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shrimperini

what couldve been ❤️💙💜

bicryingpotato

I would fight wars for her

megvautour

cnmcn

junglejim4322

Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane

junglejim4322

I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay

junglejim4322

“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch

transhumanisticpanspermia

When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.

Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.

More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.

Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?

3000s

hollow-head

"who do you self insert as when you read?"

This is me when I read:

metanarrates

all women should be more hairy and sweaty and eat more food and laugh more loudly. my stance as a feminist and also my stance as a lesbian pervert

cherrydanish

amrv-5

Does anyone know what to do about the temperature and also the prices

nightonblogmountain

willgrahamscock

they want you to care more about 'job' than yaoi... don't fall for this scam

omegaversereloaded

Divorce seems to radicalize american men in a way that needs to be studied

omegaversereloaded

A divorced american man will join a right wing terror group because he didnt get custody of the kids he didnt take care of at all

omegaversereloaded

An american man will have an affair with a colleague, get caught, get divorced, and join isis

ficklefeatherflaunter

Intelligent words from @junequeer

impactrueno

informative post i made for instagram regarding the catastrophic earthquakes here in my country but i thought i'd share it here too

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anxeious

stay-human

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