About Me✨
Hi, friends!
I’m Jay, your resident femmeboy and all-around too-many-labels Queer. I’m asexual and aromantic, but I’m also polyamorous, nonbinary, and in love with the Leather scene.
I’m currently getting my master’s degree studying the intersection between asexuality and kink/BDSM, so if you want to hear me infodump about that, just send over an ask (or a DM, your choice).
I will never post photos of myself on here (is that even allowed anymore?) and tend not to of others, but I can’t guarantee otherwise. However, if you want gritty Queer history, dirty jokes, or education on BDSM/kink/Leather, feel free to stick around.
I exist in a liminal space between not blocking teenagers and not actively encouraging interactions for this blog (although i won’t follow you back). I do mark posts I think have sexually explicit content as mature, but it's up to you to decide how you want your age setting or what you want to see🤷🏼♀️ (however, if you are a teenager and DM me, just say so, ty)
I also have an insta and a Bluesky (formerly Twitter) under the same username, which I’m either more or less active on than here.
Love you, and have a great day!













