Lace and Such.

Stuff I like. 29 year old California girl missing home. Side blog: @legitjustfandoms for all your fandom related needs.

[laceandsuch]

27 and missing California.

[fairycosmos]

a small thing i learned from my sister dying is that i really would rather the people i love be a burden than be whatever the hell else they'd be if they weren't. yes even if it's messy and not always fair and hard completely inconvenient for everyone involved. even if it's weird. even if i'm rolling my eyes a bit inside sometimes. i just want you to bother me. please always bother me

[fairycosmos]

like "it's rotten work" "not to me not if it's you" actually sometimes it's still rotten work. even if it's you. and i'd still do it a million times over

[laceandsuch]

IM GOING TO SEE MY LOVES TOMORROW I CANT BELIEVE HOW LUCKY I AM TO SEE THE BOYS PERFORM AND TO SPEND AN AMAZING NIGHT WITH PART OF THE 5SOSFAM TOMORROW (Im gonna cry so much guys)

[nihilisticlinguistics]

adulthood notes:

The Rodeo Rule: you only have to do it for the first time once.

The Rohan Rule: if you are at a social function full of new people and you want to be liked, find someone doing important work like setup or food prep and offer to help.

The Tutorial Mode Rule: to navigate an unfamiliar situation where you fear you will mess up an interaction, preface the interaction by mentioning that you've never done this before, and let them know if you have a specific concern or question.

The Rocket Science Rule: most new things you want to try seem very complicated but are simple when taken step by step.

The [X] Will Remember That Rule: if you need to make small talk with the same person on a regular basis, try to save one fact or current event in their life from a given conversation and bring it up next time you talk.

The Cool Binder Rule: by wearing clothes and accessories that are to your taste instead of trying to blend in, people will be more likely to compliment you and show interest in you as a person.

[laceandsuch]

I’m 31 years old and tbh it’s probably not cool to have a hero at this age and I literally do not care because I met my hero yesterday and it was the coolest thing ever and I will never be over it. I went to the Savannah bananas game and I got to meet and get a photo with Jackson Olson!! I found his videos when I was such a horrible place in my life and I was feeling so down all the time and his whole story and whole message was so inspiring and really got me through things and is the whole reason I became a preschool teacher and this job means the absolute world to me I get to go to work every day and see these children that I love more than life itself and like these kids mean everything to me and I get to teach them and help them and just be there for them I wouldn’t be able to do that if I hadn’t found Jackson Olson’s videos on instagram truly so meeting him was like, one of the coolest things I’ve ever done I am so grateful to him for sharing his story because it really has changed my life I’ve never had a job that’s brought me such joy <3

[cock-holliday]

Idk man it’s so easy to get bogged down in all the bullshit online but when my then-6 year old cousin found out I was trans he said “ok” then corrected my grandma when she misgendered me. I was once the third between a gay man and a lesbian. Two lesbians once invited me back to their place when I presented as a man. I met an AMAB nb butch who looked strikingly to outsiders like a cis man and it was one of the more sapphic experiences I’ve had. I nervously wore a boydyke shirt to pride and got 3 different cis-looking femme folks tell me they loved my shirt. I once told a trans group at a protest that any pronouns were fine for me and one person said “wow, I’m impressed and intimidated by people like that. I don’t know that I could be that chill with pronouns.” I once told a GNC friend I wished I could wear a type of “opposite” gender clothing after I had already transitioned and so it would be associated with my AGAB and he said “You could just do it.” I’ve had cishet men fight cops for me before. The first time I had a doctor ask me if my name was different than what was on my forms I had to try not to cry. Last week, a phone call with a doctor’s office where I am generally cis passing asked unprompted if my name listed is what I want to be called. It touched me then too. I told a lesbian friend once I felt like my attraction to men AND women both felt gay. She said “makes sense.” And we moved on. I go by different pronouns in different circles. I’ve had gay women love my facial hair. I’ve had gay men like my tits. It’s all out there, I promise. It can be hard to find it but I promise there is community like you and community who likes you. And it’s more messy and beautiful than tumblr discourse makes it out to be.

[cock-holliday]

These are from the last 8 hours only. And not all of them.

We're here! We're here we're here we're here!

Check the notes! There are so many of us and so many who love us.

Queer love, baby!

[the-haiku-bot]

Check the notes! There are

so many of us and so

many who love us.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[ashthenewguy]

remember when we only had live versions of 18, lost boy, good girls are bad girls, and voodoo dolls.

[5sosmichael]

so yesterday

[laceandsuch]

but today is so so much better because we don’t have to listen to strangers screaming

[laceandsuch]

Oh my god we’ve come so far guys

[kaleidoscopeminds]

feeling like a god ☆

[laceandsuch]

I’m making friendship bracelets for the 5sos concert and one for sure says Michael’s passport because I think I’m hilarious iykyk

[noknowshame]

resurrected dead wife watching her own montage: wow I looked so hot in that

[rabbiteclair]

auto immune disorders happen when the immune system ignores regulatory factors and begins attacking healthy bodily tissues, due to what scientists refer to as "sheer love of the game"

[stuckinapril]

[moghedien]

One like nitpick thing that drives me crazy is when people call Blue Whales the largest whales or the largest living mammals or some shit like that

Because yes that is true. But when you frame it like that you are completely disregarding the absolutely batshit reality that Blue Whales are the largest animals that have ever existed on earth through the entire history of the planet and they are alive right now today

[omar-little]

ahhhh finally the weekend is beautiful and wide open ahead of me. surely this will be the weekend I finally get my whole life in order and do the twenty-seven things I've been putting off and fix my sleep schedule and make memories with friends and discover my purpose in this world. surely

[omar-little]

this time we're really gonna do it guys. I believe in all 4000 of us

[perfectday1972]

[wizardnaturalist]

a book should be $5 a little drink should be $2 and museum access should be free and all hours

[kindahoping4forever]

Cake @ Everyone's A Star NYC N1 - 13 June 2026