unbridaled form of joy where you make a self insert OC who super cool and everyone loves them and they have every superpower in the world SHOULD be something a kid makes, it nourishes their ability to create things for fun and not be stifled by "oh but what if my character is too overpowered and cringey...". whatever
When I say “free water, free food, free shelter, free healthcare, free education for everyone” in that “everyone” I even include the people I hate. Too many people get surprised at the idea that I do wish for the people I hate to have better lives.
When I say EVERYONE, I mean EVERYONE. These are things ALL people should have. If you reblog this saying “except THIS group” then you’ve missed the point entirely.
i want to remove the boots from necks altogether, not just be the one to put on the boot.
the fact that we only have “herculean task” and “sisyphean task” feels so limiting. so here’s a few more tasks for your repertoire
icarian task: when you have a task you know you’re going to fail at anyways, so why not have some fun with it before it all comes crashing down
cassandrean task: when you have to deal with people you KNOW won’t listen to you, despite having accurate information, and having to watch them fumble about when you told them the solution from the start (most often witnessed in customer service)
feel free to chime in i ran out of ideas much faster than i anticipated
Promethean task: opposite of a Cassandraean task. You have the right information, and SOMEONE has to share it. But it's all in the delivery and if you're the person to identify the problem you WILL be hated forever.
Oedipal Task: (1) Attempting to avoid an unspeakably awful outcome and in doing so creating the circumstances that will bring it about. (2) Trying to solve an problem and discovering that you are in fact the problem you are trying to solve.
Odyssean task: you’ll complete it but it’ll take 20 times longer than it should and involve multiple side quests and mini-adventures
Pandorean task: some people fucked around and now it's your job to make sure they find out
Orphesian Task: a task that seems simple but is designed to be impossible for the one tasked with it
Dionysian Task: the plot of any stoner movie about trying to piece together what happened last night
I don't know who needs to hear this, but
YOU DO NOT NEED TO START A NEW HOBBY!
STEP AWAY FROM THE TEXTILES!
YOU DON'T NEED MORE YARN!
THAT FABRIC IS NOT CALLING TO YOU! LEAVE IT ALONE!
boy it's me the textiles speaking to you inside your head. you need the yarn. you need thread. your soul hungers to participate in the act of creation. you must feed it. you must buy so many beads.
And if you Must heed the call. Do so in small amounts. Little projects to feed both the unfathomable urge to create and your need for completion.
Give too much of yourself and you'll be caught in a never-ending web of wanting more without being satisfied by a thing.
Count your stitches less you find them getting away from you; forced to unravel time after time, just like your sanity.
{Words by Charles Bukowski/ Mary Oliver from invitation}
{Charles Bukowski/Fernando Pessoa, The Book of Disquiet}
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getting older can be so amazing? you get more familiar with yourself. learn tips & tricks for troubleshooting your own brain. trial & error helps you build routines that minimize discomfort, maximize reward. your preferences/interests don't get set in stone, but you do find out which ones are going to stay with you in the long-term, and which ones are fun but transient joys to appreciate in the moment.
you learn that the world is so much more complex than you were taught, and that that's okay, and that there's an endless supply of things you can learn or watch or experience or think about if you want to. if you're lucky, you loosen up, stop putting so much pressure on yourself. if you're lucky, you learn to recognize that negative inner voice, and whack it with a baseball bat until it hushes up. if you're lucky, you learn to treat yourself gently, not because you are fragile but because you are worthy of gentleness. (i hope you are lucky.)
and some things will change. some things will get better. some things will get good. and maybe you start to recover from the dehumanizing stress of childhood/education. maybe you learn the power of your own autonomy. maybe you learn how to walk away from bad situations (which is a superpower even if you don't realize it yet). and you get to choose your own clothes. and your own food. and which relationships to pursue! and what you do with your free time. and with your life (but don't worry you get to choose that gradually). and that's crazy! and sometimes scary. and extraordinarily, indescribably precious.
bitches needed to hear this huh ♥ (you're bitches)