I'm a Llama and I have Opinions

A Llama who speaks her mind in Tumblr's RPCs, some opinions may stir the pot. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.

[loudmouthedllama]

Don't mind little ole me, just a Llama here with a few RPC opinions. Imma say my two cents on whatever core issues lay in fandoms and such, so be warned all. I'm sorry if my opinions offend or trigger others. But, after all, I am a Llama so if you come at me, be warned... Imma spit in your face, it's what I do best.

Yeah, I'm hostile. YEP I'm argo. SOMEONE'S GOTTA SAY THIS SHIT. I AIN'T SEEING YOU DO IT.

I WANT MY FUCKING HOBBY BACK.

[in-character-memes]

PSA: communicate your boundaries in your shipping preferences, please

I'm not interested in shipping my muse with X but I'm fine with X having a one sided crush on my muse as long as mun understands it will lead nowhere

Is very different from:

I'm not interested in shipping my muse with X and please do not even mention the possibility of it to me, both IC and OOC

[bloorpthelizard]

Just turn the RPCS into a fucking dating community already. It's basically what you are these days and how you run things. It's either that or a fucking job application in order to barely be noticed or seen (aka not ghosted within two seconds of the dm). Or better yet, go find someone to date IRL and give the rpcs back to those who actually rp.

[loudmouthedllama]

I'm glad people are finally starting to notice. They don't care about anyone but themselves.

[loudmouthedllama]

DOUBLE STANDARD:

dou·ble stand·ard: A double standard refers to a rule or principle that is applied unfairly in different ways to different people or groups. It occurs when individuals or groups face different rules or expectations for the same behavior. This situation can arise in various contexts, such as gender, race, or social status, and can result in perceived or actual injustices.

Ex: Someone in a roleplay community claims to be open and willing to roleplay with anyone, but is behaving like others by ignoring white female OCs and straight female OCs.

GASLIGHTING:

A psychological manipulation technique where someone convinces another that their reality is false or at fault. This tactic is frequently employed by narcissists to gain control over their targets. (I.E. TO SILENCE THEM.)

Ex: When you comment about feeling ignored in Tumblr's RPCs, there's always that one coward who hides behind an anonymous account and decides to be rude, saying things like, "Are you sure it isn't you?" or "Are you sure your OCs just don't suck?"

THEY KNOW THEY'RE IGNORING YOU. THEY KNOW IT IS THEM. THEY ARE DERANGED. IT'S WHY THEY'RE ON ANON TO BEGIN WITH. IF THEY EVER DARED TO COME OUT OF ANON, THEY'D LOSE THEIR PRECIOUS FOLLOWERS.

JUST FUCKING STOP IT. IT'S LEGIT THE SAME FUCKING BULL SHIT.

"OH, I'M SUPER FRIENDLY AND OPEN TO EVERYONE"

I DON'T SEE MANY STRAIGHT WOMEN OR... STRAIGHT ANYTHING ON YO SHIT. MUCH FUCKING LESS ANYTHING TO DO WITH A WOMAN IN THESE RPS.... THEY ALL SUPER

I CAN FUCKING SAY THIS, I AM GAY, I AM A FUCKING LLAMA.... I'M JUST FUCKING CALLING IT AS I SEE IT. IF YOU WERE REALLY OPEN TO EVERYONE AND EVERY SHIP, WHY SO MUCH GAY?

I'M SORRY BUT IT'S BORING, ANNOYING, AND MAKES ME PERSONALLY FEEL LIKE MY COMMUNITY THE (REAL) GAYS, LESBIANS, BISEXUALS...

THIS MAKES US FEEL LIKE PORNO TOYS. AND IT IS NOT FAIR TO MOST OF THE OTHER FANS/ROLEPLAYERS WHO ARE DYING FOR A CHANCE TO MAKE A FRIEND AND WRITE WITH THEM WHEN THEY PASSED UP BECAUSE THEY LACK GAY IN THEIR OCS.

AT LEAST BE FUCKING HONEST AND DON'T GASLIGHT/IGNORE THE POOR INDIVIDUAL SPEAKING OUT OF CHARACTER AND FEELING ALONE. YOU COULD BE THE ONE PERSON TO SAVE A LIFE BY REACHING OUT, OR MAKE A NEW INCREDIBLE AND BADASS FRIEND.

Just stop being unkind and gaslighting people. Be honest and tell them if you didn't engage with their original character (OC). If the reason is that the OC is a straight, white, female character, please be truthful about it. Stop the toxic behaviors like ghosting someone in the middle of a conversation, which leads them to believe that things are going well. Please stop treating this like it's a dating service.

FOR THAT SHIT. ROLEPLAY IS PREFUCKINGTEND NOT PARAFUCKINGSOCIAL.

You're not in it for fun, you're in it for the self-indulgence. The followers are your stepping stones; that's why you ignore them. THAT'S WHY ALL THE GAY. IT'S FOR YOU'RE OWN PLEASURE. IT'S GROSS.

[loudmouthedllama]

You are one of the people who genuinely pander, virtue signal, and are FFFFFFAKKKKKEEEE ASSSSS FUUUUUCK towards the LGB community. You selfish, sick, twisted, "I'm gonna sexually exploit you no matter what," shameless prick. You do NOT care about gay people, lesbians, or bisexuals. You care about your own selfish needs, and hope that you're seen as caring to the person/persons with a high follower count in hopes of rping your ideal GAY SHIP. You do not care about the hell you've caused politically; you do not care about the racism against straight white people; you probably want them dead. (Along with all the LGB people who side with them). YOU. YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM. AND I'M NAMING AND SHAMING. P.s. You people are ridiculous. You can't stand it that someone gay is defending straight white people, and you can't shut me up, so you mark my shit as mature content to hide it. LOL.

[loudmouthedllama]

I fucking agree. We should fight for straight people's rights. This is very one-sided, oppressive, and unfair.

[loudmouthedllama]

The first one is how I look when you retards roll into my shit on agro.

[loudmouthedllama]

nah, not one of the "posers". just questioning the way it was stated i suppose. but i'm in total agreement; people using the LGBTQIA+ community for their own pleasure is sickening and i hate to see it. my favorite ship is m/f and i'm 100% lesbian, so i don't see why it's so hard for the "posers" to write/with straight women???

It is a trend, a silent virtue signal. Do you really think they genuinely care about us or our feelings? I guarantee you these 'posers' claim to be LGBTQIA+ only for clout. They're most likely straight themselves and are just blindly pandering.

And yeah, I'll admit it. I probably shoulda stated that better, but when a Llama is frustrated and angry... We tend to get loud and act out (plus, how else are you supposed to get anyone to look at you seriously if you don't?). I'm not a prefect Llama at all, hell, our slurs toward humans is to SPIT OUR VOMIT at them. I just need to find a better way to address it, probably.

Heh... Hehehehehe.... Or probably not, I do enjoy spitting...

It is a very weird thing to sit back, observe them, and witness it. It's like they legit worship gay NSFW content, like some freaky religion, but actively ignore us when we ask them to stop.... ITS WEIRD.

[loudmouthedllama]

what makes me any less of a lesbian than another lesbian though? how is that not "real"?

Do you know that you're a lesbian? Are you one of these 'posers' I am talking to, to begin with?

Look, if you yourself know for a fact and are genuinely comfortable with yourself. Then why ask me this at all? Why not ignore it and go on? You know for a fact I have been clearly talking to the 'posers', so why challenge me on it at all? Unless you are one of those posers and felt called out??

I'm a llama who is gay, who is annoyed and TIRED of the rpcs using my LGBTQTIA+ community as their own personal NSFW gain and self-indulgence. Then turning around and saying 'it is to show our support!' or 'it is because we love gay!' when in reality we all know it's for their own perverted pleasure while they ignore EVERY OTHER SHIP OR PERSON that is straight or white. I AM TIRED OF THE DOUBLE STANDARD, RACIST, EXCLUSIVE, RETARDED, BULLSHIT IN RPCS. THAT INCLUDES THE PEDO FREAKS DEMANDING PEOPLE THEY SUSPECT AS KIDS TO PRESENT THEIR LEGIT IDS TO THEM. WITHOUT THE OTHER GIVING THEIR IDS IN RETURN. (For the record, PLEASE DO NOT GIVE YOUR ID TO ANYONE ON THIS FORSAKEN SITE.... PLEASE.) If I can't voice my frustrations, just say so. I've been trying to speak up for so long on these matters and am frankly ignored. You coming in, asking these questions, really helps bring light to these heavy matters, and I can't thank you enough for asking. These matters are extremely important to me, and the LGBTQIA+ and the entire community matters to me deeply. We're all in this world together, we all breathe the same air, walk on the same dirt, try to survive this hellhole called life... We all feel, bleed, love, hate... Why are we (specifically gays) being treated like sex pronos left and right in rps?? ITS A LOT FOR ME, OKAY? IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE THEY SEE US AS NOTHING BUT SEX THINGS.... ITS ANNOYING.

[loudmouthedllama]

You humans, are below me. Remember that.

Llama

[loudmouthedllama]

Number 1 Most Retarded Take in RPCS

Minors need to show their legitimate IDs to random strangers to rp:

DO NOT DO THIS, KIDS. IT IS A TRAP, A VICIOUS, DEADLY, AND DANGEROUS TRAP. NO ONE SHOULD GIVE THEIR IDS TO ANYONE ON THIS SITE. ESPECIALLY UNDER THE EXCUSE TO RP. Your address, zipcode, DOB, government names, etc. All of this is on those IDS, all of it is information to steal your identity or worse... DOX YOU OR TACK YOU DOWN IRL, OR EVEN AS BLACKMAIL TO MAKE YOU DO THINGS FOR THEM. Please immediately block people who require an ID to rp... This is simply not safe.

[masterxdanx]

[bloorpthelizard]

[loudmouthedllama]

I SUPPORT THIS 2000%

[loudmouthedllama]

DOUBLE STANDARD:

dou·ble stand·ard: A double standard refers to a rule or principle that is applied unfairly in different ways to different people or groups. It occurs when individuals or groups face different rules or expectations for the same behavior. This situation can arise in various contexts, such as gender, race, or social status, and can result in perceived or actual injustices.

Ex: Someone in a roleplay community claims to be open and willing to roleplay with anyone, but is behaving like others by ignoring white female OCs and straight female OCs.

GASLIGHTING:

A psychological manipulation technique where someone convinces another that their reality is false or at fault. This tactic is frequently employed by narcissists to gain control over their targets. (I.E. TO SILENCE THEM.)

Ex: When you comment about feeling ignored in Tumblr's RPCs, there's always that one coward who hides behind an anonymous account and decides to be rude, saying things like, "Are you sure it isn't you?" or "Are you sure your OCs just don't suck?"

THEY KNOW THEY'RE IGNORING YOU. THEY KNOW IT IS THEM. THEY ARE DERANGED. IT'S WHY THEY'RE ON ANON TO BEGIN WITH. IF THEY EVER DARED TO COME OUT OF ANON, THEY'D LOSE THEIR PRECIOUS FOLLOWERS.

JUST FUCKING STOP IT. IT'S LEGIT THE SAME FUCKING BULL SHIT.

"OH, I'M SUPER FRIENDLY AND OPEN TO EVERYONE"

I DON'T SEE MANY STRAIGHT WOMEN OR... STRAIGHT ANYTHING ON YO SHIT. MUCH FUCKING LESS ANYTHING TO DO WITH A WOMAN IN THESE RPS.... THEY ALL SUPER

I CAN FUCKING SAY THIS, I AM GAY, I AM A FUCKING LLAMA.... I'M JUST FUCKING CALLING IT AS I SEE IT. IF YOU WERE REALLY OPEN TO EVERYONE AND EVERY SHIP, WHY SO MUCH GAY?

I'M SORRY BUT IT'S BORING, ANNOYING, AND MAKES ME PERSONALLY FEEL LIKE MY COMMUNITY THE (REAL) GAYS, LESBIANS, BISEXUALS...

THIS MAKES US FEEL LIKE PORNO TOYS. AND IT IS NOT FAIR TO MOST OF THE OTHER FANS/ROLEPLAYERS WHO ARE DYING FOR A CHANCE TO MAKE A FRIEND AND WRITE WITH THEM WHEN THEY PASSED UP BECAUSE THEY LACK GAY IN THEIR OCS.

AT LEAST BE FUCKING HONEST AND DON'T GASLIGHT/IGNORE THE POOR INDIVIDUAL SPEAKING OUT OF CHARACTER AND FEELING ALONE. YOU COULD BE THE ONE PERSON TO SAVE A LIFE BY REACHING OUT, OR MAKE A NEW INCREDIBLE AND BADASS FRIEND.

Just stop being unkind and gaslighting people. Be honest and tell them if you didn't engage with their original character (OC). If the reason is that the OC is a straight, white, female character, please be truthful about it. Stop the toxic behaviors like ghosting someone in the middle of a conversation, which leads them to believe that things are going well. Please stop treating this like it's a dating service.

FOR THAT SHIT. ROLEPLAY IS PREFUCKINGTEND NOT PARAFUCKINGSOCIAL.

You're not in it for fun, you're in it for the self-indulgence. The followers are your stepping stones; that's why you ignore them. THAT'S WHY ALL THE GAY. IT'S FOR YOU'RE OWN PLEASURE. IT'S GROSS.

[loudmouthedllama]

Love you 14 followers so far. Y'all real for real. #Llamafam4lyfe

[loudmouthedllama]

DOUBLE STANDARD:

dou·ble stand·ard: A double standard refers to a rule or principle that is applied unfairly in different ways to different people or groups. It occurs when individuals or groups face different rules or expectations for the same behavior. This situation can arise in various contexts, such as gender, race, or social status, and can result in perceived or actual injustices.

Ex: Someone in a roleplay community claims to be open and willing to roleplay with anyone, but is behaving like others by ignoring white female OCs and straight female OCs.

GASLIGHTING:

A psychological manipulation technique where someone convinces another that their reality is false or at fault. This tactic is frequently employed by narcissists to gain control over their targets. (I.E. TO SILENCE THEM.)

Ex: When you comment about feeling ignored in Tumblr's RPCs, there's always that one coward who hides behind an anonymous account and decides to be rude, saying things like, "Are you sure it isn't you?" or "Are you sure your OCs just don't suck?"

THEY KNOW THEY'RE IGNORING YOU. THEY KNOW IT IS THEM. THEY ARE DERANGED. IT'S WHY THEY'RE ON ANON TO BEGIN WITH. IF THEY EVER DARED TO COME OUT OF ANON, THEY'D LOSE THEIR PRECIOUS FOLLOWERS.

JUST FUCKING STOP IT. IT'S LEGIT THE SAME FUCKING BULL SHIT.

"OH, I'M SUPER FRIENDLY AND OPEN TO EVERYONE"

I DON'T SEE MANY STRAIGHT WOMEN OR... STRAIGHT ANYTHING ON YO SHIT. MUCH FUCKING LESS ANYTHING TO DO WITH A WOMAN IN THESE RPS.... THEY ALL SUPER

I CAN FUCKING SAY THIS, I AM GAY, I AM A FUCKING LLAMA.... I'M JUST FUCKING CALLING IT AS I SEE IT. IF YOU WERE REALLY OPEN TO EVERYONE AND EVERY SHIP, WHY SO MUCH GAY?

I'M SORRY BUT IT'S BORING, ANNOYING, AND MAKES ME PERSONALLY FEEL LIKE MY COMMUNITY THE (REAL) GAYS, LESBIANS, BISEXUALS...

THIS MAKES US FEEL LIKE PORNO TOYS. AND IT IS NOT FAIR TO MOST OF THE OTHER FANS/ROLEPLAYERS WHO ARE DYING FOR A CHANCE TO MAKE A FRIEND AND WRITE WITH THEM WHEN THEY PASSED UP BECAUSE THEY LACK GAY IN THEIR OCS.

AT LEAST BE FUCKING HONEST AND DON'T GASLIGHT/IGNORE THE POOR INDIVIDUAL SPEAKING OUT OF CHARACTER AND FEELING ALONE. YOU COULD BE THE ONE PERSON TO SAVE A LIFE BY REACHING OUT, OR MAKE A NEW INCREDIBLE AND BADASS FRIEND.

Just stop being unkind and gaslighting people. Be honest and tell them if you didn't engage with their original character (OC). If the reason is that the OC is a straight, white, female character, please be truthful about it. Stop the toxic behaviors like ghosting someone in the middle of a conversation, which leads them to believe that things are going well. Please stop treating this like it's a dating service.

FOR THAT SHIT. ROLEPLAY IS PREFUCKINGTEND NOT PARAFUCKINGSOCIAL.

You're not in it for fun, you're in it for the self-indulgence. The followers are your stepping stones; that's why you ignore them. THAT'S WHY ALL THE GAY. IT'S FOR YOU'RE OWN PLEASURE. IT'S GROSS.

[rpthoughtsandconfessions]

ᴛʜɪꜱ ɪꜱ ᴀ ᴄᴏᴍᴘʟᴀɪɴᴛ, ɴᴏᴛ ᴀ ᴄᴏɴꜰᴇꜱꜱɪᴏɴ.

(*Hides behind their mote and castle wall defenses, holding Melvin the guard Dodo.*)

It goes against our rules.

It is also pushing the exclusion of oc females from the RP communities' narrative. Here we post legitimate, non-toxic confessions. :) Next: It is a massive bummer that you feel like people aren't reading your pinned post on your rules. The honest to god truth, however? They're not reading it, they're not even looking at the ocs you've worked on. Especially if you've a smaller following. (That's just how it is.) The pinned post is for show these days. This indeed is becoming an issue as well. As for "Tupper". There is a feature on Discord known as Tupperbot, which allows rpers to organize, select, set up, and interact as one or many of their canons/ocs with easy access.

Complaint vs. Confession

Complaint: The post explicitly vents frustration about others violating the poster’s boundaries. It focuses on criticizing others’ behavior, not confessing personal actions or feelings.

Confession: A confession involves admitting guilt, vulnerability, or a personal struggle. For example, "I feel guilty for disliking female OCs." This post lacks that introspective angle.

The mislabeling of this as a "confession" could be problematic and extremely toxic. It might normalize framing disdain for female OCs as a "personal truth" rather than a critique of others, subtly reinforcing an already growing and horrific stigma.

Why This Matters for the Anti-Woman Concern

Even as a complaint, the post’s impact depends on the community’s existing culture. (The narrative is set, and already headed down the road it was directly facing. That shit moved like a Grebe bird on yo ass before you even realized it was harmful and now... It is spreading.)

If the group already stigmatizes white cis female OCs, complaints like this. Ex, "people keep offering girls", Risk being interpreted as:

Validation of the idea that female OCs are inherently annoying/undesirable.

Normalization of dismissing female creators/characters as "boundary-violators" for simply existing or engaging. (This already happens, not just to female OCs, but to many types of OCS.)

Allowing toxic complaints like this in destroys what we want to build here. A place where people can get heavy burdens off their chest.

Systemic Issue vs. Individual Frustration

Individual Level: The poster’s frustration is valid—ignoring RP boundaries.

Systemic Level: If the community routinely amplifies complaints like this while marginalizing female OCs, it creates a culture where disdain for these characters is socially rewarded. Over time, this could:

Silently discourages creators of female OCs from participating.

Frame female characters (and their creators) as "default annoyances," even when boundaries are stated neutrally.

If we allowed complaints like this in, we would be hurting our community more than helping. Lots of love sent to you, and we hope this doesn't change how you feel about us! We just want to create an environment where everyone is loved and welcome.

[loudmouthedllama]

THEY ARE, IN FACT, NOT READING YO SHIT.

THEY ARE, IN FACT, IGNORING YOU.

THEY ARE, IN FACT, EXCLUDING YOU.

THEY ARE FUCKING SCAMMING YOU OF YOUR TIME, POTENTIALLY MONEY (PLEASE DON'T GIVE MONEY TO OTHERS ONLINE), AND WASTING IT.

IT IS NOT YOU. ALERT. ALERT. REALLY HOT TAKE!!!!

IT IS NOT YOU!!!! IT IS THEM!!!!

THEY IGNORE YOU AND GASLIGHT YOU TO MAKE YOU FEEL AS IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM.

THEY SEE YOU AS LESSER BECAUSE YOU LACK FOLLOWERS; THEREFORE, THEY IGNORE YOU. CLOUT MATTERS HERE. THOSE WITH HIGHER FOLLOWINGS ARE ELITES AND THEREFORE VIEW THEMSELVES AS ABOVE US NORMIES. AND WE PUT THEM THERE BY GLAZING THEM AND PUTTING UP WITH THE SHIT IN ORDER TO AVOID TUMBLR HATE. ANONS WHO ARE FUCKING WEAK AHH COWARDS. (Which is a form of guess fucking what? CENSORSHIIIIP~~~!!!!!)

IT IS THEM AND THEIR INTENSE NEED TO BE VALIDATED. THEY NEED THEIR HANDS HELD. THAT'S WHY THEY FOLLOWING GOTTA STAY HIGH. THEY CLOUTERS.

THEY SHIT AT WRITING, SOME ONLY PRODUCED UP TO TWO SCENTENCES AFTER TAKING SIX FUCKING WEEKS TO THINK OF IT. (SOME WAIT LONGER, WHILE OTHERS GHOSTED FOR NO REASON.) THEY FUCKS NEVER COMMUNICATE OR READ YO SHIT, BUT EXPECT YOU TO HAVE ALL OF THEIR SHIT, CANONS AND OCS INCLUDED TO BE MEMORIZED BY YOU. YET THEY NEVER. LOOK. AT. YOUR. HARD. WORKED ON. SHIT. They expect you to inform them yourself of yo shit, they don't even have the decency to read your fucking PINNED. And if they do, it is OBVIOUS as they just fucking skim said shit and can't even pick a fucking character of yours to write with.

Why do we think trends like using 'passwords' at the end of pinned posts have ended, or when questions were asked that caught them off guard, because they obviously didn't know the answers? Why do you think they came forward and complained so damned hard about it? Why was it such a big deal to them what some other stranger on the internet put on their pinned post in order to ensure they made themselves good and real friends?

If they get exposed for their hypocrisy and their fucked behavior towards us it would ruin them and their following.

So they come enmass from all sides to bitch, moan, and complain about the new trend that has formed, the one designed to bust them. Via, you guessed it:

How? They go on their dashes and complain about the "passwords", calling the idea dumb or annoying, and call for it to stop. Some go into people's inboxes and spam send anonymous hate. While the rest usually ignore it. Eventually, that trend will die and cease. AND THEY DID.

[loudmouthedllama]

DOUBLE STANDARD:

dou·ble stand·ard: A double standard refers to a rule or principle that is applied unfairly in different ways to different people or groups. It occurs when individuals or groups face different rules or expectations for the same behavior. This situation can arise in various contexts, such as gender, race, or social status, and can result in perceived or actual injustices.

Ex: Someone in a roleplay community claims to be open and willing to roleplay with anyone, but is behaving like others by ignoring white female OCs and straight female OCs.

GASLIGHTING:

A psychological manipulation technique where someone convinces another that their reality is false or at fault. This tactic is frequently employed by narcissists to gain control over their targets. (I.E. TO SILENCE THEM.)

Ex: When you comment about feeling ignored in Tumblr's RPCs, there's always that one coward who hides behind an anonymous account and decides to be rude, saying things like, "Are you sure it isn't you?" or "Are you sure your OCs just don't suck?"

THEY KNOW THEY'RE IGNORING YOU. THEY KNOW IT IS THEM. THEY ARE DERANGED. IT'S WHY THEY'RE ON ANON TO BEGIN WITH. IF THEY EVER DARED TO COME OUT OF ANON, THEY'D LOSE THEIR PRECIOUS FOLLOWERS.

JUST FUCKING STOP IT. IT'S LEGIT THE SAME FUCKING BULL SHIT.

"OH, I'M SUPER FRIENDLY AND OPEN TO EVERYONE"

I DON'T SEE MANY STRAIGHT WOMEN OR... STRAIGHT ANYTHING ON YO SHIT. MUCH FUCKING LESS ANYTHING TO DO WITH A WOMAN IN THESE RPS.... THEY ALL SUPER

I CAN FUCKING SAY THIS, I AM GAY, I AM A FUCKING LLAMA.... I'M JUST FUCKING CALLING IT AS I SEE IT. IF YOU WERE REALLY OPEN TO EVERYONE AND EVERY SHIP, WHY SO MUCH GAY?

I'M SORRY BUT IT'S BORING, ANNOYING, AND MAKES ME PERSONALLY FEEL LIKE MY COMMUNITY THE (REAL) GAYS, LESBIANS, BISEXUALS...

THIS MAKES US FEEL LIKE PORNO TOYS. AND IT IS NOT FAIR TO MOST OF THE OTHER FANS/ROLEPLAYERS WHO ARE DYING FOR A CHANCE TO MAKE A FRIEND AND WRITE WITH THEM WHEN THEY PASSED UP BECAUSE THEY LACK GAY IN THEIR OCS.

AT LEAST BE FUCKING HONEST AND DON'T GASLIGHT/IGNORE THE POOR INDIVIDUAL SPEAKING OUT OF CHARACTER AND FEELING ALONE. YOU COULD BE THE ONE PERSON TO SAVE A LIFE BY REACHING OUT, OR MAKE A NEW INCREDIBLE AND BADASS FRIEND.

Just stop being unkind and gaslighting people. Be honest and tell them if you didn't engage with their original character (OC). If the reason is that the OC is a straight, white, female character, please be truthful about it. Stop the toxic behaviors like ghosting someone in the middle of a conversation, which leads them to believe that things are going well. Please stop treating this like it's a dating service.

FOR THAT SHIT. ROLEPLAY IS PREFUCKINGTEND NOT PARAFUCKINGSOCIAL.

You're not in it for fun, you're in it for the self-indulgence. The followers are your stepping stones; that's why you ignore them. THAT'S WHY ALL THE GAY. IT'S FOR YOU'RE OWN PLEASURE. IT'S GROSS.

[loudmouthedllama]

wtf?