As a child who was in school in the early 90âs, I remember starting each day placing my hand over my heart and reciting a pledge that children today know nothing about. Â We were told that doing so was a sign of respect for our country. Â Then as I grew up I remember the chill in the air around us, sitting in the stands, watching our high school football team standing tall and proud while the anthem was being sung. Â It was a powerful feeling knowing that every game, both sides, unified for 5 minutes while a talented singer hit those high octaves.
âdeference to a right, privilege, privileged position, or someone or   something considered Â
to have certain rights or privileges; proper acceptance or courtesy;  acknowledgment:â
ârespectful submission or yielding to the judgment, opinion, will, etc.,of another.  respectful or courteous regard:in deference to his wishes.â
I now am in my 30âs and watch the news in horror.  No longer does our nation feel unified.  We are losing our traditions, our dignities, and our respect for one another. Is  our First Amendment still a right?
âthat which is due to anyone by just claim, legal guarantees, moral principles, etc.:â
I can honestly say that I didnât realize the origin of âThe Star Spangled Bannerâ prior to writing this. Â I just knew I had my own opinion of what has been making national news. Â Now knowing how it began I have to say that I do not agree with the athletes who are choosing to sit while it is being played.
The anthem to me is not only a tradition,  but a sign of respect for the people whoâs lives have been lost in war and who are still fighting  for our social justices.  A part of showing that respect is âdeferringâ all other opinion, prejudices, and reasoning to honor the many who, were, and are, standing on a battlefield rather than a ball field. Â
Children younger and younger are being taught to stand up for what ârightâ, but what if what is ârightâ is putting aside differences in opinion to respect a tradition for a measly 5 minutes. Why not take that time to stand in silence to honor the brave, to pray to the God who you believe in, or to meditate on the game to be played.
I am now a mom and completely SICK and tired of hearing all the whining in the news today.  Guess what America⊠racism will always be present as long as you choose to speak that word.  You want to make a change in the world⊠then stop hating each other.  Teach our young children to RESPECT everyone.  Stop defining yourselves and your peers by the color of skin and just call fellow americanâs, AMERICAN.  Oh, and put your big boy/girl pants on and stand up in respect for your fellow americanâs who are dying on foreign land so you can get paid your millions of dollars.  You canât handle that JOB⊠then get your ass back in school and find another career!
The mom whoâs teaching her child to respect!
To ALL Professional Athletes: As a child who was in school in the early 90's, I remember starting each day placing my hand over my heart and reciting a pledge that children today know nothing about. Â