heavydirtysoul

Tristan /30/🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈(he/his) personal/multi-fandom to the extreme

[funnytwittertweets]

[trentreznorspussy]

[javarisx-fightingthosedemons]

[homunculus-argument]

Being overstimulated is such a weird thing to explain to people. Like "hey sorry, I'm not mad at you and this is nobody's fault and I'm not blaming anyone for it happening, I am aware this is a part of regular everyday life but I am mentally crumbling because There Have Been Things Happening nonstop for 5 hours straight back to back with no breaks, and I really need to sit down in complete silence for like 15-25 minutes, after which I will be completely fine and can proceed as normal. But if I'm not allowed to have that, I will resort to violence."

[lutavero]

2x11 I 3x04 I 4x02

911: LONE STAR

[thekidsarentalright]

keep quiet, nothing comes as easy as you

[lustcannibalism]

[rihannasx]

[jramseyi]

As seasons change the fish must migrate.

Prints

[svogliata-mente]

we heard about siblings but there is another very underrated but still pretty fundamental dynamic imho that explains a lot about a person so

which one are you

oldest cousin

older cousin batch

middle cousin batch

younger cousin batch

youngest cousin

wtf are you talking about

Voting ended onMar 2, 2023

[bioethicists]

'recovering' or 'healing' by starting to hate your former self + shame or mock others for being the way you used to be isn't actually very healing. you can acknowledge + be grateful that you have changed without transferring all your self hatred/shame onto others.

[bioethicists]

it makes me so mad/sad to see the new trend of 'recovery posts' on here that are like "it's so embarrassing to not be trying to better yourself" or "i can't believe i used to just wallow in my room all day + burden everyone else with my problems" like where is the compassion in that? where did you learn to hate your suffering self so intensely? self-hatred is never going to be a radical or healing praxis + bootstraps bullshit is still bootstraps bullshit when you put a cutesy mental health tag on it.

[deepestfriendgoophero]

Gentle reminder here that there are elder queers out there. Real elders, people in their 80s and 90s who survived, who are here. You can get there, old age does exist for us.

I know an old lesbian couple who have been married since the moment they legalized it. One woman can hardly walk anymore but she loves Hallmark ornaments, so her wife supports her against her walker during Christmas so she can look at them more easily.

I know a transgender man who started transitioning only 10 years ago at 60, and he's brilliant and funny and brings his grandchildren by to get sweets.

I know an asexual woman who, beamed and told me she absolutely loved not having a husband, and that she "never once regretted not getting married. I never felt that way about anybody! Why force it?" She lives with her parrot and loves salsa dancing.

Our elders exist. So many of us have been wiped out and erased on purpose, but we're here. And that means you can get there. When you're old and grey, when you're retired and done, there will be people who will love you and will care for you.

[grumpygandalf]

what was your favorite PBS kids show airing in the 00's, o aging user base?

cyberchase

sagwa

between the lions

dragon tales

arthur

zoom

george shrinks

zoboomafoo

mr roger's neighborhood

Voting ended onFeb 26, 2023

[enlargers-deactivated20170205]

“can i ask you something?” my immediate reply says “go for it" but my mind has already gone through the seven stages of grief

[morganwriteblr]

Handwriters and crossword solvers!! How do you write a capital letter E ?

Vertical line first, then three horizontal lines, obviously!

horizontal lines first and then a vertical to connect them, of course!

like a square bracket [ with an extra horizontal line in the middle, duh!

like a capital C with a line in the middle, how else!

some other way (explain??)

Voting ended onMar 1, 2023

I have polls and a burning desire for answers....

AKA I've been doing a big book of crossword puzzles and I wanna see if anyone does their E's the same way as me.

Bonus/Extra credit question !!!

If you do,--or have ever done--crossword puzzles, (in a language/alphabet that has upper and lower cases) do you fill in the answers using capital or lowercase letters?

[liberalsarecool]

Religious indoctrination is based on submission to patriarchal opportunists.

The exploitation by religious men of children and teens is in millions. It's in every town and every parish. There are billions in settlements.

Why even bring up drag queens? That's how guilty people try to distract.

[superdogbiter]

Have you ever had a pet named after either a celebrity or a name from a tv show/movie/book?

Yes i did

No i never did that

Voting ended onFeb 26, 2023

Put in the tags please if you answered yes lets have fun with this

For example my childhood dog was named Cher after the singer and yes she had a brother named Sunny