I'm not sure if this is something you'd be happy to hear about or not, but I'd like to thank you for helping me discover what I really wanted. I was extremely interested in DD/lg for quite a while, but it never quite felt right. Your blog was the first to help me realize what it was I was looking for. Your beautifully clear explains of everything made it so much easier to understand. In the end, I found out what I wanted wasn't dd/lg.. I was an age regressor. As a very kinky adult, I had confused that feeling for dd/lg and sought out content on it. But I only ever liked the little aesthetic of it, and was quite uncomfortable when I'd see the more sexual posts. What I'm trying to say is thank you. Thank you for your mountain of resources on this. You do wonderful work.
I don’t think that what has happened to you is a bad thing at all, and I’m rather happy to hear it actually. Life is a series of micro evolution’s at every moment of the day… Because frankly, if you cease to evolve on a daily basis, you may be doing something wrong.
The thing about this lifestyle and more broadly, BDSM, is that there is no one size fits all… There is no cookie cutter “it has to be this way or that”… Relationships and personal growth come in the way that you determine. I have often said that the only limits in the lifestyle are the ones you place upon your self.… And I will always believe that. What works for one may be totally wrong for another and so on.
There is a lot of beauty in truly knowing oneself and I’m very happy for you that you have gotten to that point.
I think that we as humans are always in some kind of quest to do our best at what ever it may be that we are engaged in… And it doesn’t always go according to plan, how we thought it would, and sometimes it works out in a completely different way that actually ends up being better and more beneficial for us.
My own personal journey has been a whirlwind in and of itself. Beginning by being trained by a sadist Dom, eventually gravitating towards DDLG, and now finding myself at a point in life where I have come back around to embrace my more dominant side once again… It’s been a roller coaster of a ride that I have never tried to put a leash on.
These days I find myself a little less daddy and a lot more Dom and there are more than likely a lot of variables that have shaped and shifted that feeling.
I often get questions from older people who are a part of the lifestyle and most often their largest concern is that they are too old for this or that… Like there should be some kind of age limit on whether or not you can be yourself.
I don’t think that this lifestyle has much to do with being old in age so much as it does your own personal emotional and psychological growth and development. There’s no reason why you can’t be a little at the age of 60 the same way that you can when you’re 25… That is yours and yours alone, nobody can tell you who or what to be.
My main goal with this blog ultimately has always been to share my knowledge, thoughts, and opinions on things. Hoping to help others (no matter how it may end up helping)
I have not always done things the right way. I have regrets. I have moments in time that I wish I could get back and treat better or make better… Because the road to the future is not some straight narrow and clear path. Destruction, accidents, and follies will happen along the way and I certainly have my fair share. I’ve certainly hurt people or said things that perhaps were not correct for certain people… I’ve treated people harshly and wrongly, but I’ve always done my best regardless of how I’ve been. And I’m always doing my best to evolve beyond being the person that I was yesterday.
So in summary; good for you and congratulations in finding the place where you feel you should be. Continue to embrace that and nurture it and be the best that you possibly can.
And above all… Always remember that your submission is a gift.
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