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hii im rilla/cadence! i use they/she/ae pronouns :3

✨mutuals feel free to dm at anytime

✨multiple, ask for our group sideblog

✨your favorite cripfemme, drug seeker, full-time wheelchair user, and bad patient tm (pans/pandas neurocripple + the pentad super-syndrome)

✨professional sex, toy, and kink educator and sociologist with a special interest in the above - mutuals can ask for nsfw

✨strange and off-putting underneath my sanrio exterior, don't even bother here if you don't like contradicting and strange queer identities (dyke4fag, objectum, nonhuman, xenogender, and fluid lesbianism are some that i have) or unusual expressions of queer sexuality

✨antizionist diasporic commie jew

✨i tag common triggers and bigotry (not queer or any reclaimed queer slurs), ask me to tag anything else if you want!

✨commonly used tags are on this post!

#my post #me #fave #not sfw #j #sex ed #💌#🐍#dad tag #crip tag #objectum tag #critique #friend city hype house #🧍#recovery tag #pans/pandas tag

qilingxiong

watched the stalks of a lavender bush by the bus stop dip and sway from the sheer amount of fat little bumblebees on it and you know what. some things in this world are good

#fave

hydrattan

I was feeling agitated and artblocked yesterday so I decided to give my brain a rest by watching TV and then the next thing I knew these were in front of me

talons-and-stucco

Lets go All Over The Fucking Place with mama

banchie

i've been phasing the phrase 'google it' out of my vocabulary and going back to 'look it up'. fuck you youve lost your generic trademark privileges

anistarrose

if you are a parent, or may become one, or you are otherwise likely to arrive in the situation of caring for a child while they eat, promise me this: if a child doesn't like a certain food or food group, you will ask them WHY. and specifically, you will pay attention to either confirming or ruling out "it makes my mouth itch" or "it makes my stomach hurt," both of which are medically important info that children may not provide unprompted. which i know because this PSA has been brought to you by "i spent my entire childhood and much of my early teens eating peas and lentils while wondering why everyone else liked the Violently Itchy Mouth Sensation so much, like were they a bunch of legume masochists or something, before i finally realized that Violently Itchy Mouth Sensation was in fact a sinister demon appearing only to me, and her true demonic name was: Legume Allergy"

anistarrose

with nothing but affection and care for many of you reporting itchy mouths and "spicy" foods in the notes:

Learn more about oral allergy syndrome, an allergic reaction to certain foods, including fruits, vegetables and nuts.

[ID: edited conversation screenshot:

Blue: what are u trying to say

Yellow: (image of the Cleveland Clinic's Oral Allergy Syndrome article) go here

Blue: in the oral allergy syndrome information ?

Yellow: go in the OAS information

End ID.]

alexmey-does-an-arts

I wish I could give the miis internalized homophobja

alexmey-does-an-arts

no but like i want them to actually feel it

alexmey-does-an-arts

you dont like her?

gloriousmonsters

when you're feeling full hater mode about a piece of media but you know one of your beloved mutuals enjoys it

vrtualdreamgirl

we can’t talk here contact me in my dream tonight

#eveline....

jerreeeeeee

not every mutual fits neatly into an archetypal medievalism but there are some mutuals that im like yeah addressing you as “my liege” would come strangely naturally

jerreeeeeee

what mutual is prev

my liege lord

my loyal knight

my wise wizard

my evil advisor

my brother in arms

my lady muse

my wild mermaid friend

my fellow alchemist

my dashing rapscallion

my monstrous foe

Remaining time: 2 days 6 hours

#loyal knight and wise wizard

feralratbitesu

harnessed this things essence lol and all that he once was is now redused to this. kept his husk alive just bc i was bored lol

caruliaa

instead of either having a server be muted or unmuted discord should introduce a setting called special princess mode where the server is muted except ☝🏽 for one person that is your special princess and the emoji0oo990op09iop09i8o09i8op09iolp-09op-0opyujiko8o9i8ukol9iukolp9i8uki sorry. i got a drop of oil on my keyboard bc i was eating hummus with a little bit of olive oil earlier and i was cleaning that off. anyway and the notification icon is a heart. and they have to to call it that.

this-is-varsexism-transphobia

is there an intersex inclusive term or phrase that describes people who spent their childhood being treaated/perceived as girls?

Socially imposed gender - socially imposed as female and socially imposed as male - are the main terms I see used. They don't rely on AGAB (ie; an intersex person AMAB can be socially imposed as female), and they can be used in both intersex and perisex contexts (ie; instead of saying "trans men AFAB" [which is incorrect usage of AGAB language], you'd say "trans men socially imposed as female" because that includes trans men of any AGAB that were treated as girls by society.)

Some people criticize them for sounding close to "socialized as male/female" which has problematic TERF connections, but I think the important part of the term socially imposed gender is the *imposed* part. As in, the person isn't being "socialized" as a gender, but rather, society is *imposing* a gender upon them against their consent.

And someone's socially imposed gender can change. A person once socially imposed as female can later be socially imposed as male, or both simultaneously, or neither. That's known as inconsistent socially imposed gender (ISIG). People who have only one socially imposed gender in their life are known as CSIG (consistent socially imposed gender.)

In the case of ISIG, the inconsistency can be due to being reassigned a gender due to intersexuality, being reassigned a gender due to a cultural gender, transitioning, detransitioning, etc.

#sex ed

ilurvyer

tlirsgender

As a principled feminist I'm often tempted to say shit like "are men capable of higher thought" but then I have to remember not to perpetuate gender essentialism and change it to "why do men choose not to think about anything"