I Don't Know What I'm Doing

I'm an aspiring writer who procrastinates and has to many projects to be healthy. She her, Asexual

[the-autism-dad]

So much truth in just a few words. ☺ ♥

#parenting #autism #ICYMI #Family #selfcare #wellness #mentalhealth #ADHD #personalgrowth #dadlife #momlife #autismacceptance https://www.instagram.com/p/CagJPomMKgA/?utm_medium=tumblr

[flightrising]

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[everythingfox]

“A bit of sax only for you”

(via)

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

This Restaurant is Designed for Fighting (ft. @calebcity) Mini-Mocks

[eyrliss-camille-rogers]

Educate yourself.

[trylonandperisphere]

Wow. The patience, kindness and calm communication skills. Outstanding.

From raindovemodel

[loveislattes]

This made me cry. I wish all situations could be handled as perfectly as this

[fatsexybitch]

I just want to point out the core of what the diffuser did in this conversation

They recognized that the mother was also expressing a vulnerable truth about herself - that she felt like a bad mother because her child was expressing gender feelings she wasn’t equipped to help with - and met her where she was, a concerned parent with limited information - to point her where she should be heading, research and resources.

Im going to make more of an effort to stop reflexively pushing people away when they express biases and make more of an effort to hear the underlying fears when i can

[redseeker]

“it’s easier to love ourselves when we feel loved as ourselves”

damn that is so  powerful though

[justnick612-deactivated20210723]

God this always makes me tear up ahaha…

[nudityandnerdery]

Good news for you, this August 23rd.

[justanotherdharmabum]

nice

[pickledangel]

nice

[albinopixel]

nice

[officialtokyosan]

nice

[morsking]

nice

[floatinglonewanderer]

nice

[almondkittie]

Y’all please help in anyway you can. This baby is only 11!

Here is their PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme2/sistahgirlRsp

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[blognotfound]

pls don’t let this flop

[nilesfreeman]

doofenshmirtz’s mental process i think

[miraculousbugaboii-deactivated2]

Please please please spread this everyone. If you live in Beirut please donate. And if you're religious then please pray for us Lebanese people. We need all the help we can get, no matter how small it is.

2020 really isn't our year.

[deadblog293898210398]

ok youtube just said “fuck you if youre deaf or hard of hearing or just want to watch a video in a different language”

https://twitter.com/LiamODellUK/status/1288869766980042752

and you know what the fucking bullshit is  they’re replacing it with a ~6 months free of a subscription to a third party captions provider~ which of course you’d have to pay for after those 6 months are up and you KNOW random youtuber #9039 isn’t going to bother to keep paying for that either because they won’t have the money or they just won’t care. and youtube’s going to act like that’s a perfectly fine alternative that won’t result in the majority of the site suddenly going from “more or less accessible” to “Fuck You If You’re Disabled” 

“citing low usage” are you fucking kidding me nearly every worthwhile video i watch uses community captions. sometimes they’re kind of janky cuz they were made by some 14 year old who thought it’d be funny to put their own irrelevant jokes and commentary in there but that wasn’t a reason to ditch the feature entirely when its so useful and important

i’m not even hard of hearing and i rely on them to watch videos in other languages…this is literally how people have been making english subs for japanese songs and the like for years and it was great because you didn’t have to reupload the videos yourself and take away views from the original creators. many creators don’t allow reprints of their work whatsoever so if they go through with this (which unfortunately they seem pretty deadset on because lololol moneyyyyyy) it’s entirely likely that there just won’t be a way to watch that content with captions

there’s a petition to keep community captions…i don’t know if it’ll really do anything since they’re already going ~oh but we have Paid Alternatives!~ but don’t just let this pass by this should be a huge deal but i’ve barely seen anyone talking about it (not that i expect people to talk about things of any particular importance on tumblr but it’s not even getting attention on twitter beyond that one thread and like 2 other posts)

so like. sign this and shit don’t let youtube just actively get rid of accessibility features without anyone caring (though i’d say probably use twitter if you want to actually get their attention i don’t think they’d look here) http://chng.it/LN9HRNmnkg

[tfw-adhd]

Just putting this out there, because some people don’t seem to know:

ADD is no longer a recognised name. ADHD is the overarching name given to the three types, which are: ADHD-Predominantly Inattentive (ADHD-PI, which used to be known as ADD), ADHD-Combined, and ADHD-Predominantly Hyperactive-Impulsive.

[monarch-boo]

Sick to death of exclusies pretending to care about aros and pretending inclusionists don’t care about aros, i remember all that shit about allo aro people being just heartless people who wanna fuck and run

Do you understand??? How much that used to fuck me up??? Made me feel like I as an aro gay was only perpetuating the all-about-sex gay stereotype that you’re all supposedly so against but gladly used it to shame aros that weren’t also ace at the same time?

That’s still a bit of a thing but it used to be super common and guess what, inclusionists were (and ARE when the topic resurfaces) the only ones defending allo aros and supporting us meanwhile exclusies kept doing this shit:

not to mention they act as if one night stands that both people agree to aren’t a thing, and, as other people have pointed out, note how they often frame women as the ones being taken advantage of, as if not only both partners agreeing to a one night stand isn’t a thing but also as if women don’t have the agency to consent to such a thing

[imtryingmybestoklmfao]

its way too common for inclusionists to not properly consider alloaros and our specific issues and its very common for inclusionists to not include alloaros in conversations about inclusion. 90% of the time its about aces, be they aroace or alloace. this however doesnt mean we should side with exclusionists. exclusionists only care about alloaros as far as they can use us as pawns in their arguments. exclusies suck. but many of my fellow inclusionists need to do better as well. arguing for ace inclusion doesn’t equal arguing for aro inclusion. both need to be mentioned by name and aromanticism needs to no longer be grouped under asexuality. many inclus often forget that aspec doesn’t just mean asexual and i think we as a community can do better than that.

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

One time I was cooking with a girl and we were both bilingual but we didn’t have a language in common so we were just sitting by the fire doing prep work quietly and I was peeling little garlic cloves to mince and she put her hand on my arm to stop me and demonstrated how you’re supposed to press on the clove with the flat side of your knife to break the shell off all at once to peel it and I was like oh! And I imitated her and she nodded in approval and we went back to quietly peeling and mincing the garlic and I don’t want to be hyperbolic but in that moment I was like wow I truly understand the universal thread of human love and connection inherent in our souls or whatever

[anxietyproblem]

[fresh-and-hot-tiktoks]

Translation: “wait what? what are you waiting for? eh? curry? did you make curry (in the bathtub)?” “ya, want some?” “yeah”

[xtec]

me feeding the homies after society collapses

[boredandalive]

[4damien]

Anyone can help!

(Real pen the last picture)

It is important for EVERYONE to know how to help ANYONE. Not everyone can give them selves their medicine under every circumstance. Be educated, help out.

In the last year, i have gotten about five new violent allergies from foods i used to be able to eat. Next time i eat a fruit, my throat could close. I may not be able to inject myself. My boyfriend and i played with my trainer pen for like 30 minutes. He knows how to inject it. I know how. This is important.

[freshest-tittymilk]

Blue to the sky

Orange to the thigh

[boatsxheauxs]

BOOST

[sky-bound-wayfarer-deactivated2]

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[novadust86]

this is something they should teach everyone in school IMO. till then please everyone reblog this. in extreme cases, the time needed to read the instructions can be fatal. please know this just in case 

[dont-wave-at-me]

@persassy-basson @samirah-the-valkyrie @hera-queen-of-the-gods @i-like-ice-sculptures @i-gotta-trident @godess-of-fireplaces @goddess-of-youthfulness @queen0ftheunderworld @queen-of-saltiness

[goddess-of-youthfulness]

((I know how to use this cause I have one irl

@pippip-cheerio @smartest-of-them-all @collector-of-lost-souls @everyone else

I’m to tired to function atm

[cis-het-angel-kinnie-deactivate]

@dekimasu @angel-doots @brianrosenthalappreciationsquad pls boost