take care.

I'm T. I work a lot- dog trainer & ER vet tech (in school). SDV is me living vicariously thru my farmer. I'm in recovery for lots of Shit, things are looking up tho.🌻Queer af. 🌻 🥄Not all disabilities are visible🥄

[sparrowsabre7]

[lesbiantahani]

Jenny Slate, Stage Fright (2019)

[ryebreadgf]

Ugly, Bitter, and True by Suzanne Rivecca

[homemade-ghosts]

John Mulaney on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert (2020)

[bruce-slutsteen]

Why Not Me? By Mindy Kaling

[programmerhumour]

Once upon a time…

[friendly-neighborhood-ehrhardt]

[thebeanestbad]

[personification-of-anxiety]

I really wish the overused sentence “You either die a hero, or live long enough to see yourself become the villain.” was less relevant but here we are

[animatedtext]

requested by angelique-bebe

[galvanizedfriend]

[leatherleaves]

I recently started working in hospitality, and I’ll tell you guys right now, the trope of “there was only one bed” is not as rare as you’d think in real life. A few times a week, at least, I have guys come in who are working together on projects in town or passing through who have to literally book the last room I have available for the night and lo and behold — there is only one bed, and guess what, they give each other a side-eyed look and begrudgingly take it. So write it up, it happens all the time!!!

[karis-the-fangirl]

[blatant-phishing-attempt-bot-de]

Never let your There Was Only One Bed dreams die. I was secretly in love with my best friend for over a year when she graduated and moved to Oklahoma (like 1000 miles away) for grad school. Between that travel restrictions, we were so scared we’d never see eachother again.

At the end of summer, when Covid numbers were at a lower point, I took the risk to visit her in her new apartment and I quickly realized that, unlike when I’d spent the night at her house before, the couch wasn’t made up like a bed. She explained that since her new couch was so fancy and pink, I couldn’t possibly sleep on it, and so I needed to sleep in the bed with her. You know, out of necessity. I woke up with her snuggled around me in the middle of the night.

We’re dating now, and I genuinely think I’m going to marry her. Just the other day, though, I mentioned that if she hadn’t been weird about her fancy couch, I probably never would have like confessed my feelings. AND THEN she stood up, took the cushions off the fancy couch, UNFOLDED IT INTO A HIDE-A-BED, and said “I KNOW.”

THIS GIRL. ORCHESTRATED. BED SCARCITY. JUST SO SHE COULD MAKE THE “ONLY ONE BED” EXCUSE. Y’all when I said I just about lost my goddamn mind, I just about lost my goddamn mind. I love this sneaky bitch so much and the moral of this story is BE THE ONE BED YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD.

[leet911]

Fanfic imitates life, and life imitates fanfic. It’s full circle really.

[jeanqrey]

Don’t buy me a drink, I make my money Don’t touch my weave, don’t call me “honey” ‘Cause I run my shit, baby I run my shit

KESHA - WOMAN

[valtsv]

i'm a firm believer that the best possible compliments you can hope to to receive for your work are:

"thanks, i hate it"

"how dare you???"

"no!!!"

[ms-demeanor]

You don’t have a praise kink.

You have ADHD and the associated RSD makes the dopamine hit from being called “good” feel like heroin. 

[letter-t]

I don't see why it's mutually exclusive

[quinintheclouds]

Person with ADHD: Oh shoot I can’t find the Thing

Person without ADHD: Why don’t you try retracing your steps? :)

Person with ADHD: Okay, I’ll give it a try… 

Step 1: The Thing was in my hand. 

Step 2: It is now very much Not in my hand.

Conclusion: The Thing is inexplicably gone from existence.

[robertpattisons]

tony stark + ptsd symptoms 

[basementtreasure]

been thinking about appearances and stuff

[lollibeepop]

Love Yourself (even if sometimes others have to do it for you)

[20furiousbluebirds]

@jimcewind Love Yourself

[ask-a-vetblr]

Hey doc, I’ve gotten some terrible news in the past couple of days. My service dog has been diagnosed with late stage renal dysplasia, and will be passing over the rainbow bridge soon. I was wondering, bc it’s been really hard to get good information out of her docs or the internet but. What is the prognosis of renal dysplasia if it’s caught earlier? Is there anything that can be done, or do they usually pass away at an early age? And does treatment help? Or is it just delaying the inevitable?

In my experience it’s unfortunately not great. It’s rare, but most dogs I’ve seen have passed away around 18 months, and the one still going at 4 years old was always scrawny and very intensively managed. I mean, even the pathology lab staff knew his name and case off by heart.

Dysplasia basically means the kidneys are built wrong. Their structure is all over the place, totally scrambled, which is unfortunate because kidneys are dependant on their structure to work. So it causes chronic kidney failure and you can’t fix it without a brand new kidney.

Thing is, these dogs never had a good, functioning kidney. They’ve always had this condition and so are fairly tolerant to the side effects of kidney failure, for a while at least. Treatment is aimed at keeping them comfortable and delaying progression as long as it’s fair to do so.

I’m sorry for your dog. It’s hard to detect early without bloodwork and initially there might not be much of a clue except for a slightly scrawny puppy. It’s a very unfair conditon and while it can run in family/breed lines I don’t know of a generic test for it.

- Dr Ferox

[starlovespatrick]

Thank you so much for answering my questions. It’s easier knowing that it’s a difficult disease and we weren’t necessarily wrong for not noticing. She’s 2y 7mo, so it seems like she had a pretty good run of things all things considered. She’s at home now with palliative care and spoiling while we wait for the right time to help her pass.

[letter-t]

[lindirs-gaze]

[omghotmemes]

I’m convinced to learn fencing

[nikkigotthis-deactivated2012022]

[mcmxcviiikid]

Powerful statements like these, that juxtapose the condemnation of such a simple and pure thing as love with the honour and worship of violence and death, always hit me hard and stay with me for days

[aphony-cree]

This is the tombstone of Technical Sergeant Leonard Philip Matlovich, the first gay service member to intentionally out himself in order to fight the ban on gay people in the military. He hadn’t only served for Vietnam, he was a career Air Force member in good standing who would have liked to continue his career even though he knew coming out would most likely make that impossible. He’d also been an elder in the LDS church but was excommunicated

He was on the cover of Time magazine in 1975 which was the first time an openly gay person appeared on the cover of a U.S. magazine and had their name printed in that magazine

He was an advocate for AIDs/HIV patients from the start of the outbreak in the 70s. He contracted the virus in 1986 and died 2 years later

His name doesn’t appear on his tombstone because he wanted it to be a memorial for all gay veterans

[hickeywiththegoodhair]

here’s the King himself

and here’s his grave in its full glory, with the pink triangles and everything! the words over the dates of his birth and death are referencing the extermination of lgbt people during the holocaust and the HIV crisis, respectively.

[whitepeopletwitter]

[bonniebugsy]

[munch-85-deactivated20200903]

I’m living for this lol