Part of the weirdness of Breaking Dawn is that at least on some level, Bella's success at being a vampire is because she chose it beforehand. I think Alice even mentions in Eclipse that no one has done that before, so who knows how Bella will turn out? But a) the character/story still treats BELLA like she is amazing vs her circumstances being the main driver here and b) it also has this weird tone of like "see anyone could do it with with enough focus and attitude, if they only 'prepared' and chose it before."
But given the circumstances in which everyone else was turned (Alice, Edward, Esme, Rosalie and Emmett to save their lives; Carlisle and Jasper running into a vampire in the wild) that . . . that wasn't an option?
It reminds me of SM talking about how Edward loves Bella more than Rosalie loves Emmett, because Edward chose to keep Bella human yet Rosalie chose to turn Emmett but those were WILDLY different circumstances?! Emmett was actively bleeding out. The choice before Rosalie was not "let him live a human life without vampires" or "turn him," it was "let him die right now" or "turn him."
(And also, Edward makes the same choice Rosalie did when Bella is actively dying, so . . .)
The tone is like "Gosh why didn't you guys just mentally prepare yourself for vampirism?" They . . . they couldn't? How were any of them supposed to have the "right focus and attitude" after the trauma they went through? They weren't waking up a happily married billionaire with their spouse and supportive family at their side like Bella was, they were waking up to an entirely alien existence with strangers--if that. Alice and Carlisle were alone.
But then we get Life and Death where Beau LITERALLY has no time to prepare or choose anything and he is STILL as amazing as Bella was so this vaguely condescending "just have the right focus and attitude!" stuff doesn't even matter. Bella and Beau literally are just amazing at it because SM can't bear to let them become monsters or face monstrous consequences.



















