Hello, I’m Hazel, and this is my current main blog :)
I use any pronouns, (including neos) except for it/it’s but it’s cool if you do :)
I’m not comfortable with sharing my exact age, just know that I’m in my early twenties.
Please send me asks I love chatting with you guys!!! I might not be able to answer them right away, but I do see them. And I LOVE tag games btw so feel free to tag me in them :D
if we’re Mutuals I'm okay with you messaging me, I like to talk but I don’t know if someone will be okay with messaging, so if you want to message me that’s totally cool, I love interacting with my mutuals :D
I have a sideblog for posting my art, currently it’s on @justmorehazel I haven’t gotten to posting much on it yet.
Basic dni + terfs, radfems, etc, Although I will just block anyone being super rude, hateful, or bigoted.
This blog believes all systems are valid and all trans (and intersex) people deserve words to talk about their experiences, and the tma/tme binary is not good :)
STOP MESSING ASKING ME FOR MONEY!!! I don’t have anything to give, and I will just block you!
NOTE!!! that I do ship characters, and if you don’t like that you are free to leave or block, I will not stop my business just because you come to my page and I do not care about following “shipping boundaries” as long as it stays in fan spaces. And trying to force people to comply with rules in spaces that are not yours is not “boundaries” please learn what that word actually means. Ty for understanding <3
Long tag list explanation and more under cut
I do post/reblog about ship stuff, but mostly character ships, I don’t usually post rpf personally, (unless it’s like an actual irl couple, like Joel/Lizzie or Scott/Cam, etc.)
I try and tag my posts extensively, however I cannot guarantee I will tag all reblogs including spoilers, though I will try to if it’s an ongoing series.
#vampires smp for my vsmp posts #vsmp for reblogs (usually)
#life series for Ls posts #traffic life for reblogs (usually)
#vsmp text posts for my vsmp text posts, but for some reason this tag is broken and doesn’t show all of them
#bannerfall smp for bf posts #bfsmp for reblogs (usually)
#hermitcraft or #hc11 for hermitcraft posts/reblogs
#the flight smp for all tf related posts/reblogs
#sasi or #sanders sides for sides posts
#welcome home arg for welcome home posts
#sbk #sbk2 or #skyblock kingdoms for sbk posts/reblogs
#tomodachi life or #tomodachi life living the dream
#hazel rants for when I feel like ranting #hazel update if I want to let you guys know something
#tag game for tag game stuff #answering your asks for asks that you guys send me
#text reblog for shorter text reblogs and #reblog for longer ones or ones that have pictures
#trans or #nonbinary for trans posts (usually)
#disabled posting for physically disabled posts or others #autism or #autism posting for autistic specific posts same with #adhd or generally #disability
I sometimes tag ship posts (but I don’t always) with #crimsonshipping for vsmp #trafficshipping for life series and #hermitshipping for hermitcraft, I’m not sure if their are any other ones.
We have got to stop framing our oppression in ways that promote the idea that other people cannot relate to our struggles. Not only does it isolate comrades in the struggle, it actively diminishes recognition of other struggles--often including those even more horrific than what we are at risk of. And this happens especially between Gay and Black struggles.
"when have straight people ever had to check what states were safe for them?" Sundown towns are still a thing. Starlight tours. What states have abortion access? What states have open carry? What states have stand your ground? What states have 3-strike rules? Women, people of color, disabled people, immigrants, and more have had to be abundantly cautious where they travel to. Straight trans people have much more travel risk right now than gay cis people.
It's a new iteration of the same tired question: "imagine if straight people weren't allowed to marry" interracial marriage in the US is younger than my parents. We disgrace people of color by forgetting their history and contemporary struggles, and we abandon queer people of color, Black queer people, by segmenting their overlapping fights.
As lovelyshananigans says, "intersectionality, babes"
i'll be honest. If you can't deal with someone wording things badly then you aren't going to be an ally to autistic people or indeed anyone with a developmental disability, intellectual disability, or disability that impacts language.
also you are never going to be safe for people for whom english is their second language. if someone clarifies their meaning and apologises and you can't accept that over the original wording then don't bother pretending to be autism friendly.
and like part of my autism is that i become convinced that the way i interpret words is the way that they're meant. my autism is disabling to my communication abilities. i have poor emotional regulation, i jump to conclusions. a lot of my reactions are informed by prior negative experiences. i can and probably have been overly defensive in the past.
and i've been misinterpreted so much and had my words picked over and mocked for saying the wrong things and mocked for being unable to say anything at all and it always feels devastating. it's ironic that the same disability that has me treated poorly would have me react poorly to a similar situation, but that's just how it is.
so i'm not saying you can perfectly manage all your reactions just by trying hard enough. especially considering how much disability affects these things. but i do think if you are completely unwilling to give autistic and other DD/ID people leeway for how they word things or understand that they have a disability that impacts their communication and give us grace then you aren't a disability advocate.
"Trans men can't be lesbians because they're men and when they're in lesbian spaces they're invading it!!!! If trans women wanted to be in gay spaces NO ONE eould accept it >:[" Hey so I wss on Grindr and for every gay trans man I saw 3 trans women and as far as I've been alive gay spaces are pretty accepting of trans women. I think. Maybe you should review why do you think "men invading women's spaces" is such a issue for you.
"But I don't want to fuck a man!" Well the good news is that you don't need to fuck everyone who comes into your lesbian space. Or are you like. Saying that you need to find every woman that comes in fuckable.
Also real quick can you tell me your opinion on trans women specially those pre-op/pre hormones or that don't pass.
Ok, but let's not pretend that trans women and transfems are excepted without question in gay men's spaces. I know many trans women in gay men's spaces and they have shared in detail the kinds of transphobia and transmisogyny (and misdirected anti-transmasculinity) they have faced in gay men's spaces.
Yes, trans women exist (and should be welcomed, accepted, and validated) in gay men's spaces. But let's not pretend that trans women on *double checks post* fucking grindr are being treated with respect.
Trans women helped build the gay community. Trans men helped build the lesbian community. Trans women helped build the lesbian community. Trans men helped build the gay community. Nonbinary people have helped build the gay and lesbian communities. We have ALL intersecred with each other before we had the words gay or lesbian or transgender.
and none of us deserve to have our communities, realtionships, cultures, or histories denied, none of us deserve to be rejected to removed from the tables we helped build.
if i was a popular minecraft youtuber id just tweet "hey guys stop drawing shipping fanart of me and my friends/coworkers, i only fucked one of them and seeing me paired with anyone else is kinda weird and crosses my boundaries" and then i'd turn my phone off
We’re SO BACK!! I have been busy the last few months—I got a new more intense job in a different city and I moved, twice!, and I got caught in a flash flood and a bunch of other stuff and it was all very chaotic and left me no painting time. But I am sooooo here for Pantheon SMP! and I’m really hoping it gets me back into making art again 🤩 Have an Apokuna!
