Star Dust And Ashes

23| she/her

[traumasurvivors]

Your trauma is valid if it was “invisible” and left no physical marks.

Your trauma is valid if no one else saw it happen or even knows about it.

[traumasurvivors]

This is just a reminder that if you cope by focusing on the "positive", that's valid and I'm not judging how you cope. But please stop pushing that message on others.

Here's a blog post I wrote on Toxic Positivity.

(I want to reaffirm that it is okay if you use statements like I used in my blog post to cope for yourself, this is just about pushing the views onto others.)

[borderlinereminders]

Not everything is a personal attack against you. Your friend may not be ignoring you on purpose but may be feeling drained. Someone isn’t always being short with you because they’re angry at you but may be trying to hold their own emotions together. Please don’t always assume malicious intent. Most of the time, people are just being people and trying to survive their own lives. It’s not necessarily about you.

[tangerinedream]

i just want a girl to look at me and hope i’m gay

[oifelixcmerebrou]

[saintluvly]

LOVE IS THE WHOLE POINT. OF IT ALL

[lordvast]

Tell me more about life 17 year old on the internet

[saintluvly]

ok die alone then idc

[thebibliosphere]

God, I love the block function. Just *poof* annoying, bad faith, projecting people being unnecessarily hostile, gone.

[dietspam16]

diversity win! that annoying bad faith projecting unnecessarily hostile person is unblockable because they paid for access to your blog!

[anxietyproblem]

[anxietymamii-deactivated2022050]

[kittenkat33]

Who you gonna fight dani

If you know, you know 🙄

[just-shower-thoughts]

Someone probably thinks you’re hot.

[ironpour]

so. how does anyone ever have the time or energy

[nyabbycat]

[memewhore]

[teacupsandtimelords]

Fun Fact! Two Weeks Notice is not a REQUIREMENT in any sense of the word. It’s a nicety. A polite gesture, and only polite for the MANAGEMENT because THEY want time to find someone to replace you. They cannot withhold your last paycheck if you refuse to give two weeks notice, and they cannot force you to work the two weeks. Additionally, they cannot report that to any future employers who call them regarding your work history. In fact, they’re not allowed to comment on your performance AT ALL! Legally they are only allowed to confirm that you were an employee during the dates you list - anything else and they open themselves up to civil lawsuits in which they can be sued for damages for any number of reasons. So fuck Two Weeks Notice. if you work for a fucked company, they deserve to get fucked in return.

[continent-of-wild-endeavor]

If you ever feel bad about not giving two weeks' notice, or like you're being unprofessional/unfair, think about this: If your boss fired you, would they give YOU two weeks' notice? Or would they have you escorted out of the building then and there? Anything they don't owe you, you don't owe them. Fuck 'em.

[alunarrose]

Oh these are therapeutic

[severalowls]

I'd just like to add a classic:

[lichrelly]

just got 4 notes in my post. they all love me

[dankouu-blog-deactivated2020112]

[truthdoesnotleadtofreedom-deact]

Bless whoever made this.

[deathclawpussy-blog]

Also a huge mood

[kittenkat33]

Is a mood for today

[bitchsy]

[kittenkat33]

[kittenkat33]

Is a mood for today

[thecryptkeeper]

loved the age where you could look up paranormal stuff and have no gauge of what’s real/fake so you’re just like “oh my god …. a ghost caught on tape and no one is talking about this”

[thecryptkeeper]

ten year old me after seeing the grainiest picture imaginable of a figure in a cemetery: