Hey there! I'm Jo and welcome to my self-ship blog! I am 27 years of age, which to the youngsters here probably seems like I'm 50 or something. It's fine, they'll learn eventually. You can read more about me on my carrd!
I've been a self-shipper since middle school. In fact, my first ever crush was a Yu-Gi-Oh! character back when I was 11 or 12! So I've been at this for a long time. I found the Tumblr self-ship community by chance back in 2019 and figured this would be a chill place for me to make friends that get me instead of talking my non-self-shipping friends' ears off. I've had a few ups and downs here since then, but I'm back and hoping to have a better experience now that I'm in a better place! Hope to make some friends!
Anyhow, my F/O list! Let's talk about that! Gonna focus on the main ones here, you can see the rest here! Gonna throw this part under a read more so this post isn't stupidly long.
Pro-ship vs anti-ship statement here.
(Divider from this post, and here's the picrew)
Starting with Osomatsu! He's my primary F/O right now (and will stay that way for a long time), and I don't really feel comfortable sharing him. I don't mind interacting with someone who ships with him if it's an inactive ship, but if you really like him then I'm gonna have to ask you to go. (Side note: My friends and I call my ship with him Joso)
Next is Matt Holt, yes the one from Voltron. I love him. Don't care if VLD sucked, he was the best part of it to me. I'm mildly uncomfortable sharing him but can deal with it if I can block a tag! (My friends and I don't really have a name figured out for my ship with Matt, but sometimes we call it Jatt)
Moving on, we've got Saeyoung, or 707, from Mystic Messenger. He's so. He's sooooo. I love him sm. Also iffy about sharing him but, once again, if it's something I can ignore easily then I'm probably alright. (We call this ship Jo7, like the salute emote o7)
Recently added Baxter and nightowl from Our Life and Blooming Panic respectively to my main list. I am also iffy when it comes to sharing them but it's the same as with Matt and Sae. (Don't really have ship names for them from my friends lmao I just call them Joxter and nightjo usually
Alright, that's the gang! Like I said, the rest are on my carrd. Thanks for readin'!
imagine your f/o getting home late (for any reason)
you're already asleep, and holding onto this one plushie/pillow like your life depends on it. they think for a moment that you're holding it just the way you hold them/they hold you, and the thought that thinking of them helps you sleep brings a smile to their face. the smile quickly drops though, as they start to get a little jealous. they could certainly hold you better.
you spend the night being cuddled by your f/o without knowing <3
Burying your head in the crook of their neck and breathing deep, fingers tangled in their clothes or woven into their hair... feeling arms wrap around you, their breath a gentle breeze as they pull you close, murmuring words for you alone to hear.
Your f/o will still love you even if your condition worsens. Whether temporary or permanent, sudden or a gradual decline, they will remain by your side, ready to support you however they can.
If it ever feels like it's all too much, they'll hold you for as long as you need, finding a haven in their arms. Right here, right now, they're with you. This moment will always be gentle. It will always be safe.
You are loved, and you will continue to be loved, no matter how things change.
It's been a hot minute since I made a personal post but I realized I never mentioned this
I started T on February 28th this year and it's been going great! I've also lost 20 lbs in the last 2 months since I started working out and eating healthier!
Genuinely hate when people tag something as character/reader when it's actually a named oc, like.......girliepop i am just trying to read some stuff i can project onto........don't make this harder for me by mistagging your oc fic as reader
Hey there! I'm Jo and welcome to my self-ship blog (formerly sanjis-soulmate)! I am 25 years of age, which to the youngsters here probably seems like I'm 50 or something. It's fine, they'll learn eventually. You can read more about me on my carrd!
I've been a self-shipper since middle school. In fact, my first ever crush was a Yu-Gi-Oh! character back when I was 11 or 12! So I've been at this for a long time. I found the Tumblr self-ship community by chance back in 2019 and figured this would be a chill place for me to make friends that get me instead of talking my non-self-shipping friends' ears off. I've had a few ups and downs here since then, but I'm back and hoping to have a better experience now that I'm in a better place! Hope to make some friends!
Anyhow, my F/O list! Let's talk about that! Gonna focus on the main ones here, you can see the rest here! Gonna throw this part under a read more so this post isn't stupidly long.
Pro-ship vs anti-ship statement here.
Starting with Osomatsu! He's my primary F/O right now (and will stay that way for a long time), and I don't really feel comfortable sharing him. I don't mind interacting with someone who ships with him if it's an inactive ship, but if you really like him then I'm gonna have to ask you to go. (Side note: My friends and I call my ship with him Joso)
Next is Matt Holt, yes the one from Voltron. I love him. Don't care if VLD sucked, he was the best part of it to me. I'm mildly uncomfortable sharing him but can deal with it if I can block a tag! (My friends and I don't really have a name figured out for my ship with Matt, but sometimes we call it Jatt)
Moving on, we've got Saeyoung, or 707, from Mystic Messenger. He's so. He's sooooo. I love him sm. Also iffy about sharing him but, once again, if it's something I can ignore easily then I'm probably alright. (We call this ship Jo7, like the salute emote o7)
Alright, that's the gang! Like I said, the rest are on my carrd. Thanks for readin'!
gonna rework my carrd i think, there are things i'm wanting to do with it. plus it'll make space for me to add more f/os. taking the link off my blog for now
hiii your f/o is window shopping and thinking of you. your f/o is hearing a joke and thinking of something you said that made them laugh. your f/o is seeing flowers and thinking of getting you some. your f/o is seeing a restaurant and thinking abt if you'd like it. your f/o is seeig a jacket and thinking if it would fit you. your f/o is thinking of you
Your f/o sees you as a work of art ; you are special, unique, and so very important to them.
Your f/o hears your voice as a melody ; they love to listen to you laugh, rant, speak, and express yourself.
Your f/o views your existence as a blessing ; you are a very special person to them, your presence in their life means everything to them.
Your f/o acknowledges your personality and existence as important ; you are you, and to them, that is incredible. They love being able to know you, appreciate you, and make you feel important.
You deserve to be seen, cherished, & uplifted in these ways. There is no doubt that your f/o will always remind of them for you.
[here's the link if you would like to support my ko-fi! thank you for reading.]
Imagine your f/o resting their head on your lap. For a moment, they gaze at you with a warm smile. They feel their cheeks warm up and vocalize their thoughts.
"Being with you like this makes me feel safe, you make me feel safe. And I wouldn't have it any other way."
[here's the link if you would like to support my ko-fi! thank you for reading.]
nothing feels as amazing as knowing your f/o would be SO into you and knowing you're so into them. like the two of you giggling over how much you love each other. buying/making gifts for each other. doing the most to impress the other because youre so in love and you just want to be with them.
imagine holding your f/o tight, letting them bury their face in your neck, knowing their scent, how they feel in your arms, so wholly and completely you feel like you melt together, them knowing that they're safe in your hands
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