Having empathy and compassion for others shouldn't be contingent upon if they have empathy and compassion for you. Too often people are so caught up in and sharing their own suffering/misery that they are most often unaware of the harm that they're causing themselves and others. Of course we do our best to not be the object (not to be confused with cause) of the root of their suffering/misery, which may mean keeping tremendous distance. This work can definitely be done from afar. We strive to have empathy and compassion that we all come out of our suffering and misery. This work should be done without expecting anything in return because when we expect something in return we create misery and suffering if/when we don't receive what we want. Non-attachment is very difficult and simultaneously powerful healing work.












