To be lost and to be found

Rowen he/him matching with @themeeperscreepers

[lordelvensmellthesecond]

INTRO POST!!!!

(again lol)

My name is Rowen, I used to be @Lordelvensmelly but my acc was wiped out by Tumblr for an unspecified reason BUT I HAVE BEEN BACK A WHILE (I was too lazy to make an actual intro post 💔)

I go by he/him pronouns and occasionally it/its, I'm asexual, and panromantic <33

Taken by my sweet Jamie 💙💙

FANDOMS I'M IN!!!

Tnbc, Coraline, Corpse Bride, Frankenstein (Mary Shelley), Frankenstein (gdt), really anything that has to do with Frankenstein tbh, the Vampire Chronicles, Haunted Hotel, The Hollow (Netflix), Stranger Things, Hamilton the musical, amrev, IT, Bigtop Burger, Heathers the musical, Six the musical, FNAF, PJO/Riordanverse, Twilight, Lord of the Rings and the Hobbit, Wuthering Heights (THE BOOK!!), Mouthwashing, Mushroom Oasis, Lurking for Love, tadc, Monster High, mlp, Sally Face, Bad Parenting, Skyrim, Oblivion, and ESO, Fallout (specifically Fallout 4), Moral Orel, Epic the musical, Miraculous Ladybug and Chat Noir, Date Everything (kinda), Scream movies (specifically the first one and the fourth one), probably more that I'll add when i think ot them

I LOVE MY MOOTS!!!

@thepicklekingog @peachyboots48 @emerveiller-v @imkindasleepdeprived @shaethecrow @themeeperscreepers @bishopoftheoldfaith @toxicwound @acebelongs @hdgepodgelovesfrogs @just-4-girl @justainsanenobody @merrychristmas-pleasedontcall @swirlscripted @toweird2benormal @littlejemmy @snazzynjazzy1 @time-for-a-real-duel @divinedoll2005 @hwangphillia @thisisharmony07 @perfectdreamscythe @philip-hamiltons-lil-sis @prongsandpads @p-rk-r @andwithinme @evilheart12 @dontyoudarejudg3 @shirestrawberry144 @fraythet1red @mamaptaha @the-king-of-kaumidy @thegayriley @f4nd0m-h0pp3r @grandpappypickle @butidonotapprove @timdrakescaffeinesupplier @sparkle-emoji-4 @l1zardl1ps @alakeoflillies @fa1rytyp3-fru1tcak3 @redwine-supernova @riri-shark-in-perpetual-motion @icarhus @x-angelkawaiichan-x @x-kangelkawaiii-x @mawcey-mangoes @pnatandbzkwat @skyrigel @aamtreeanalogy will add more to this if I remember more usernames and acquire more

[she-who-is-two-sizes-too-big]

Y'all realize trans men were historically included in lesbianism only by virtue of exclusion towards trans women, right? Yhat's not a thing to be celebrated or emulated.

Hell, TERF as a term was coined specifically to refer to the supporters and attendees of the Michivan Wombyn's Festival. Which gladly welcomed trans men in with open arms but turned away trans women because as the name suggests they're idea of a "Real Woman" is an AFAB, regardless of gender identity. Its transmisogynistic as fuck.

[trannyradfem]

You realize that "lesbian" NEVER included anyone AMAB in the first place for a reason, right? It's almost like it's a natural sexuality that exists that experienced hundreds of years of horrific oppression, and it DOES NOT have ANY obligation to include you or anyone else AMAB. Because the entire definition is the exclusion of those AMAB!! Why the fuck isn't that good enough for you?

Crazy thought I know, but there are people on this planet that are explicitly not into you and will never ever be into you no matter how much you modify your body, and you need to get the fuck over it. Other peoples' sexualities do not exist to please you. This is the equivalent of what you guys say TERFs do, trying to force detransition someone. You're trying to perform conversion therapy via pressure and shame with the homophobic "genital preference" bullshit, and erase our identity and communities by calling it "transmisogynistic", all to make YOU feel better about your own self-made gender. And you think you're in the right here???

For fucks sake, as another trans person, you're fucking pathetic for trying to gain ground at another marginalized group's expense, especially since this literally includes other trans people! Do you have any idea how many of us this rape rhetoric has silenced and shamed out of the trans community? You're absolutely fucking PATHETIC for making your own dysphoria the problem of people who would never ever be attracted to you, and trying to turn that into a human rights issue.

You can misgender me, call me a she-devil bitch TERF, you can whine and moan about it all day, but I and every other lesbian will NEVER EVER be attracted to trans women. EVER. Because we never were in the first place! Instead of appropriating our label and trying erase the entire concept of us existing, why the fuck can't you people just stick to "pansexual" or any other of the hundreds of microlabels that now exist? Focus on people who actually DO want you! Because you know what refusing to do that is? It's rapist behavior!

"It's transmisogynistic as fuck", Good! Stop invading the spaces of people who are explicitly not into you and maybe you won't need to make fake -ism words for it. Cotton ceiling is rape rhetoric, and calling this transmisogyny makes you look like a rapist. Trying to force yourself into a sexuality space specifically made for people not attracted to you makes you look like a massive fucking incel rapist, and it's literally not ok for any other marginalized group to do! It's the same shit that cis men who fetishize us do, do you have ANY fucking shame?

You can pump the lesbian community full of bisexuals all you want with gender nonsense, but literally nobody but bisexuals are attracted to pronouns, you will never EVER catch the attraction of a real lesbian, and you deserve to feel bad for trying to force that and erase us. You deserve to feel bad for destroying spaces that were explicitly made for us, and for making getting laid a human rights issue exclusively for trans fems, who yall swear are always wrongfully called rapists. As if you don't do it to yourselves with crap like this.

I belong in the lesbian community because I am AFAB. Lesbians are those AFAB who are into those AFAB. End of! Leave us the fuck alone already.

[she-who-is-two-sizes-too-big]

I hope you heal from your intense self hatred

[themeeperscreepers]

Holy fucking terf and derailing of a post about oppression.

Trans women are real women, AFAB women are real women, anyone who identifies as a woman is a real woman because gender separation is a made up concept by oppressors to oppress.

And even if you're AFAB you also have pronouns because everyone has pronouns 🫶 that's how language works ❤️

[themeeperscreepers]

Better question have you ever had an actual calm conversation with a trans woman about their point of view or did you just decide that you hate them and will never have a different view? Ever heard of being so open minded that you're close minded?

Did you know the generalization of a marginalised group of people is the same thing that lead to slavery and genocide? Did you know blaming an entire minority for the crimes of a percentile of the community is how racism and genocide happens? Did you know that the crimes of percentage of a group does not speak for the entire group? How can you say that trans men are valid and not agree that trans women are the same? Who are you to shame your sisters for the crimes of a few when the same can be said of any minority including your own?

You can hate those who have actually done something but do not discriminate against your sisters who have experienced the same thing that you have from the opposite side. Do not punish them for the crimes of those who are not them. Open your mind before you close it so bad you end up hurting people, I beg of you.

Look at anything. Look at the crimes against trans women. Look at the oppression they experience. Look at any news article about the thousands of times trans women have been murdered and beaten and destroyed for being who they are. Just because it is not the same oppression that you have does not mean they are not oppressed.

Rape does not happen because someone is trans it happens because they are a rapist. Abuse does not happen because someone is trans it happens because they are an abuser.

Who are you to hate a mirror of yourself?

[xolboragainandagain]

Thorin Oakenshield X Reader headcanons <3

He leaves you for BIlbo

[johnjacklaurens]

John brain rot back full force

[gracerockyyes]

I had an entire backstory for pre-canon Rocky and Adrian, how they met, their love story, etc.etc. Then I saw the cameo where James Ortiz said they had an arranged marriage that worked out and threw it all out the window WELP. Anyways, here's their first arranged meeting :)

[trashfishhh]

Our favorite pathetic downturned-eye boys

[grizyon]

Something quick, I just really wanted to draw Grace and Adrian messing with Rocky and bonding.

[meburgers]

adrian’s “mate of the week” ranking board

[iskander-tm]

mission bag the baddie

[clowndraws]

movie night 😀

[duketod]

[nohaijiachi]

I am consistently delighted by @justcakethanks eridian welcoming committee comics, and I *HAD* to do something with their template lmfao, I love these little guys!!!

[wayward-cryptid]

German shepherd Simon and red fox Grace

[justcakethanks]

Everyone wish my husbo a happy birthday today! It's entirely a coincidence this cake idea happened around now lol.

Cake communication based on a suggestion by @anna-neko !

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[dotstronaut]

Been thinking about the circumstances that tend to cause Simon to act out, and what the perfect storm of circumstances would be to make him and Grace like each other as LITTLE as possible. :) At first.

[loony-ludy]

Don’t worry, it’s not an insult! Calling someone “the shit” is actually a common earth compliment!

Template by @justcakethanks whose comics have been making me lose it for the last several days

[goodieprocter]

The rare two-punchline EWC comic (because both made me laugh)

Eridian Welcoming Committee courtesy of @justcakethanks