I had the time of my life... with you

Probably best known as @rainbowswift Kristen // millennial // wlw Eras Tour Philly 5/13 // Indy 11/2

[longlivetv]

FYI for any moots joining the 🦋 migration

[tswiftw]

my favorites pics of 'the eras tour' ♡

[tswiftsedits]

Taylor Swift The 1989 World Tour Live In Boston

[sayspeaknow]

[timeerasingyou]

Can you feel it now?

[nick-nellson]

Mamma Mia! (2008) dir. Phyllida Lloyd

[taylorswiftstylequestions]

listening to “the prophecy” post taywedding is so 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 like baby it changed it really did

[diamondseaside]

thinking bout 2019 and how i took her for granted

[sayspeaknow]

[midnightglances]

I’m not perfect but at least I’ve never sent a mean anon

[longlivetv]

Have had a headache for two days, took headache medicine and it went away did anyone know about this?

[daggersandarrows]

you know, the more i think about it, the angrier i get about how mainstream media and even people in general treated marie kondo when the life changing magic of tidying up got big. it's just so unnecessary and sad to me and i think the vast majority of people would love what she has to say if they just actually looked into it instead of maliciously memeing her to death? i'm not talking about the cutesy does it spark joy stuff but all the things portraying her as some bizarre evil cleaning dictator.

i actually read her book when i was about twelve years old, in the most shocking and probably only example of me ever being ahead of a trend, and even at twelve i really loved everything she said. at that point in time i lived in fear of my mother's threats that she would come and throw everything away while i was school, and my small and very adhd mind simply could not grasp the concept of "have less stuff". have less of WHICH stuff? how? i'd never actually been taught how to clean my room besides being told "pick up stuff" and "be organized", and as she points out multiple times, cleaning is not an intuitive thing. it's a learned behavior and skill.

anyways. her entire philosophy centers on surrounding yourself with things that you love, and only things that you love (or things that you absolutely need). she explicitly says over and over again that it is not about throwing things away, it is not about minimalism, it is not about "what is the smallest amount possible that you can survive on". she literally has a whole section where she talks about how hard it can be to throw things away when you've lived in poverty all your life and you don't have absolute confidence that you can replace something that you really needed if it gets thrown out, even though you're not likely to ever really need it--you've just been conditioned to think that because that's literally how you survive, when you're poor. she talks about how that mindset can serve and how it can damage. she talks about how minimalism is sort of a rich people thing, cause they can afford to throw everything away.

this woman really came out here and said "i want you to be surrounded by things you love and i'm going to validate your fears and your difficulties in getting to that place" and people somehow got mad at her. i don't understand it

[stevishabitat]

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[ohwhatagloomyshow]

do you remember why you followed prev

yes :)

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Remaining time: 4 days 8 hours

[apolladay]

Growing up, when you got dressed for school or to go out in public, did you ever have a parent tell you to go back and change your outfit?

Yes, and I took issue with it

Yes, but looking back, they were right to tell me to do so

Yes, and I was indifferent to the situation

Yes, but it only happened like once or twice

No, this never happened to me

If this did happen to me, I don’t remember it

Nuance/Poll Submitter, You Missed An Option

Growing up, when you got dressed for school or to go out in public, did you ever have a parent tell you to go back and change your outfit?

Yes, and I took issue with it

Yes, but looking back, they were right to tell me to do so

Yes, and I was indifferent to the situation

Yes, but it only happened like once or twice

No, this never happened to me

If this did happen to me, I don’t remember it

Nuance/Poll Submitter, You Missed An Option

Remaining time: 4 days 15 hours

[cages-boxes-hunters-foxes]

mrsbriannamama: Smith-Schuster, Party of 2 🤍 (x)

[what-even-is-thiss]

idk some people just feel threatened by anyone being unapologetically themselves even when they aren’t hurting anyone because it brings up the possibility that the rules are made up and the points don’t matter and that’s an uncomfortable thought

[stuckinthistaydream]

I actually think we as a community do not appreciate this is why we can’t have nice things enough