This site is full of the stupidest posts made by the dumbest people complaining about the most innocuous things and extracting offensive meaning from them
And to all of that I offer this: it's a very Boomer thing to say you need to be less sensitive
So I'll cup your face tenderly in my hands as I word it this way instead: you need to work on building up your own personal fortitude and tolerance for being uncomfortable sometimes. Not being MADE uncomfortable by others intentionally stomping on your boundaries and not rolling over and accepting abuse, but reaching a level where you're not taking personal offense to things no one means offensively.
I will repeat something that is often said on here to men who echo the cry of "not all men": If it does not directly reference/apply/is directed at YOU, it's not about you.
