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I keep trying to tell my mother this she ain’t listening tho
Wait until they realize were deadass fuckin’ serious about having no kids.
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I keep trying to tell my mother this she ain’t listening tho
Wait until they realize were deadass fuckin’ serious about having no kids.
i can’t imagine someone getting sweaty hands or feeling butterflies in their stomach when they look at me like i can’t imagine myself being the object of someone’s late night love fantasy
Have a slutty phase, it builds character.
my ‘slutty phase’ was actually super-traumatic and has put me in therapy but like
ok
my “slutty phase” occurred when i was 13-14 and it led to rape and emotional and physical abuse but it’s okay because abuse builds character right 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
my “slutty phase” led to pedophiles grooming me into sending them nudes, being forced into sending videos that show me doing degrading or sexual things (yk…child porn) or guys sexually assaulting and almost raping me until i cry so they could leave me on the ground etc 😊👌 but ofc, how nice 😍 i was a True Hoe!!!!!
my “slutty phase” was a result of my childhood best friend reenacting every aspect of her molestation on me. it lead to me give a man in his 20’s nudes when i was 13 and being groomed further by a group of men over the internet. it left me and my family traumatized, broke my relationships, and left me unable to function on my own or socially and has made me a homebody who can’t even talk to her closest friends out of self-loathing. apparently this builds character tho, if you’d call being left a shell of your former self unable to function and unable to process emotions without crying or self harm building character.
My “slutty phase” was from 14-17, I used hypersexuality as a coping mechanism and now I feel ashamed and guilty and awful for impulsively having sex every time I felt sad or alone or abandoned (I’ve recently been diagnosed with bpd)
My “slutty phase” also was me using hypersexuality as a coping mechanism. I was raped in college and fell victim to “sex positive feminism” soon after, which pretty much encouraged having sexual interactions with no strings attached, claiming it was normal and you could do it for any reason as long as ~*consent*~ uwu
Don’t normalize “slutty phases”, they often are due to traumatizing bullshit in a woman’s life. In fact let’s not call it “slutty” which puts blame on the woman. I would call it misogyny-induced hypersexuality.
My “slutty phase” was a result of my abusive childhood and molestation. Got kicked out at age 18 and ended up being manipulated into doing prostitution by an older “friend” and a pimp. Started doing drugs, got raped multiple times, had all my stuff stolen, got constant death threats, got kidnapped by a vice lord and almost got sent off to Chicago.
i hadn’t even hit double digits by the time i started my “slutty phase” by seeking out sexual validation from older men online.
“My slutty phase” was a result of big emotional trauma and led to hospitalization for four weeks.
My “slutty phase” led me to feel used and destructive so I rolled right into ‘sex work’ because at least I’d get something out of it, and surprise! It was hellish, traumatic, and took years of self-work to overcome.
“slutty phase” in our culture just ends up being “cheaply used”
How many horrible experiences does it take until people start to realise this hypersexual rhetoric is just a front for abuse enablement and normalisation?
Lord have mercy on us
Have a “slutty phase” is translation for “teens and young women should be sexually available and used by men” it somehow builds character.
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breathplay is never safe. choking is never safe.
this is how porn has hijacked our sexuality. you’re now expected to let your partner nearly kill you during sex.
reminder that there is no way to “safely” choke your partner as it can cause a host of debilitating, permanent, and possibly fatal health issues no matter how long you’re doing it, including:
“difficulty breathing, raspy, hoarse or loss of voice, coughing, difficulty swallowing, drooling, nausea, vomiting, changes in behavior, hallucinations, headaches, light-headedness, dizziness, urination or defecation, miscarriage, swollen tongue or lips … which may be an early indication of an internal injury such as swelling, bleeding, fractured larynx (“voice box”) or hyoid bone, seizures, pulmonary edema (lungs filled with fluid) or death within 36 hours due to progressive internal injuries and/or complications. it is possible to survive the assault, regain consciousness, refuse medical treatment, and then die later from undiagnosed or unsuspected fatal injury.” (x)
it’s also a form of felonious assault considering how serious the damage can be! don’t fucking choke people.
MEN GET THEIR DICKS HARD TO THIS?
Being 5 seconds from unconsciousness/death is sexy and arousing to them?
And tumblr is just nonchantly passing tips on “safely” strangling women to near death?
nothing angers me more than when trans women say that after bottom surgery, they have a vulva/vagina.
an open wound isn’t a vagina. vaginas are not just holes for you to stick your dick in. y’all are so gross
jameela jamil is the perfect example of what happens when you let social media be in charge of your life
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Sometimes it hits me that misogyny is an extremely acceptable form of oppression in our culture. Men can be raving misogynists (many center their identity on it) and they don’t get cancelled. Songs by men call women bitches and sluts and thots over and over and over and no one cares. It’s almost expected on my college campus that every young woman will experience sexual harassment/assault at some point. Men are given free reign to be as scummy and destructive as possible. Sometimes I really feel bad for young girls growing up. The world isn’t good enough for them.
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Wonderful things about people learning a new language:
When they have no idea how to balance the formality of their word choices and the severity of their cursing, so it’s neutral at -
nvm I can’t explain it eloquently with words, I made a chart.
Everyone gets to cancel JK Rowling for being a terf but when we bring up Kobe being a rapist we get told to mind our buisness
And that is it. That is the gender movement in a nutshell: A woman being 'mean' is worse than a man being a literal rapist.
“the worst thing about male violence against women is that it makes men look bad”
people really ask radfems "how can you assume every man is misogynistic"...... as if we don't have eyes, ears, a brain and a conscience
I say we should fire back “why do you assume every man is good when, statistically, they’re the greatest threat to women, animals, children, and the Earth itself?”
Guys please reply to this with what your url means or references I’m really curious
It’s the Latin name for a German honeybee!
I’m a feminist and I am #done
But still trying to contribute to this society
im a radical feminist ninja woman !
I’m a radical feminist and I love scorpia from she-ra so i decided to name my blog after her
Mine references a sort of ethereal feeling that can’t be placed, and according to TRAs, doesn’t actually exist.
mine’s the crime I committed that apparently can only be combatted with rape and death threats 🤷♀️
ars is the latin for art. I'm lost, but I made it more aesthetic
can’t believe thousands of you don’t believe women inherit trauma from our foremothers or face socioeconomic disadvantages……………..you all need to stop using “feminism” as a catch-all for social justice if the horror women experience for being women is an afterthought at best or literally non-existent in your activist priorities
Bullying and harassing a minority with a high rate of suicide dose nothing for feminism other than lower its supporters. All women belong in feminism, even if their body isnt like yours. Nb lesbians exist and have existed historically. Trans women are women and female and unless yo ass a doctor you cant disagree. You cant abolish gender if you dont also abolish sex, everyone is fucking equal.
I'm not bullying or harassing anyone. I'm defending an oppressed minority group from having their activist movement derailed just so people can feel included.
"you can't abolish gender if you don't also abolish sex" how do you figure? because if gender is your identity and sex is your biology, how does it make sense that abolishing an ideation based in historically perpetuated gender roles would necessarily make sex obsolete?
What is the goal of feminism if anyone can identify in or out of the oppressed minority it seeks to protect? What need is there for feminism if we can't even discuss the criteria for misogyny? Who does feminism defend if there is no common trait that holds the oppressed minority together as the identifiable victims of the patriarchy? If all that makes a woman is "feeling like a woman" and yet women are still oppressed, why would anyone identify as a woman? In fact, if all that makes a woman is "feeling like a woman," what were women oppressed for to begin with? How did the men know whom to oppress?
"trans women are women and female and unless yo ass a doctor you cant disagree." watch me. If transwomen are both women and female, what makes them trans? and do you really want to pull the doctor thread when "brainsex" has been debunked by multiple studies?
Trans people are oppressed for not fitting neatly into the boxes of "born male=stuff we associate with men; born female=stuff we associate with women". The solution is not to expand the boxes, the solution is to abolish the boxes so that anyone regardless of biological sex can engage in behaviours associated with the opposite sex without stigma. Thats one of the reasons I say to abolish gender and not sex— gender has been restricting the two sexes to rigid behaviour considered socially acceptable for millennia, but the behaviour restricting female people has contributed to our societal disadvantage and reliance on males. By abolishing the division between these genders/behaviours/associations but still acknowledging sex, we can fight the underlying problems society has with females while making "masculinity" and "femininity" obsolete. idgaf if males want to wear skirts or lipstick or whatever but that's never been womanhood. they should be able to exercise that self-expression without experiencing oppression for it (transphobia) but also without perpetuating misogyny by claiming that those very things make them women.
For example, dresses vs trousers. Remember the way females were required to wear dresses that hindered movement and squished ribs and kept them slow-moving while men in trousers had mobility, practicality, and comfort? Remember when women started trying to wear trousers because, again, mobility practicality and comfort? and remember just how much men hated that and tried to portray them as unduly masculine and man-hating? The point is that the gendered thing for women (skirts) actively contributed towards misogyny and attempts to break out of it and wear trousers resulted in more violent misogyny against those who didn't conform. To say that those women wearing trousers were men for wanting to wear trousers in order to achieve a greater level of social equality is also misogynistic because it means that women are defined as the ones who ought to be hindered and anyone who benefitted from that advantage ought to be a man. this is also why I take issue with your statement "nb lesbians exist and have existed historically" and any retroactive "transing" of women who dared to defy restrictive womanhood.
last but not least, "everyone is fucking equal." well no actually the point is that we're not equal yet, we need feminism to get there, and for feminism to do its damn job we need to at least be able to identify its defendees by the trait for which they're oppressed, and women are not oppressed for femininity—femininity is a tool of the oppression.
I still remember the old good days when this tumblr was dedicated to Sh4wn M3nd3s.
look how far I've come...