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anxioushaybail

An absolutely amazing, memorable trip 🥰 @loldragonz

Cant wait to go on more adventures with you babe!

loldragonz

Had an amazing week trekking around the Olympic Peninsula with my darling 💖 @anxioushaybail

txmriddlx

Can you please reblog if your blog is a safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual, aromantic, pansexual, non binary, demisexual or any other kind of queer or questioning people? Because mine is.

alkanive-deactivated20160806

Trans resources (( please signal boost ))

General resources:

local resources

gender masterpost

LGBT social group meetups

agender chatroom

trans chatroom

transgender faq

Everything Gender Part 1 (Video)

Everything Gender Part 2 (Video)

The trans teen’s guide to dating

Literature with LGBT+ characters

LGBT+ Films

Transgender advice

family issues

Transgénero (Spanish article on all things trans)

Transgender Religious Expression and Spirituality

tips for living stealth (written for trans men but also applies for trans women)

gender therapy

Trans related terminology:

transwhat

transhealth

transgender glossary (this one’s a bit outdated)

transadvocate

becomingus (includes the dos and don’ts of using certain trans-related words)

transgender faq

list of gender identities

Glossary of Transgender, Non-Binary and Genderqueer Words

Definitions

Understanding your gender identity:

Gender identity flowchart

What is gender?

Understanding gender

What am I?

list of gender identities

Am I Transgender? (Video)

Being Trans (Video)

I Think I Might be Transgender, Now what do I do?

Pronouns:

What’s a pronoun?

Gender Neutral Pronouns (Video)

The Pronoun Place

Gender Neutral Language

How Non-Binary Pronouns Work

Guide to Non-Binary Pronouns

Gender Neutral Titles

pronouns

How to Correct People’s Pronoun and Name Slip-Ups

Intersex:

INSA

Advocates for Informed Choice

Interact Youth

What it’s Like (Video)

What is Intersex?

Intersex Definition

Male, Female, or Intersex

Nonbinary resources:

Nonbinary support blog

Unisex names

Living as Nonbinary (Spanish)

Genderqueer (Spanish)

Nonbinary Flowchart

Explaining Genderqueer

Genderqueer and Hormones (Video)

The Nonbinary Safespace

Nonbinary Autistics

Gender Queeries

Ask a Nonbinary

Nonbinary.org

Genderqueer ID

Hell Yeah, Agender!

A-Gender

Genderless Person (Video)

When no Gender Fits

Androgyne Online

Practical Androgyne

Ambiguous Sexuality

Neutrois.me

Neutrois.com

Neutrois Nonsense

What is Neutrois?

Experiences as Neutrois

Bigender Resources

What it’s Like Being Bigender

Demigender Safe Space

Demi Safe Spot

Introducing Demigender

Subgenders

Genderfluidity

Genderfluid Facts

genderfluxsupport

Teaching About Gender Fluidity (PDF)

How can I Live as Genderfluid?

Genderfluid Definitions

Two Spirit:

2spirits

Who Are They?

Native American Concepts

Of Indigenous North Americans

As They Are

Two Spirits: The Story of a Movement

Other Cultural Based Genders:

Hijra Wikipedia

Hijra Takes place in Indian Law

Kathoey Wikipedia

Where the ‘Ladyboys’ are

Muxe Wikipedia

In Mexico, Mixed Genders and Muxe

Fa’afafines Wikipedia

Fa’afafines: The Third Gender

Transfeminine resources:

tucking masterpost

Tucking and other skills

trans women resources master post

Makeup for beginners

MtF resources

Ask a transwoman

Tucking and other skills

Male to Female Support

How to hide stubble

tucking forum and thread

Tucking How-to Guide

low budget diy breast forms [video]

Realistic Breast Form Tutorial (Video)

The Breast Form Store

How to make home made breast forms

Women’s Clothing Terminology

TheLeelahProject

surgery booklet

hrt booklet

Trans Health Matters: Trans Women

girl names + their meanings

etiquette for women’s bathrooms

MtF HRT

Hormones: A guide for MTFs

Hormone replacement therapy (male-to-female)

Transgender Hormones - Transgender Care

Feminizing HRT (for Male-to-Females) - Michele O'Mara, PhD

Sex reassignment surgery (male-to-female)

Vaginoplasty: Male to Female Sex Reassignment Surgery

Surgery: A guide for MTFs (PDF)

MTF GRS

MTF surgeries price list (this is just for one surgery centre but can give you an idea of the estimated cost of any surgeries)

Transmasculine resources:

The Art of Transliness

Ask a trans guy

What it’s like being on T

Transmasc tips

GC2B Binders

Swimwear binders

Binding : how to guide + safety

FTM masterpost

boy names + their meanings

Workouts to Promote a More Masculine Figure

Where to Get Men’s Clothes that Fit

Dealing with the Dreaded Period

Pros and Cons of Strap-On Sex for Trans Guys

Relationship Tips for Trans Guys

A Guide to STPs and Standing to Pee

To Pack or Not to Pack

Swimming as a Trans Guy

Packing and Packers 101

Everything You Need to Know About Binders and Binding

Using the Men’s Bathroom

All About Top Surgery and Nipples

Androgel Q & A

What to Expect from Testosterone and When

Risks and Dangers of Illegal Testosterone

Genital Changes on T

10 Common Myths about Medical Transition

FTM Testosterone Therapy Basics

FTM resource guide

FTM transitioning guide

effects of testosterone therapy

FTM Chest Reconstruction Surgeries (includes Spanish translation link)

Hysterectomy/Oophorectomy

FTM Genital Reconstruction Surgeries (GRS)

FTM Basics: Terminology

Myths and Misconceptions about Testosterone, Transition, and Trans Men

1 year on testosterone: timeline of changes

FtM HRT

Hormones: A Guide for FTMs (PDF)

The Philadelphia Centre for Transgender Surgery

Coming out:

coming out tips

Coming Out to Family and Friends

Coming Out to Friends

Coming Out to Partners

Resources for Coming Out

Coming Out as Nonbinary

When Should You?

How to Come Out to Parents

Tips and Advice (Video)

Coming out & family issues

How to Deal with Parents that are Not Accepting

Tips for Coming out and Dealing with People

Explaining Your Transition to Kids/Younger Family Members

Trans mental health:

Gender spectrum: mental health

More Subtle Dysphoria

Dealing with Dysphoria and Helplessness

8 Signs and Symptoms of Dysphoria

25 Ways to Ease Dysphoria

tips on coping with gender dysphoria

How do I deal with dysphoria?

how to cope with Gender Dysphoria

transselfies: a trans body positivity blog

How to Deal with Parents that are Not Accepting

Trans suicide hotline

emergency hotlines (U.S. only)

international emergency hotlines

Doubts, Decision, and Detransition

Trans Lifeline

Trans advice/resource/discussion blogs and sites:

Genderfork

Gender inbetween

anagnori

transgenderteensurvivalguide

transclothesexchange

transresource

the-lgbt-youth-blog

transcending-anatomy

transgenderhousingnetwork

Transyada

Susan’s Place

transwhat

transselfies

Nonbinary support blog

helpfultransinfo

trans tips

transgenderadvice

transgenderbenders

Well… thats about it! Of course there’s a whole bunch of useful resources which I just couldn’t include in this post because it was getting too long.

Even if you yourself aren’t trans and wouldn’t find this content useful, please reblog because it may be of great help to some of your followers.

And if you ever have any trans-related questions or need some advice or support, feel free to message me at my main blog here or at my personal/transition blog here.

transgendersuggestion

feel free to reblog this or send me any questions of u still need help.

alexanders-archives

This is awesome

loveruns

Team “I can hear the near silent hum of electrical appliances and the bubbles fizzing in the can of soda on the coffee table, but can’t watch tv without subtitles and processes conversation at 1/4 speed”

skygenders

“A masterpiece was created in the Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone today” video by Kyle Kotajarvi

skygenders

smitethestate

This wasn’t a government stunt to try and avoid doing something meaningful, but a coming together of community artists who did it for free. Which is why it’s the best.

swordshapedleaves

And it’s not even finished in that shot!

It really is stunning art. I hope they keep this block closed to vehicles for a long time.

noping-out-deactivated20241117

I love how the right wing is all “It’s Anarchy! It’s terrorism! They’re burning everything down! They must be stopped! Send in the military!”

Meanwhile the moment people are allowed to do what they want, the first things they do are…

Make art and plant a garden.

[ID: 1) An overhead video of Black Lives Matter painted down the middle of a public street in Seattle in large letters. Every letter is a separate brightly colored piece of colored art. 2) A Tweet by James Saint-Franc @sirjamesa12 “Every single letter was designed by black artists from the Seattle area.” 3) A still shot of the same street art completed. It is even more brightly colored.]

vicks-vaporwave

afronerdism

Here’s the one they did in my city. All done by black artists

sweetoothgirl

Honey Cake Infused with Black Tea

fukkce

lgbtculture

I want my gay rights now! - Marsha P. Johnson (NYC Pride Parade, 1973)

thewallscavedin

white gays, don’t forget where we came from and who fought for us, ESPECIALLY during pride month. donate. sign petitions. educate yourself. get out there if you feel safe to. don’t just sit there and rake in the privileges that have been given to us on the backs of Black & brown folx. we need to commit ourselves to a lifetime of active anti-racism, learning, and growing through the discomfort of learning the entire world is catered to us to SHIELD us from thinking about our whiteness and the way it continues to hold other people down. if you think this, right now, today is “not our fight,” then with every fiber of my being i say FUCK YOU. and i’m not sorry about it. it’s time for us to pay it back. WHITE SILENCE IS VIOLENCE. black lives matter. black trans lives matter. black disabled lives matter. time to wake up, cuz most of us have been sleeping on this for WAYYY too long.

eowyntheavenger

What have the protests accomplished?

5/26 4 officers fired for murdering George Floyd 5/27 Charges dropped for Kenneth Walker (Breonna Taylor’s boyfriend, who police accused of killing her) 5/28 University of Minnesota cancels contract with police 5/28 3rd precinct police station neutralized by protesters 5/28 Minneapolis transit union refuses to bring police officers to protests or transport arrested protesters 5/29 Activists commandeer Minneapolis hotel to provide shelter to homeless 5/29 Former officer Chauvin arrested and charged with murder 5/29 Louisville Mayor suspends “no-knock” warrants 5/30 US Embassies across Africa condemn police murder of George Floyd 5/30 Minnesota Attorney General Keith Ellison takes over prosecution of the murdering officer 5/30 Transport Workers Union refuses to help NYPD transport arrests protesters 5/30 Maryland lawmakers forming work group on police reform, accountability 5/31 2 abusive officers fired for pulling a couple out of their car and tasing them - Atlanta, GA 6/1 Minneapolis public schools end contract with police 6/1 Confederate monument removed after being toppled by protesters - Birmingham, AL 6/1 CA prosecutors launch campaign to stop DAs from accepting police union money 6/1 Tulsa Mayor agrees to not renew Live PD contract 6/1 Louisville police chief fired after shooting of David Mcatee 6/1 Congress begins bipartisan push to cut off police access to military gear 6/1 Atlanta announces plans to create a task force and public database to track police brutality in metro Atlanta area 6/2 Minneapolis AFL-CIO calls for resignation of police union president Bob Kroll, a vocal white supremest 6/2 Pittsburgh transit union announces refusal to transport police officers or arrest protesters 6/2 Racist ex-mayor Frank Rizzo statue removed in Philadelphia 6/2 6 abusive officers charged for violence against residents and protesters - Atlanta, GA 6/2 Civil rights investigation of Minneapolis Police Dept launched 6/2 San Francisco resolution to prevent law enforcement from hiring officers with history of misconduct 6/2 Survey indicates that 64% of those polled are sympathetic to protesters, 47% disapprove of police handling of the protests, and 54% think the burning down of the Minneapolis police precinct was fully or partially justified 6/2 Trenton NJ announces policing reforms 6/2 Minneapolis City Council members consider disbanding the police 6/2 Confederate statue removed from Alexandria, VA 6/3 Officer fired for tweets promoting violence against protesters - Denver, CO 6/3 Walker Art Center and the Minneapolis Institute of Art cut ties with the MPD 6/3 Chauvin charges upgraded to second degree murder, remaining 3 officers also charged and taken into custody 6/3 Richmond VA Mayor Stoney announces RPD reform measures: establish “Marcus” alert for folks experiencing mental health crises, establish independent Citizen Review Board, an ordinance to remove Confederate monuments, and implement racial equity study 6/3 County commissioners deny proposal for $23 million expansion of Fulton County jail 6/3 Minneapolis Park and Recreation Board unanimously votes to sever ties with MPD 6/3 Seattle withdraws request to end federal oversight/consent decree of police department 6/3 Breonna Taylor’s case reopened 6/3 Louisville police department (Breonna Taylor’s murderers) will now be under review from an outside agency, which will include review on training, bias-free policing and accountability 6/3 Colorado lawmakers introduce a police reform bill that includes body cam laws, repealing the “fleeing felon” statute, and banning chokeholds 6/3 Los Angeles Mayor Eric Garcetti announces plans to reduce funding to police department by $150M and instead invest in minority communities 6/4 Virginia governor announces plans to remove Robert E. Lee statue from Richmond 6/4 Portland schools superintendent discontinues presence of armed police officers in schools 6/4 MBTA (Metro Boston) board orders that buses wont transport police to protests, or protesters to police 6/4 King County Labor Federation issues ultimatum to police unions: admit to and address racism in Seattle PD, or be removed 6/5 City of Minneapolis bans all chokeholds by police 6/5 Racist ex-mayor Hubbard statue removed - Dearborn, MI 6/5 NFL condemns racism and admits it should have listened to players’ protests 6/5 California Governor Gavin Newsom calls for statewide use-of-force standard made along with community leaders and ban on carotid holds 6/5 2 Buffalo officers suspended within a day of pushing 75 year old protester to the ground, and lying about it 6/5 2 NYPD officers suspended after videos of violence to protesters 6/5 The US Marines bans display of the Confederate flag 6/5 Dallas adopts a “duty to intervene” rule that requires officers to stop other cops who are engaging in excessive use of force 6/5 Dallas City Manager T.C. Broadnax releases an 11-point action plan for immediate police reforms 6/6 Statue of Confederate general Williams Carter Wickham torn down - Richmond, VA 6/6 2 Buffalo officers charged with second-degree assault for shoving elderly man 6/6 San Francisco Mayor London Breed announces effort to defund police and redirect funds to Black community 6/7 Frank Rizzo mural removed, to be replaced with new artwork - Philadelphia, PA 6/7 Minneapolis City Council members announce intent to disband the police department, invest in proven community-led public safety 6/7 Protesters in Bristol topple statue of slave trader Edward Colston, throw it in the river 6/7 NYC Mayor Bill de Blasio vows for the first time to cut funding for NYPD, redirect to social services 6/7 A Virginia police officer faces charges after using a stun gun on a black man 6/8 NY State Assembly passes the Eric Garner Anti-Chokehold Act 6/8 Democrats in Congress unveil a bill to rein in bias and excessive force in policing 6/8 Black lawmakers block a legislative session in Pennsylvania to demand action on police reform 6/8 France bans police use of chokeholds 6/8 Seattle council members join calls to defund police department 6/8 Boston reevaluates how it funds police department 6/8 Honolulu Police Commission nominees voice support for more transparency, reforms 6/8 Rights groups and Floyd’s family call for a UN inquiry into American policing and help with systemic police reform

No, it’s not enough, but this is only the beginning. Keep fighting!!!

(I adapted this list from this blog post and added sources and new entries. Please reblog with additions.)

galvanized-art

Black Power and Gay Pride aren’t mutually exclusive. the first pride was a riot led by trans black women.

feel free to use!

glossedchaos

stream to donate

for those of us who want to help but don’t have the funds, please click on these videos. DO NOT skip the ads, all ad revenue will be donated to multiple funds.

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glossedchaos

I found these steps online in regards to efficiently streaming these videos *not mine*

please follow these:

1. don’t watch on repeat

2. don’t watch it in a playlist

3. don’t fast forward or skip

4. don’t skip the advertisements

5. don’t pause the video

6. watch with at least 480p and half the volume

7. after watching this, watch 3 to 5 any other videos then search this video (don’t click it from your watch history) and watch it again

8. don’t clear watch and search history

9. comment and like this video

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glossedchaos

update: another video has been created

glossedchaos

pacificaedits

chapter three: the great american game - levi the poet

requested by @hot-wire-this-old-car

daremna

Sending so much fucking love to everyone else that's stuck in quarantine and having to face their thoughts and mental health issues with nowhere to run for distraction, I know it might feel suffocating but we're gonna get through it!

triss19

This is for all y’all who don’t understand how terrifying these suckers are.

OHMYGOD IT’S ATTACKING THE STATUE OF LIBERTY SOMEBODY DO SOMETHING

loremerchant

I know just the man for the job.

whomthegodswoulddestroy

This is a good joke. This is such a solid, quality joke.

prehistoricsilverfish

@explainingthejoke ?

explainingthejoke

The initial image is a size comparison between the statue of liberty and a wind turbine. The wind turbine is over ninety feet (about 28 meters) taller.

A commenter pretended to misinterpret the image as one of a wind turbine attacking the statue of liberty. The next commenter answered with an image of Don Quixote, a literary character who once thought a windmill was a monster and announced his plans to fight it. They are joking that if a wind turbine attacked the statue of liberty, Don Quixote would be willing to fight the wind turbine.

Incidentally, that scene led to the English idiom “tilting at windmills,” meaning a person who has not only disproportionate reactions of anger, but disproportionate reactions of anger to nonexistent challenges.

jenroses

So all those people who are fighting to preserve coal jobs and the fossil fuel economy are….

actually…

tilting at windmills.

kingatticus

I feel like this is one of the very few times where explaining the joke leads to another one that everyone can now understand and laugh at

kikakat17

This an amazing post

norcross

real quality, start to finish.

bifacts

I just wrote a bunch of "sex tips" and shared then on Twitter. There are a bunch more plus i'm planning on trying to write more tomorrow. I'm not saying that you should follow me, but also, if you were going to, my handle is @guneet_ofKaurse.

https://mobile.twitter.com/Guneet_ofKaurse/

bifacts