In Kismet Harbor, they’re known for being the man you call when everything falls apart—steady, reverent, and quietly compassionate in the face of grief—though there’s a softness beneath it all, a sense that he understands loss more personally than he ever lets on.
Life Now: Living with his partner, Tomás, and helping their children with every day life. Still carries the absence of his son, Tucker, as a constant, unspoken presence in his life. Home Base: Driftwood Haven, Kismet Harbor—a home full of love. What They Do: Funeral director at Marr Funeral Home. He’s calm, deliberate, and deeply attentive—someone who treats every loss with sacred weight, offering comfort without intrusion and guidance without pressure. Their World: His husband, Tomas Cooper (m. 2005), his son, Tucker Jefferson and his daughters, Evan Cooper, Marty Rivera, Josie Cooper Where You’ll Find Them: Kismet Harbor Community Gardens is where Jet has been wanting to spend the majority of his free time lately, helping the kids from the high school gain some planting skills. He's been frequenting Kismet Harbor Park a lot recently too, or treating his family to dinner at Cedar Grill and Lounge. Despite the fact he has all the reason to be angry at the church,Kismet Harbor Community Church is where he attends when he can Community: Compassionate Friends · Hands on Kismet Harbor · Mindful Madness (Hosts Sunday Sessions) · Nova Conservation · LGBTQIA+ What People Don’t See: The depth of his grief as a father—the unanswered letters, the distance he cannot bridge, and the lingering question of whether becoming himself was worth what it cost him. Their Anchor: His chosen family—Tomás, Evan, and Marty—and his faith, no longer rigid but reshaped into something quieter, rooted in grace, forgiveness, and the belief that love, even when imperfect, still matters.
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