🪐Call me Violette🪐

{She/her} This blog is a reflection of what's going on in my brain. Yes, it's worrying

[livingmess-doingherbest]

People say that romance is dead but this is my parents finding heart shaped lettuce and kebab in their plates and offering it to each other at dinner in a street food restaurant yesterday

[sawed-on-shotgun]

need a hat that says I WONT SPEAK UNLESS SPOKEN TO AND ITS NOT BECAUSE IM DISINTERESTED AND DONT LIKE YOU I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND SOCIAL INTERACTION AS WELL AS MOST PEOPLE AND ASSUME BY DEFAULT MY PRESENCE IS UNWELCOME AS A PRECAUTIONARY MEASURE SO I KEEP TO MYSELF BUT I DONT MIND IF YOU INITIATE so i can wear it to work

[do-not-u-dare]

Im always scared to call someone my friend because what if they dont consider me a friend and hate me because of that

[modernbaseball]

2 am: bedtime were meant to be broken 😈

7 am: I hope i get in a car accident

[milf--adjacent]

Let the historical record show that Mr. Beast was entirely ignorable if you were just like doing literally anything else. I've been on youtube as long as it's been around and I've never been recommended a video by him. I see him in passing as a meme. I thought he was a made up joke, a caricature of bad youtuber content miners until someone I trust confirmed his existence to me in late 2025.

[soft-lovely]

people

[tipsytabellion]

this photo i took of my gf

[kosmogrl]

[toddsolondz]

i want to get hit so hard that when i smile my teeth look all gross and bloody

[livingmess-doingherbest]

I'm not like other girls.

Apparently.

Though i don't understand why.

I was hanging out (studying for those fuckass exams) at my uni's library with two guys of my friend group. We were on a break and one of them noticed : "The girls are never free for studying sessions these days".

And I was like : " bitch i'm right there".

The other guy said something like : "nah but you don't really count, you're not like a girl"

Bitch da fuq ?

One part of me was glad because it kinda means they don't see me as a "female human" but just a "human human". Another part of me was and still is very confused as to why can't i be considered a girl.

(Edit : also yes i'm queer, aroace sapphic to be specific in case that might have played a role)

[vexheart]

This

[livingmess-doingherbest]

Oh em geeee it's raining!!!

Killing myself is postponed ✨

[livingmess-doingherbest]

SIGH

Rain stopped 💔

We can't have nice things fr...

WELL-

[livingmess-doingherbest]

Oh em geeee it's raining!!!

Killing myself is postponed ✨

[theweirdwideweb]

[livingmess-doingherbest]

Yes i indeed kinda dislocated my left index.

Yes i indeed decided to pick up my bass randomly at 1 am for no reason at all and to learn Mama out of nowhere.

Yes i indeed regret that decision and my finger currently hurts like hell BUT I've got it and i'm only missing the last part to learn.

No i don't know what kind of lesson i'm supposed to learn from that episode.

[antigonehappy]

character who is sun-coded but not in the traditional ray-of-sunshine way. character who is sun-coded in the sense that they burn hot and bright and powerful, that they're a raging fury of fire and passion, and that maybe, just maybe, they are destroying themselves as they do so.

[binabees]

character who is moon-coded but not in the moody grumpy way. character who is moon-coded in the way they shine brightly in darkness guiding others. a character that is moon-coded with all their darker sides no one else can see. that they are lonely and lovely. doomed to watch on as the the person who gives them their light slowly destroys themselves taking the light with them.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

the meaning of life? is to make your bedroom as comfy as possible. that's it that's the purpose

[spidey-webs]

There seem to be a lot of people who don’t understand why Lobo was in the movie, so I’m just gonna say it: Lobo is who Kara is at risk of becoming.

Kara is at a crossroads, and one road leads towards Clark and one leads to Lobo. Or rather, one path leads to embracing the responsibility of the life and powers her parents gave her, and the other is continuing to drink her life away, not caring about anything or anyone but her and hers.

Lobo is immensely powerful, and the last of his planet. Just like Kara. And when we meet him, he’s passed out drunk in a bar, oblivious and uncaring of violence and exploitation around him. Just like Kara was trying to be when she first met Ruthye.

Lobo is Kara’s future if she gives up on trying to be good. Drunkenly stumbling through the galaxy not helping anyone or anything and only caring about herself. Maybe not mindlessly cruel, but not kind or good or caring of the pain of the people around her.

It’s why they both get Ruthye’s spiel, it’s why Lobo’s whole introduction mirrors what Kara was just doing demanding to know about the Brigands, it’s why they’re both “the ditz from the bar”, it’s why they both have the gag with the space suit collar.

It’s why Lobo crops up each time Ruthye and Kara are faced with choices, sometimes acting as a devil on their shoulders, sometimes just a big lurking ominous warning of their bleak future if they make the wrong choices. It’s why Lobo says “let Ruthye have her revenge”, uncaring of how the violence might haunt Ruthye for the rest of her life. He’s a big constant reminder why Kara cannot let this thirteen year old girl be consumed by violence, and of who her parents didn’t want her to be.

Lobo is Kara’s foil and shadow.

I don’t think the movie always executed this well, it could have been done better, but I don’t think it was subtle either. The parallels between Kara and Lobo are right there in every scene and always highlight the choices Kara makes to be kind, and I do wish people would take the time to actually think about them before writing Lobo’s presence off.