Dominique

19 | she/her | multifandom: tøp, bts, teen wolf and other stuff. Studyblr/langblr: www.supergrades.tumblr.com

[gentlier]

Polls, quizzes, and masterposts for those of us who need some distractions that require very little brain power

Polls

1. Your ideal distraction is _____.

2. Do you wear make-up?

3. What food would you give up for $900,000?

4. Where would you put “prev”?

5. How old were you when you joined tumblr?

6. Have you always had the same favorite color?

7. What rating would your blorbo give your blog?

8. Do you want the good news or the bad news first?

9. Do you go into work if you’re feeling sick?

10. What is your favorite soup?

11. Have you ever edited a Wikipedia page?

12. Do you read or toss direction manuals?

13. Is water wet? Is salt salty? Is soil dirty? Is fire aflame? Is hair hairy?

14. What is your favorite kind of frosting?

15. How many of these cities have you been to?

16. What is your favorite kind of tea?

17. What milestone are you working towards?

18. What cartoon sound effect would you most like to be able to make?

19. How often do you “like” a youtube video?

20. Tell us about your favorite stuffed animal!

Uquizzes

1. Which character are you? (extensive!) (110 possible results!)

2. Plan a wedding, and I'll invite a secret guest!

3. Which eeveelution are you?

4. Making you the patron saint of something

5. What kind of fish/sea creature are you?

6. What kind of tragedy are you?

7. Which AO3 tag are you?

8. Become a Color

9. Walk through a garden with me

10. Which subtle way of saying “I love you” are you?

11. How would a fandom actually treat you?

12. What color is your lightsaber?

13. Which moon in the solar system are you?

14. What type of feral are you?

15. What kind of vampire are you?

16. Why does the fandom hate you?

17. What kind of warmth are you?

18. What type of cat are you?

19. What beautiful thing are you?

20. What flower used in Victorian flower language are you?

Masterposts

1. Folk & Fairytales

2. Old Hollywood & Film History

3. How to get into Poetry

4. Free Reading Resources

5. Taking Care of Yourself

6. Websites for Writers

7. Writing Prompts

8. Free Comfort Media (List 1) & (List 2)

9. PDF Library

10. Disability Survival Guide

11. TONS of Poll Blogs

12. Useful Life Skills & Resources

13. Art Resources

14. How to Do Chores

15. Subject Aesthetics Masterpost

16. Gothic Literature

17. Shakespeare Adaptations

18. How to Bullet Journal

[shubbabang]

Shout out to everyone who is just so tired So so exhausted So very very tired so very fatigued so sleepy and tired So

[thedreadvampy]

male gaze is not 'when person look sexy' or 'when misogynist make film'

death of the author is not 'miku wrote this'

I don't think you have to read either essay to grasp the basic concepts

death of the author means that once a work is complete, what the author believes it to mean is irrelevant to critical analysis of what's in the text. it means when analysing the meaning of a text you prioritise reader interpretation above author intention, and that an interpretation can hold valid meaning even if it's utterly unintentional on the part of the person who created the thing. it doesn't mean 'i can ignore that the person who made this is a bigot' - it may in fact often mean 'this piece of art holds a lot of bigoted meanings that the author probably wasn't intentionally trying to convey but did anyway, and it's worth addressing that on its own terms regardless of whether the author recognises it's there.' it's important to understand because most artists are not consciously and vocally aware of all the possible meanings of their art, and because art is communal and interpretive. and because what somebody thinks they mean, what you think somebody means, and what a text is saying to you are three entirely different things and it's important to be able to tell the difference.

male gaze is a cinematographic theory on how films construct subjectivity (ie who you identify with and who you look at). it argues that film language assumes that the watcher is a (cis straight white hegemonically normative) man, and treats men as relatable subjects and women as unknowable objects - men as people with interior lives and women as things to be looked at or interacted with but not related to. this includes sexual objectification and voyeurism, but it doesn't mean 'finding a lady sexy' or 'looking with a sexual lens', it means the ways in which visual languages strip women of interiority and encourage us to understand only men as relatable people. it's important to understand this because not all related gaze theories are sexual in nature and if you can't get a grip on male gaze beyond 'sexual imagery', you're really going to struggle with concepts of white or abled or cis subjectivities.

[cityoftheangelllls]

Nearly 20 years later and I still can't wrap my head around the fact that this was an actual Spongebob scene.

[pacificrim-archive]

[rocketmermaid]

Giant isopods are so cool but what’s with the sexy funk music

[hussainthemvp]

most sexual motherfucker in the ocean. 

[ijaazat]

lonely girls my beloved. i see you staying in your room, i see you standing in grocery store aisles feeling the sudden wave of isolation wash over you. i understand how badly you want and how bad that makes you feel. i get it. we're not alone. but we are.

[deanwinchesterapologist]

why are you as my roommate in our shared kitchen that we share

[bisousmiumiu-deactivated2021022]

whoever decided to put little ballerinas in jewellery boxes & play classical music , genius , I would like to give them a kiss

[sandandglass]

[kyloren]

HERCULES 1997 | dir. Ron Clements, John Musker

[sarahseeandersen]

[mystrothedefender]

its nice to know that this is something that other people do too.

[freshprincesubs]

“How come he don’t want me, man?”   Season 4, Episode 24: Papa’s Got A Brand New Excuse

[rkvsk]

“nothing will ruin your 20s more than thinking you should have your life together already.”

— I need to write this on every wall of my room. (via thisyearsgirls)

[stydixa]

She’s The Man (2006) Dir. Andy Fickman + Letterboxd reviews

[officialpizzarat]

pure of heart... dumb of ass.... bi of sexual....

[inkskinned]

“Even angry she was beautiful”. Even tired. Even sick. Even one crazy night later. Even with two broken ribs. Even, even, even.

An eye hangs in front of me. Always watching. How silly for me to care about being pretty. But I care about being pretty.

Do men feel like this? Even alone sometimes I catch myself fixing, tidying. I cross windows no one can see in and I worry that someone will see in. I lock the bathroom door and have strange, unlikely thoughts about people who will sneak in and rip the curtain off the rod and see me naked. Sometimes, in the worst moments, I wonder: what if there’s a camera and people are seeing this ugliness.

My mother taught me to plan underwear in such a way that if they found your body you wouldn’t be embarrassed. It seems insane until you watch six seconds of television; where our dead bodies are almost always mostly naked, even beautiful in death. I worry I will die in an unflattering position.

“Who cares what they think?” I ask myself. I don’t even want the attention of men. Dressing for the attention of men on a daily basis is a dangerous thing and isn’t sustainable on the metro system. I want the attention of other women.

But I still look in the mirror and adjust things. I do this and don’t think about men. I wear makeup and it’s not for men. I sit pretty in traffic and it’s not for men. This eye, I guess. The “them”. It never blinks. Maybe I am the one who is watching.

The woman in the comic book has been kidnapped and tortured. We zoom in on her lips. Beautiful. Even then.

[strawberries-and-honey-blog]

click on the image to see it clearer

Ok so I was a bit worried about the way my own biological father looks at me and I thought it was so bazar that I always even end up crying and it seems I’m really not the only one. and then after searching for so long, this is how they put it, “she is like my wife but 25 years younger, ofcourse it’s normal” 

men are terrifying, like I wish I could say this is so completely un normal, but how many times do you hear about fathers and step fathers sexually abuse their daughters. like I can’t help but wonder how many just simply don’t act on their thoughts like this guy but still have it in their heads.

and he worst part is, this doesn’t happen when the girl is like an adult, it happens when she is begining or is hitting puberty. 

I know this is “dark” and uncomfortable but the more you don’t talk about this, the more it happens and the more men try to normalize it. 

[strawberries-and-honey-blog]

this post has currently 4,300 notes, over half of these notes are full of responses like this. this isn’t even ¼th of the hate I’ve been getting

I’m just shocked but this is why pedophilia and incest within families happens. people care more about the reputation of men than the traumatizing experiences little girls face, while also telling girls who experience this and want to raise awareness to fuck off.

EDIT: again this was not meant to demonize men but you have to absolutely be living under a rock if you think this is not gendered. this is the average first age girls notice men looking at them sexually. can 11 year old boys really say the same from old women old enough to be their grandfathers? like men really out here thinking that their attraction to 5th graders is natural. stop trying to dismiss issues women little girls face and start let men take accountability

[puttingherinhistory]

Fucking look at how more girls say men start to notice them sexually between 7-9 years of age than 16-18.