Nîcimos

love, be open to others love but do not forget to take care of yourself They/She If you would like an specific tags (esp. for triggers) please message me!! until I have followers asking for tags I will not be tagging anything.

[spitblaze]

considering how many transmascs were legitimately way angrier BEFORE starting T and have since calmed down significantly have we perhaps considered that maybe the reason so many cis dudes are angry and aggressive isn't because of testosterone but maybe. like. personal issues. unmet needs. a social climate that teaches them that there are only like three acceptable emotional outlets for men max and one of them is being angry and shouting

[sinnerjosie]

so one thing i used to say and deeply regret now is that testosterone made me angry. because as soon as i got on tblockers and e, i became wayyyy less angry. and like, i thought it just made sense, cause 1+1 equals 2 right?

but then i met trans men and trans mascs who talked about how their their emotional experiences changed and i realized that not only was saying that invalidating and shitty but also just totally wrong.

because yeah, i wasn’t as angry anymore, but i was sad ALL the time. and after getting through the worst of the incredibly hormonal second puberty and learning to sort out my emotions, i realized that i was never really angry…i was just hurt. deeply hurt from all the lies i was told and how much i internalized that i was fucked up. hurt because the people who should have loved me unconditionally, laid out incredibly toxic conditions and treated me like garbage.

so yeah. it was personal issues the whole time. anyways, cis men, go to fucking therapy cause if you’re mad all the time, then you’re probably super fucked up.

[letters-to-lgbt-kids]

My dear lgbt+ kids, 

Just a few quick reminders:

- “All boys are trash” isn’t true. It’s actually a pretty unhealthy idea. 

- Attraction to boys isn’t shameful, embarassing, toxic or disgusting. Romantic feelings towards boys, having crushes on boys, being in a happy relationship with a boy… those are all beautiful and sweet things you should never feel the need to apologize for. 

- Being a boy isn’t shameful, embarassing, toxic or disgusting, either. Nothing about manhood or masculinity is inherently flawed or evil. 

- Your actions and behavior decide if you are a dangerous or a safe person for others, NOT your gender. If you are a cis boy, you are not “a born abuser” and if you are a trans boy, you are not “choosing to become an abuser”. 

- Gender is morally neutral. Boys, you need to take responsibility for your actions (just like girls. enbys, everyone else - we all need to!) but you do not carry some inherent, gender-based evilness. 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Dad 

P.S: This says “boys” because it’s a blog for teenagers - but of course all this applies to adult men as well

[guerrillatech]

[pisshandkerchief-deactivated202]

Holy shit that's so cool

[misevolimo]

A close up of the second pic:

[a-method-in-it]

The piece is by Alex Hyner and its name is "Twenty Skies." You can buy a print of it (along with some other really cool-looking art of his) for $25 here: https://www.alexhynerart.com/art/alexhynerart

[toastbutteregg]

[altargrl]

love marilyn monroe 4 showing us that being her is something she turned on and off

[prokopetz]

If you’re going to get a cat, you must understand two things:

1. As far as a cat is concerned, the highest form of entertainment is annoying another cat on purpose.

2. If you have a good rapport with your cat, you count as another cat.

You can divert much of this behaviour by getting two cats, so that they can annoy each other, but tradeoff is that sometimes they’ll decide to team up on you instead.

[auroradivine]

We have to be precise when speaking about this. The narrative matters.

Especially because this celebration is something stemming from the experience of Black Texans and their enslaved ancestors. I would hate to see that legacy and the voices of Black Texans removed from the conversation. It's important to note that even after being freed, these ancestors still had to fight to even celebrate Juneteeth the following year.

Many cities banned then from using parks for celebrations, but refusing to be stopped, freed people eventually crowdsourced amongst themselves to buy land JUST to celebrate

For Black Texans, this is an Independence Day and for the rest of Black America, we would do well to remember that we ain't free until we are all free 🤌🏿

[anxietyproblem]

[toastbutteregg]

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

Most-SHOCKING Moments on Worst Cooks in America | The Food Network

[saywann]

Ok

[legitimatelala]

Bad cooking shows bring me LIFE

[nell043]

The idea of crawfish in a mortar and pestle is so uniquely awful

[pri-the-writer]

This is like those white women doing unspeakable things in kitchens but with a blissful ignorance and acceptance of that ignorance

[catarium]

Seggesting a character might be ace.

[snark-n-snack]

Being ace

[pidgeapodge]

I’m not ace but this is good

[milfkarlmarx-deactivated2021081]

sea slur

WHY ARE YOU MEAN TO HER

[milfkarlmarx-deactivated2021081]

OH FJSHDVJDHAHDHHFJF

[allthecanadianpolitics]

The Liberals, Conservatives and Bloc Quebecois all joined forces to kill Universal Dentalcare from the NDP.

This wasn’t even a motion for universal dentalcare, it was just a halfway measure to cover everyone earning less than $90,000 a year (with the goal to cover the rest eventually), and these goddamn Centrists and Right Wingers couldn’t even support that in the middle of a Pandemic.

https://twitter.com/HoCChamber/status/1405255452150177797

Tagging: @politicsofcanada

[latining]

Remember this the next time someone tells you the Liberals and NDP are the same.

[tikkety-tok]

Lights are on, but no one's home

[scorpionmotordemon]

This is so empowering to see proving that despite how hard the churches and Canadian government tried. They failed to "kill the Indian in the child" and that we will continue to flourish in our beautiful culture ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽 and we will never give up

[o-kurwa]

When you already know you'll end up in hell anyway

[bunjywunjy]

yo tenemos a mecha-Jesuchristo

[straightboyfriend]

there is no medical component to a trans kid transitioning

if a little trans boy comes out to his parents & is like 4 all youd do for his transition is cut his hair, buy a new wardrobe, & switch pronouns & possibly change names

no one is gonna put a little 4 year old on testosterone OR puberty blockers until theyre actually about to start puberty & then they give them a few years to really decide if they want to start hormones

a trans kid existing isnt “child abuse.” child abuse is refusing to let your kid live their lives as they truly are & forcing them to present as a gender they arent

[straightboyfriend]

radfems who interact with this post will be blocked & your argument will not be read or even considered. i do not care about the opinion of a transphobe & my original post still stands.

[gwenfrankenstien]

a few years ago a kid in my preschool class transitioned socially and the only consequence was that as soon as her best friend discovered that changing your name is allowed she wanted to change hers to Detective