[tendie-defender]

We should bring back forest green.

[lesbianbreadwhore]

diet culture is so evil like. an older woman friend said to me (in response to me saying my gf isn't really into chocolate) "i WISH i didn't like chocolate" like. do you wish you didn't have skin to feel a summer breeze. do you wish you didn't have eyes to see the sunrise

[creamsiclemelt]

i do think a lot of the shit that cause problems with this fandom truly honestly comes down to this: a lot of people in HR fandom (and fandom in general, let's be VERY honest) do not understand that when they talk about BDSM and doms and subs don't realize they are talking about very real people in a very real community.

the things you say about "ilya wouldn't be mean to shane during sex, he loves shane too much" is a reflection on how you feel about real life doms who are "mean" to their subs.

the things you say about "shane can't be submissive in multiple ways, he's one of the best players in the world and extremely dominant in his sport" is a reflection on how you feel about real life subs and what you think their submission means about how good/bad they are at their job.

even the more subtle shit like, "ilya goes along with what shane says and does what he wants sexually and he does it just for shane. he loves shane and would be ok with anything" reflects on what you subtly think about doms having their own desires and what it means about their love for their partner.

shit like "once ilya has been to Enough Therapy and their relationship is settled enough, he's gonna stop wanting to be in charge and be willing to let shane take the reigns" is a reflection on a) how you feel about doms with trauma they're dealing with, b) bdsm being...a mental illness question mark? and c) submissives being selfish and the only ones benefiting from BDSM in a relationship.

like PLEASE just think for a second!!!!!

[hollandar]

Heated Rivalry — 1x06 ⤷ PHONE BLOWJOB

(sources below)

Faking It — #1, #2 Deadline — #3 Variety — #4, #5 Vulture — #6 The Wrap — #7 Vulture — #8

[comingatthecottage]

just thinking about how much shane loves submitting to ilya and how much ilya loves dominating shane :) it makes me happy

[hermywolf]

still baffles me the sheer amount of people who thought shane coming out to ilya as gay was him telling ilya he's attracted to men(???) instead of him coming out as not bisexual / not attracted to women. especially since their last like three conversations before that were just ilya going so are you bisexual or gay are you bisexual do you like women what are your thoughts on women are you into rose landry do you like her do you like women

[probuccalfat]

please don’t let heated rivalry make you think it’s okay to be a boston bruins fan

[crybabyangelgirl]

its so hard to take fatphobes seriously when you realize they're living in a fullfledged delusion. Like you could look at a thin person and i buying our groceries one after the other and see them buying nothing but carbs and snacks and soda and frozen processed foods and me buying nothing but locally sourced meats and whole vegetables and water and maintain that i must live a less healthy lifestyle bc of my weight. You can watch me and a thin person walk up the same hill and see them losing their breath and needing to take breaks and see me make it to the top without breaking a sweat and maintain that i must live a less healthy lifestyle bc of my weight. You can watch a thin person eat an entire bucket of fried chicken in one sitting and have nothing to say and then see a fat person eat nothing but salads for a week and tell them "hey you know salad isn't as healthy as you think it is i bet that dressing is full of fats and croutons are just carbs i bet that salad is mostly croutons and disgusting fatty dressing this is why you aren't losing weight". You have to completely divorce yourself from reality to maintain your worldview and its pathetic. 99% of the thin people i know dont go to a gym regularly and dont worry about eating healthily at all. Im simply not going to live in your fantasy world where thin people are allowed to be thin because of their genetics but fat people can never ever be fat because of their genetics and every choice they make is a moral failing.

[crybabyangelgirl]

No matter how little notes something i post about fat liberation gets some volatile fatphobe always manages to find it and say the stupidest least science informed bullshit ive ever heard in my life, its a true show of dedication from them even i don't think about fat people this much

[venndaai]

people are so weird about cnc and I always just want to look them in the eyes and say “you are getting mad at people for playing pretend. you are getting mad at people for saying ‘raaar! I’m gonna getcha!’ you are not a serious person.”

[venndaai]

so much ink and tears have been spilled theorizing that rape kink is about trauma and social anxieties and power fantasies and sure maybe. but I think we’re just mammals who like pretend danger in our play just like every other mammal ever. because we have evolved to find that fun. and the only difference between play-wrestling in bed and pulling out the fuzzy handcuffs is commitment to the bit

[clytemnestraaa]

yuna wearing medium wash denim and swirling her white wine while plotting how to put her weird gay son on the iron throne is just so vital to me

[chemdoodles]

1x04. "I think I will find someone else."

[haunted-phantom-student]

When Ilya Rozanov makes Shane Hollander come three times in a row he crows obnoxiously about scoring a hat trick and it would annoy Shane a lot more if he hadn't just come three times in a row send tweet

[mewvore]

"we detected a mature post" yeah I'm in my 30s

[hothockey]

the thing is, is that i want shane and ilya to be mean AND nice to each other, bc i am, at the core. a pervert and a freak and a gay romantique. and the nicer and the meaner they are to each other, the more erotica i get to see and read. like, it's just two sides of a fuck coin, and baby,,i am playing those slots

[allstarrocks]

do people know that calling hollanov a dom/sub relationship does not exclude the idea of them both loving and taking care of each other but rather, Explicity includes it

[virginshane]

shane getting fucked from behind. getting filled up so good lost in the sensation of it. his big man’s big bicep bulging right next to his face. his man holding him in a tight bear hug as he fucks him from behind. engulfed in his big man’s arms …………..

[gurlsrool]

have we considered the possibility of Shane and Ilya being at a fundraising event put on by the Centaurs and there are retired players there. One was their star center when Shane was a kid and Shane gets SO flustered talking to him. Ilya’s just standing there, watching his husband blush over a tall, brash hockey player with curly hair and he’s like …you’re kidding me

the guy walks away and Shane tells Ilya that he had all the guy’s posters as a kid and he was soooo obsessed with him. Ilya’s like “uh huh. yeah. I’m sure”, simultaneously offended and so turned on by the confirmation that he’s the epitome of his husband’s type