My Sides and Me

Keeping My Old URL & Title for Nostalgia. I'm just a random derp that's here for some reason. Pan, demiromantic & 19. Feel free to ask me or my sides anything. Roleplaying will be discontinued until further notice. (pronouns:she/they/it/flora (ask how to use last one)). Aro/Ace safe space, don't try to repackage your aphobia/panphobia as "discourse", you will just get blocked. [I am] anti r*mr*m/r*mr*m shippers dni | proshippers in general dni.

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[wealdandwold]

I always reblog this cos I know ppl who have anxiety around stuff like that who find this helpful (anxiety’s not always rational, & even ppl superinformed about how magic works etc can get nasty intrusive surges of shit from seeing those posts from time to time!)

[felthry]

What the guy above said, and also this is adorable.

[lotus-and-sides]

Here

[ip2lb]

[honestherring]

Please sign this petition to stop this clown-looking motherfucker. 

[kieradoe]

A July 21, 2020 update on signatures.

[maibee]

I haven’t seen many people saying this, but he’s likely created this story on purpose, to change the search results for the terms “mark Zuckerberg Hawaii.”

That’s now the top result, pushing this down

This was a calculated move by a pr team.

[gingeredpolarbears]

>>>> Petition link again bc it’s getting lost in all the text <<<<<

[newtonpermetersquare]

why have i been disgraced

[probablyasocialecologist]

Around 50-85% of the oxygen in Earth’s atmosphere comes from phytoplankton

[xwxda-m1n3n-g035-nyahxwx]

phytoplankton appreciation post 💚

[lotus-and-sides]

Teddiursa ❤ -JJ

I'm b a b e y

[bad-puns-n-finger-guns]

Since the original post was probably fake

Everyone who reblogs will receive a pokemon based off of their blog in their asks!

[rebelwhodoesntknow]

Oooh yay!

[ghostcats-random-hubworld]

Nice!

[five-rivers]

I have nothing to lose.

[lotus-and-sides]

Pessimistic optimism here we go

[hilarioushumorfromouterspace]

[seelcudoom]

imagine trying to apply this logic to any other scenario “no officer i dident steal this, because i murdered the owner first, wait why are you still arresting me”

[hoardofhyperfixations]

Oh my god i thought they were trying to show it was worse but no I'm too hopeful

[lotus-and-sides]

The worst part? It's that they exploited the fact that some tribes of natives don't believe in the idea that property can be owned.

[lotus-and-sides]

Hey Lotus! How you doing? Sorry for bothering you, but in reference to your last post, what happened? I've seen some things but I don't really understand what happened exactly. Like I've read something about someone stealing content from others if I'm not wrong. Sorry again if I'm bothering -❄

Hey! I'm doing fine, you're not bothering me at all. As for the situation, despite observing the entire thing I can't really answer this. I'll tag JJ though, they're my internet parent and I'm sure they can answer it far better than me.

@sympathetic-deceit-trash

[hoardofhyperfixations]

So.

A pro-shipper made a blog called grapetakesyourshit. She stole unsympathetic sides content from people and reposted it, "for those of you who are blocked". Aka for the sole purpose of allowing people who were blocked to get past that and interact with content.

People were understandably upset, angry, and hurt. She didn't care and said she would stop when she got to 25 stolen posts. She admitted that she did it just because she could.

A friend of her's convinced her to delete her blog early, luckily, so she only ended up stealing one more post before she deleted.

[lotus-and-sides]

And then when she was gone I stole the url

[lotus-and-sides]

Hey Lotus! How you doing? Sorry for bothering you, but in reference to your last post, what happened? I've seen some things but I don't really understand what happened exactly. Like I've read something about someone stealing content from others if I'm not wrong. Sorry again if I'm bothering -❄

Hey! I'm doing fine, you're not bothering me at all. As for the situation, despite observing the entire thing I can't really answer this. I'll tag JJ though, they're my internet parent and I'm sure they can answer it far better than me.

@sympathetic-deceit-trash

[unsympathetic-roman]

Grape (grapetakesyourshit) has deleted.

In order to stop this from happening again, @lotus-and-sides had taken both the url @grapetakesyourshit and the parody blog @peartakesgrapesshit's url after they were deleted.

I understand that this was a stressful and frightening experience, and that a lot of people have left the fandom/stopped making u!sides content because of this.

Grape has asked for people to delete the reblogs of her posts, as she wants this whole ordeal to be forgotten. You obviously don't have to, but as a fandom I would appreciate if we tried to grow forward from this instead of remaining scared.

When I asked, she refused to apologize, so I'll apologize for her; I'm sorry. I'm sorry about the hurt this has caused and the vast negative impact this has had on people and the community.

My dms are always open to talk.

Tagging: @yeet-ceit @unsympathetic-patton @unsympathetic-remus @decaf-remy @ladybug-anon @unsymp-athetic-nerd @sympathetic-deceit-trash

Proshippers can interact but please don't clown in the notes.

[lotus-and-sides]

What can I say, except You're Welcome?

[jerico3193]

[frizz01percy]

this should be the most reblogged post on tumblr before it dies

[xan-thos-blog]

We need to reblog this so much that the post breaks

[mortis01]

Reblog pls

[clethan-deactivated20220614]

NO

[thedeadmemereturns]

Is this a case of “If you don’t learn from history, you’re doomed to repeat it” or is this an old post?

[lotus-and-sides]

Answer in notes:

[slothblog]

everyone who reblogs this will get gordon ramsay in their inbox 

[girlsbackhome]

i’M CRyING

[mathsturbation]

if you don’t keep your promise i swear to god

[mathsturbation]

i reblogged it less than an hour ago hOW THE FUCK DID YOU MANAGE THAT

[flaccid-dragon-dildo-deactivate]

already at 70000 notes? Doubt you will follow through this far after its started.

[flaccid-dragon-dildo-deactivate]

I POSTED THAT 30 FUCKING SECONDS AGO

[aokiseiun]

i cant believe youre still human

[reddarchivesdeadaccount-deactiv]

Well played

[generic-account-here]

I need

[eriitime]

Give me my gordon ramsay my day has been bad and i need it

[maxtheidiot]

PLEASE

[stainablesilver]

peals

[majorasmssk]

Please

[thesoundofmadness]

Please

[cinammon-roll-panda]

I want a salty British man in my dms

[friendly-neighborhood-wizard]

holy cow is this real

[friendly-neighborhood-wizard]

IT’S REAL EVERYONE THIS PERSON IS INHUMAN

[hashtag-put-murdoc-back]

blease

[everywitchway-deactivated201905]

I want

[the-cephalon-weave]

Feed me the ram

[feniczoroark]

I hunger for the ram

[eat-a-friggin-snickers]

pls give meh ram

[dailypattondoodles]

PLEASE

[pandorassandycrabbox]

no way this real gib me gorbon

[vergeangst]

Yes pleAse

[icarus-showmethemoon]

i want a gordon

[toomuchdickfort]

Might I get a Gordon, please?

[shitpostsorcerer]

There’s no way they can send him to over 400,000 people

[quincunx]

Hahaha

[piipstachio]

Yall send me my boi

[hottspinner]

Gimmie!

[sanders-sides-uncorrect-quotes]

GIMME HIM

[sanders-sides-uncorrect-quotes]

I GOT HIM

[lotus-and-sides]

GIVE ME THE RAMSEY

[entertainingfaith]

I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

To prove something to a friend, please

REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

[spacexualkids]

:)

[ladyofthefanart]

REBLOGGING SO HARD.

[too-easily-obsessed]

YOU BETTER FUCKING BELIEVE IM REBLOGGING WTF

[sakuraaa-s]

GET 👏🏼 RID 👏🏼 OF 👏🏼 ACE/AROPHOBIA 👏🏼

[sylveonagainstddlg-deactivated2]

im gonna reblog this everytime i see it ,,

[sjw-hitgirl]

REBLOG THIS ALREADY!

[tante-toska]

*click click click click*

[grumbllleseeker]

Remember to only reblog

[augustdieshemust]

REBLOG!!

[spaghettifromthevoid]

ONLY REBLOG

[lotus-and-sides]

No like, only reblog

@sympathetic-deceit-trash (look at the tags)

[how2helprightnow]

https://www.gofundme.com/f/brandon039s-medical-bills-and-medical-expenses

[booasaur]

As of June 9th, this one still hasn’t met its target.

[melancholy-manic]

Please help if yall can!!!

[hoardofhyperfixations]

Whenever I'm upset, you're posts always seem to cheer me up. - 🌺

[hoardofhyperfixations]

[lotus-and-sides]

-sobs-

[hiikawahinas-deactivated2021111]

“assuming autistic people don’t know what things like sex and romance are is infantilizing and ableist” and “let asexual, aromantic, and aroace autistic people exist in peace” are two opinions that can coexist and some of you really need to Know

[didsomebodysay-kat-aesthetic]

The idea that they can’t coexist also perpetuates the idea that because asexual and aromantic people don’t feel sexual or romantic attraction that they dont understand sex and romance which is also infantilizing and ace/arophobic

[hiikawahinas-deactivated2021111]

actually rb this version instead

[theforce]

name one native american intellectual off the top of your head, name one native american actor or actress off the top of your head, name one native american senator, one native american news anchor, or an author or a tv personality or a singer or a poet or a comedian, name a single native american teacher you’ve had, can you? probably not 

ok so now think of one native american cartoon character you know of or a sports team relating to native americans whether it’s their actual name or their team logo, or a town you live in or near with a “native” name bet a lot of these things came to you right away i bet you didn’t even have to think 

needing native representation in media, education and government are not decoy issues, the commercialization and appropriation of native cultures are not decoy issues, the lack of native representation is institutional oppression at work 

[travelingstargazer]

White people specifically need to reblog this, I don’t CARE if it makes you uncomfortable–that’s the point. Listen to Native voices about Native issues PLEASE

[lotus-and-sides]

We only make up 1.6 percent of the population in the country our ancestors were born in. The majority of my Native relatives are Catholic, normally I would be fine with that, but I know why they’re Catholic, and it breaks my heart just thinking about it. The majority of the representation we get is not real people, and I’ve never heard of being done right in first place. People take culture that is sacred to us, and turn it into a fashion trend. My heritage means a lot to me, it was the culture I grew up in, but with it comes the pain of my ancestors.

@sympathetic-deceit-trash I feel like you might have something to add.

[hoardofhyperfixations]

A lot of our culture was destroyed and what we have left has been taken for things like fashion, slang, and pop culture. Spirit animals and other things have been taken from us and used in pop culture. We’re mocked and have caricatures of us used in movies and shows and it’s insulting.

[theforce]

name one native american intellectual off the top of your head, name one native american actor or actress off the top of your head, name one native american senator, one native american news anchor, or an author or a tv personality or a singer or a poet or a comedian, name a single native american teacher you’ve had, can you? probably not 

ok so now think of one native american cartoon character you know of or a sports team relating to native americans whether it’s their actual name or their team logo, or a town you live in or near with a “native” name bet a lot of these things came to you right away i bet you didn’t even have to think 

needing native representation in media, education and government are not decoy issues, the commercialization and appropriation of native cultures are not decoy issues, the lack of native representation is institutional oppression at work 

[travelingstargazer]

White people specifically need to reblog this, I don’t CARE if it makes you uncomfortable–that’s the point. Listen to Native voices about Native issues PLEASE

[lotus-and-sides]

We only make up 1.6 percent of the population in the country our ancestors were born in. The majority of my Native relatives are Catholic, normally I would be fine with that, but I know why they're Catholic, and it breaks my heart just thinking about it. The majority of the representation we get is not real people, and I've never heard of being done right in first place. People take culture that is sacred to us, and turn it into a fashion trend. My heritage means a lot to me, it was the culture I grew up in, but with it comes the pain of my ancestors.

@sympathetic-deceit-trash I feel like you might have something to add.