Lighthouse

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[justmelagain]

[soberscientistlife]

I will never quit fighting for a women's right to choose.

The only safe abortion is a legal abortion.

[myboyfriendpetebuttigieg]

My emotions are valid*

*valid does not mean healthy, or good, or to be privileged above common sense and kindness

[proxi-centauri]

A distinction for anyone who is young and hasn’t figured this out yet:

You are allowed to have whatever emotions you want. No one can control your emotions. Emotions are healthy responses to things.

You are not allowed to have behaviors that are harmful just because you have certain emotions. Your behaviors are what you can control, and they are far easier to control than your emotions.

You can be jealous about someone or their talents until you turn green, but it is harmful to yourself and to that person if you try to sabotage them because of it. You can be so angry you can literally feel your temperature rise, but this does not give you permission to rage at others.

Your emotions are valid. They are always valid. You are a person of value. However, you behaviors are not always justified just because of those emotions. You may not be able to control you emotions, but you can certainly control your behaviors.

[jumpingjacktrash]

and this one, i beg you to learn before you become right-wing fundamentalists: just because something gives you revulsion feelings does not mean it’s morally wrong.

you may be sex-repulsed; that doesn’t mean sex is dirty and bad. maybe you were bullied by teenage girls; that doesn’t mean teenage girls are a force of evil. perhaps a villain in a work of fiction reminds you of someone who abused you; that doesn’t mean people who enjoy that character or that fiction are abusive. your feelings about those things are absolutely valid, and it’s not right for people to tell you you shouldn’t feel that way. but it’s also not right for you to act out against others based on those feelings.

that instinct to generalize served our species well when we were hunter-gatherers living in small bands in a hostile wilderness. you nibble a delicious-looking berry, you throw up, you know that berry is BAD and you make the yuck face whenever you see it so the other hominids know it’s a bad one. but in the modern world, in the information age, there are so many complex things you might encounter, you’re going to have badfeels about a lot of things that aren’t actually across-the-board bad.

you need to not be ruled by your hominid yuckberry instinct. that’s where bigotry comes from.

[autisticexpression]

That last line deserves to be an iconic tumblr quote.

[visual-infinity]

btw_its_me_anju__

Wow😮😮so beautiful 😍😍

[theshunbun]

[visual-infinity]

ronald_soethje

There is always something you could look forward to explore

[simonalkenmayer]

“Its lazy for cashiers to sit down

And it’s weird to care. Work shouldn’t be an endurance test. Let me sit. We’re not doing a survivor challenge. You don’t think people can sit down and work at the same time? You’re gonna be real mad when you find out what an office is.”

[disgruntled-foreign-patriarch]

actually 1000% agree

[disgruntled-neighborhood-wife]

Actually had a customer call a manager bc I was sitting behind the counter and did not help her when my foot was broken.

[thepowerwithin]

Don’t slip back into the darkness. How ever tempting it may seem, remember that you don’t belong there. There are much greater places in store for you.

Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin |twitter

[jensafterlife74]

Please never give up 👆 

[poems-and-word]

Poems & Words

[we-could-call-it-love]

He looked at her the way all women want to be looked at by a man.

-F. Scott Fitzgerald

[rrh90-2]

Desire....lust...... want....need....passion.....love.....

Possession.....mine....

[anicklebittome]

You can only choose 1

[mermaids-down-in-heaven-3-deact]

No.5 all day long 😍 or for back up purposes no.1 ☺️

[countrystylejim]

2 or 5

[changingriver]

No 3 until my dermatologist tells me to much sun then no. 5

[jensafterlife74]

I will have to say two for me 

[resoluteryshimmerings]

[dombruce2016]

If we laugh together, please dont let me cry alone....💜

[digitalwhore]

Liking men is not a curse

Liking men is not unfortunate, or impure compared to liking other genders. Loving men is a morally neutral thing, and can be a wonderful thing and a thing worth celebrating to the individual person; don’t shame people for it

[jensafterlife74]

Love, understanding and respect Men is pure love 😍 

[pugzman3]

Just a girl and her pup.

You're welcome.

[jensafterlife74]

something to make you smile ☺ 

[erinsusanne]

[taramysweetlove]

[dombruce2016]

If I let you in, I find you special in some way….💜

[a1wayssunny]

[freakonaleashgurl2]

It’s music to my ears❤️

[whiskeynights4us]

☝️😈🥃

[coxlut]

Amen to that 🌧🌧😴😴

[oldmanhorny-deactivated20220912]

Oooh yes……

[jensafterlife74]

nothing like it