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Never should aftercare be used as a means of rewarding either partner. Aftercare is an integral part of any relationship and should always be done. Please take care of your partners.
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NEVER SHOULD AFTERCARE BE USED AS A MEANS OF REWARDING EITHER PARTNER! AFTERCARE IS AN INTEGRAL PART OF ANY RELATIONSHIP AND SHOULD ALWAYS BE DONE! PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOUR PARTNERS!
Always repost!
And now for something completely different.
This is the ADHD Teapot. I made it in a ceramics class a few years ago. I use it to explain executive dysfunction to people who haven’t come across the term before (and those who think of ADHD mostly as Hyperactive Eight Year Old Boy Syndrome).
So, most people’s brains are like a regular shaped teapot with a single spout. Let’s say that your time, energy, focus etc is the liquid you have in the teapot. Your executive function is the spout, that directs the tea into the specific cup you want to fill-aka the task that you’re meant to be doing. Spills happen occasionally, but generally most of the tea goes in the right cup.
If you have executive dysfunction, (a symptom of ADHD, trauma, autism, schizophrenia etc.) you have multiple spouts going in different directions. You can try pointing one of them at your chosen cup and you will probably get some liquid in there, perhaps you will even fill it right up (finish the task). But meanwhile, tea is also pouring out of several other places and not going where you want it. If you have another container nearby, perhaps some of it will end up in there. But quite a lot of it is going to end up on the floor and accomplish nothing.
And at the end of the day you’ll have filled one or two cups ( or sometimes not even one) compared to the five or six that somebody with the same sized teapot (but only one spout) has filled, and everyone wonders why you’re so bad at getting tea poured, and why you make such a mess in the process.
One day I’d like to spend more time learning pottery and create a really technically good fucked up little adhd teapot. But that’s a long way off since i currently live in the outback and the nearest pottery workshop is some 400km away. But I figure that for now, it might be a useful or interesting metaphor to somebody even in its rough draft form.
This post is the cup I filled instead of cleaning my house btw.
This post is the cup
I filled instead of cleaning
my house btw.
Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.
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Don’t Be That Guy.
Great campaign! Great point!
signal boosting the shit out of this
you can never NOT reblog this
Kinda had to reblog
OH. MY. GOD.
THIS IS BRILLIANT!!
Nigerians have created a new norm on the runway at the ongoing Vienna Fashion Week happening in Austria. Meant to be a display of latest fas
I’ve been looking everywhere for this 😭😭😭😭
since it’s pride month, throwback to this beautiful cover and this wholesome interaction between two icons
OH THIS IS HEAVEN LOOK AT THEM
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Look what my Daddy made me!!!! 🥰🥰 @guyinyourfuture
Every little one should have such a fun unicorn 🦄!
I wan one!
Getting and giving consent doesn’t just happen when things are starting to get sexy — it’s got to happen the whole time, every time. That means checking in with your partner to make sure everything that’s happening is still okay. And if they pause or don’t say yes, it’s time to stop and check in with your partner.
Pay close attention to your partner. Sometimes a withdrawal of consent doesn’t appear as active fighting and resistance, but as a passivity and a lack of an enthusiastic “yes!” When that happens, a pause and a check-in is in order.
Consent is absolutely necessary, folks. Always.
Never underestimate the importance of consent!
one thing i have been trying to teach myself lately is that i am enough whenever. i am always, all the time enough. i am enough when i don’t like myself, i am enough when i don’t look presentable, i am enough when i’m not ready to face my demons. you don’t have to do certain things such as working out 5x a week, journal and meditate every night or be good at school to be enough and worthy of love. whatever state you are in right now is enough. you are deserving of a relationship, a good life and everything else at any given time.
I'm not sure if this is something you'd be happy to hear about or not, but I'd like to thank you for helping me discover what I really wanted. I was extremely interested in DD/lg for quite a while, but it never quite felt right. Your blog was the first to help me realize what it was I was looking for. Your beautifully clear explains of everything made it so much easier to understand. In the end, I found out what I wanted wasn't dd/lg.. I was an age regressor. As a very kinky adult, I had confused that feeling for dd/lg and sought out content on it. But I only ever liked the little aesthetic of it, and was quite uncomfortable when I'd see the more sexual posts. What I'm trying to say is thank you. Thank you for your mountain of resources on this. You do wonderful work.
I don’t think that what has happened to you is a bad thing at all, and I’m rather happy to hear it actually. Life is a series of micro evolution’s at every moment of the day… Because frankly, if you cease to evolve on a daily basis, you may be doing something wrong.
The thing about this lifestyle and more broadly, BDSM, is that there is no one size fits all… There is no cookie cutter “it has to be this way or that”… Relationships and personal growth come in the way that you determine. I have often said that the only limits in the lifestyle are the ones you place upon your self.… And I will always believe that. What works for one may be totally wrong for another and so on.
There is a lot of beauty in truly knowing oneself and I’m very happy for you that you have gotten to that point.
I think that we as humans are always in some kind of quest to do our best at what ever it may be that we are engaged in… And it doesn’t always go according to plan, how we thought it would, and sometimes it works out in a completely different way that actually ends up being better and more beneficial for us.
My own personal journey has been a whirlwind in and of itself. Beginning by being trained by a sadist Dom, eventually gravitating towards DDLG, and now finding myself at a point in life where I have come back around to embrace my more dominant side once again… It’s been a roller coaster of a ride that I have never tried to put a leash on.
These days I find myself a little less daddy and a lot more Dom and there are more than likely a lot of variables that have shaped and shifted that feeling.
I often get questions from older people who are a part of the lifestyle and most often their largest concern is that they are too old for this or that… Like there should be some kind of age limit on whether or not you can be yourself.
I don’t think that this lifestyle has much to do with being old in age so much as it does your own personal emotional and psychological growth and development. There’s no reason why you can’t be a little at the age of 60 the same way that you can when you’re 25… That is yours and yours alone, nobody can tell you who or what to be.
My main goal with this blog ultimately has always been to share my knowledge, thoughts, and opinions on things. Hoping to help others (no matter how it may end up helping)
I have not always done things the right way. I have regrets. I have moments in time that I wish I could get back and treat better or make better… Because the road to the future is not some straight narrow and clear path. Destruction, accidents, and follies will happen along the way and I certainly have my fair share. I’ve certainly hurt people or said things that perhaps were not correct for certain people… I’ve treated people harshly and wrongly, but I’ve always done my best regardless of how I’ve been. And I’m always doing my best to evolve beyond being the person that I was yesterday.
So in summary; good for you and congratulations in finding the place where you feel you should be. Continue to embrace that and nurture it and be the best that you possibly can.
And above all… Always remember that your submission is a gift.
- Mister
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@mistersbeard I always appriciate your open honesty so much. The thoughts and experiences you share here open up my mind and make me think about my own thoughts/impressions/feelings/desires/wants/life/ego/self, in different and often entirely new way. Anon's post expressed so clearly what I've been thinking and feeling about my own Little experience and what I actually want/need and what I'm comfortable and happy with. Your response was so loving accepting and encouraging, you show us all that it's possible to accept and love ourselves and once we can truly do that, we can find other healthy sane safe and consensual people, that will respect, accept and love us, any of us, just the way we are 💜💜💜 I love you so much Mister
Re-blog if you are a Dom or Sub that believes men and women are equals. Fuck all this women are inferior to men bullshit I see floating around Tumblr. Women should be treated with respect at all times. Even more so, if she decides to gift her submission to you. I’m a Dom, I’m also a feminist. Submission is a gift, not a right!
Enlightened thinking.
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Been a while since I re-blogged this. My most popular post. With good reason. This says a lot about me. You don’t agree?? Unfollow. It’s just up there.
So I hate the fact that I feel the need to reblog this, but based on the number of genuinely misogynistic messages I’ve been getting it seems sadly necessary. There are too many people out there who are unable to distinguish between fantasy and reality.
I actually feel sorry for them in a strange way, because it seems to mostly be deeply insecure men who are feeling vulnerable and threatened by modern society. But, if that’s you, you’re on the wrong side of history and it’s not sexy at all.
Humiliation and degradation are a lot of fun, and my primary kink, but if you actually believe that women are inferior than I have no time for you at all
I will always reblog this. Good giving and grateful #ggg
Reblogging because equality is hot and makes my dick hard
Reasons Why Little Girls Need Rules:
1. Rules give structure which is very comforting to a submissive mind. To be able to see what is expected, and what is forbidden, allows a little girl to navigate the relationship easily, and with less stress.
2. Rules remind a submissive who is in charge. Whether she is obeying them, or breaking them, Daddy put them there, and she is reminded that every time she navigates around them, or takes one off the shelf and breaks it.
3. Rules are useful tools to improve your submissive’s life, and make her a better person. Don’t like that she keeps a messy room? Make a rule that changes that. Don’t like that she eats sweets before bed, and that it makes it hard for her to fall asleep? It must be rule time. Rules help Dominants take care of their littles, because we can’t expect them to take care of themselves all the time.
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