sometimes framing the fact that someone doesn’t like you or believe in you or has a complete misunderstanding of who you are in a different way really helps. are their opinions something that I really care about? like other than their opinion of me, do I agree with their morals, their values, their beliefs? are they all shitty in my perspective? then maybe then I should also disregard what they said to me since we can’t see eye to eye on anything and move on



















