The Kat with Tonics

🏳️‍⚧️Kat - 32 - she/they🏳️‍⚧️ enby/intersex/transfemme/poly/lesbian/ace cishet men, bigots, minors. terfs, conservatives DNI mac & cheese connoisseur 🇨🇦

[kat4t0nix]

Trans Girl Seeking Roommate(s)

Hey there, I'm Kat. I'm a 32 year old trans woman. Some of you may have seen my posts floating around, or have seen them reblogged by others.

I've been in an incredibly precarious mental state. I've attempted to kill myself three times in the last few days, and part of it is due to the fact that I'm in an oppressive environment that's harming my mental health, and I desperately want out of here. I want to do... something to make myself better. Making this post is my taking that first step to getting better.

I've also been on a waiting list for affordable housing that's tied to my income for nearly two years, however, I can't keep waiting for something to happen. I truly need a place to be where I can feel happy to be who I am, and not where I'm regarded to be an ideology to be believed in, or not...

I currently reside in Ontario, Canada and am looking for a place here, however, if need be, I can relocate to another part of the country, but I likely won't be able to fully afford travel to other parts of the country. I'm also able to provide/split on rent, however, my income is limited, but I can provide enough to make an impact, and make things work.

If there's anybody out there. Anybody at all that's looking for a roommate here in Ontario, or another part of Canada, please, PLESE reach out to me and send me a DM.

Please help me get better, and get out on my own. Please. I want so badly to live, and to not live in a place where I'm made to feel unwanted as a trans person.

[kat4t0nix]

Reblogging this again because I just had to bare witness to not one, but two of my family members go on a conservative tirade about how poor people are losers, that people they don't like, need to be put to death, and that trans people like me educating kids by reading them stories, is somehow wrong.

PLEASE, IF ANYBODY IS OUT THERE THAT'S LOOKING FOR A ROOMMATE, PLEASE HELP ME GET OUT OF THIS SITUATION

[rejoyous]

U gotta tell the tgirl ur fucking her pussy looks nice, not just when she has a dick. Affirm her penis but also affirm her pussy

[drslouch]

transgender lesbian office ladies. you agree. reblog

[daydreaming-scheming-demon]

tumblr staff will let the thousands of porn bots on here run rampant yet will take down trans comics with no actual nudity

i originally reblogged this post, but since staff took it down you can't fucking see my reblog anymore. well i liked this comic, i want it on my blog, and it does not include any fucking nudity. especially compared to all the straight up porn staff allows to go free

so here it is

untitled by Pas (paxiti), all pages from May 23, 2018 to June 22, 2023

[devoutdaughter]

from the erotic magazine Heels & Hose, 1969

[finalgirlyeva]

Emergency Dental Assistance

hey y'all, going in today to address some chronic dental pain. if there is anyway for assistance to help ease the cost of this please consider spreading this post or donating. i have been in chronic pain with issues for little over a month and i can no longer manage the amount of pain I'm in.

if you would like to put some money towards it for me, i would greatly appreciate any help!

venmo - @love_and_death

cashapp - $yevaeleanor

(please note ko-fi takes a cut, venmo or cashapp is more direct)

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[kat4t0nix]

If you'll allow me a moment of your time... this won't take long.

I'm posting this to show myself as bare as I can, and to show how far I've come, and that I want to see where my being on HRT takes me. I'm posting this because I'm at a point where I can see... something. The person I was supposed to be, but wasn't born as? The person I was born as, but am only now starting to see?

I guess... if anything, I'm starting to love whom I'm becoming, and for me... it means everything...

Don't die wondering... it's never too late.

[kat4t0nix]

God I'm so fucking hot 😵‍💫

[icecream-noodle]

Australia's latest Federal Anti-trans bill

On Monday Nationals MP Alison Penfold introduce this private bill to federal parliament in an attempt to reshape the Sex Discrimination Act to target trans people while claiming not to target trans people

Sex Discrimination Amendment (Sex-based Rights) Bill 2026

Helpful information Text of bill First reading: Text of the bill as introduced into the Parliament Third reading: Prepared if the

Transcript of second reading

[icecream-noodle]

Please help spread this petition far and wide for visibility The above reactionary bill was made in retaliation towards a trans woman winning a case in federal court against transphobes so now they're accellerating to hurt us all (Giggle Vs Tickle)

Hands off our protections

Hands off our Protections Our communities are facing some of the most serious attacks on our rights and protections in many years.  Right no

[cerisery]

Please sign that petition if you can, this bill is worse than it seems. Its primary purpose is to exclude trans women from women's spaces, including bathrooms, prisons, homeless shelters, and sports. It also cements transphobic, intersexist, and acephobic beliefs that are already somewhat present in Australia's law.

It is worth noting that this bill is being pushed by the National party, one of Australia's main right-wing parties. The party currently in power is the Labour party, our biggest left-wing/centrist party. The party pushing for this bill does not have the votes needed to pass it, and thus either needs to convince centrists to agree with them or are doing this to curry favour for the next election or some other goal.

When it comes to the bill itself, they are defining anything relating to one's sex in terms of the sex binary in a way which excludes intersex people in many ways. They also are changing the definition of sexual attraction, and the main change this makes is an exclusion of non-binary people in attraction. However, it is also worded so a trans woman lesbian is considered straight, and their definition also doesn't properly include asexual people. Those wording issues are already present in the original law, however.

They are also explicitly stating that it's okay to discriminate against transfems in women's spaces of any kind, including prisons, bathrooms, homeless shelters, and sports. That is the main change being pushed for.

[icecream-noodle]

(Source) and (Source) ^ This

[icecream-noodle]

Keep reblogging this please to help gain attention to the issue! Labor, the majority government, have been especially quiet about this issue while right wing media has pumped out tons of anti-trans political puff pieces while only one Greens member and one Independant member have spoken up!

Email or call your local MP if you can and tell them they need to publically push back and press them on the harm this bills mere existence is causing! Lately Labors silence on issues is not a good one and they are far from being functional enough for the people since doubling down on right wing policy. A simple reminder: Labor is not your friend, they're bought out and working for someone else

[justmaghookit]

You can also email and call your state member, not just your federal one as if they get enough complaints they may additionally bother the federal MP on your behalf! Make noise at all levels of government!

If you don't know who your member is you can use this link to look up both state and federal members, just use your postcode or suburb to check.

https://www.reignitedemocracyaustralia.com.au/findmymp/

[justmaghookit]

Parliament is still sitting so you still have time to contact your representatives!

[icecream-noodle]

Two counter protest events have been made as Far-Right groups, Such as One Nation, attempt to coordinate across the country! Magandjin ('Brisbane') on 12th of July at King George Square! Naarm ('Melbourne') on 4th of July at Parliament House steps! In the mean time spread the word, make more posts about it all, email or call your MP and tell the community! If you're outside of Australia your reblogs are very valuable! If you're an ally then you need to get noisy and stand up for trans folk, make sure we're not the only ones talking about it

[cptapathy]

I've had a couple of 10k posts so please help to spread this for me

Mass Lobby for Trans Equality

Last year we broke the record for an LGBT+ mass lobby of Parliament. Will you help us break it again? Join us on 25th June 2026 to demand be

On the 25th of June people in the UK will be attending parliament to lobby their MPs asking them to challenge the new transphobic EHRC guidance.

The new guidance bans trans people from all toilets. Trans people will be excluded from their genders toilets by virtue of being trans, trans people will be banned from their AGAB's toilets by virtue of not looking like their AGAB.

Trans people are being pushed out of existence. Our MPs have an opportunity to oppose this becoming law, but they won't do it unless they are scared of the electorate kicking them out of office.

We need to show up in force, we need to show them that passing these laws and the upcoming section 28 2.0 will alienate the voters and they will lose their seat.

Please spread this, please come, please write to you MP.

Here is a link to a letter writing guide

The EHRC's new guidance marks a dangerous step backwards for Trans+ rights in the UK. Far from protecting equality, it risks giving cover to

Last year we lobbied against the ruling, and we had the largest public lobby in queer history, larger than the lobby during the AIDs crisis. Join me in the streets as we fight for our rights and let's make this the largest lobby in all of history.

[grave-of-ophelia]

Trans woman in need of help

Ive been trying to get my life together for some time now, and that started with my transition. Ive been needing help living with disabilities and burned out, and now dropping out of uni. Getting employed is pretty much impossible and I've been surviving off savings and these donation posts. Food and bills and my own hrt depend on thse until I manage to get my life together, which is very hard when your life hangs on generous donations every month.

I'll be most thankful with anything you can help with, please. And share this post around so more people can see it. I'm asking for an amount that could sustain me for many months ahead, and I'll be trying to get up on my own.

Paypal

Ko-fi

$80 / $2000

[plumberrypudding]

another Black trans woman was found murdered, louisiana this time, and the news is consistently misgendering her in all the reporting. her name was marlow trottie and she was only 35 and she was a woman. don’t let them erase her womanhood.

[gaytanicpanic]

[mousidy]

a pool for just the transfems

[wolf-girl-dick]

im so fucking tired of the constant humiliation ritual that is applying for jobs now. ive had a really shit week and need a pick me up, on top of needing to do laundry and doing some grocery shopping. bare minimum I need like, $20. anything more would be amazing. please I need fucking anything to keep myself going right now.

Go to paypal.me/Vellich0r and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.

[wolf-girl-dick]

so, its been a few days. I havent gotten anything. id like to be able to do laundry this weekend and the minimum the app my apartment uses for the machines will allow me to put on is $10. if anyone could spare that i'd be eternally grateful.

[wolf-girl-dick]

hey, so, I havent eaten in 2 days. I also have a job interview tomorrow that im going to be showing up to in dirty clothes. I dont know how much more desperate I can be for yall to actually like, do something. I have enough on my bus card for the trip to the interview but not the way back. if someone can throw me $2.80 so I can at least get home after being humiliated at another job interview that would be really awesome. im literally begging for pocket change at this point, someone please pull through for me.

[wolf-girl-dick]

we're going on day 3 without food. that interview is in a couple hours and I still havent been able to do laundry. I tried to add a couple dollars that my roommate gave me to my transit card and the bare minimum that they will let me add is $5 which is so ridiculous. i dont know how to make this plea any more meaningful, im literally begging at this point. please, if you can't donate at least spread this around. maybe someone you know has $5 they can give a trans femme in need.

[wolf-girl-dick]

im so fucking tired of the constant humiliation ritual that is applying for jobs now. ive had a really shit week and need a pick me up, on top of needing to do laundry and doing some grocery shopping. bare minimum I need like, $20. anything more would be amazing. please I need fucking anything to keep myself going right now.

Go to paypal.me/Vellich0r and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.

[wolf-girl-dick]

so, its been a few days. I havent gotten anything. id like to be able to do laundry this weekend and the minimum the app my apartment uses for the machines will allow me to put on is $10. if anyone could spare that i'd be eternally grateful.

[wolf-girl-dick]

hey, so, I havent eaten in 2 days. I also have a job interview tomorrow that im going to be showing up to in dirty clothes. I dont know how much more desperate I can be for yall to actually like, do something. I have enough on my bus card for the trip to the interview but not the way back. if someone can throw me $2.80 so I can at least get home after being humiliated at another job interview that would be really awesome. im literally begging for pocket change at this point, someone please pull through for me.

[wolf-girl-dick]

we're going on day 3 without food. that interview is in a couple hours and I still havent been able to do laundry. I tried to add a couple dollars that my roommate gave me to my transit card and the bare minimum that they will let me add is $5 which is so ridiculous. i dont know how to make this plea any more meaningful, im literally begging at this point. please, if you can't donate at least spread this around. maybe someone you know has $5 they can give a trans femme in need.

[wolf-girl-dick]

so, by some fucking miracle, I got the job. and a good friend threw me $20. but that still leaves me short of getting to and from work until I get paid. I know that a monthy bus pass runs $100 so thats the biggest goal. money for groceries would also be appreciated.

[iamheavymeta-lll]

Contemporary African-American Artist — Mickalene Thomas