considering how many transmascs were legitimately way angrier BEFORE starting T and have since calmed down significantly have we perhaps considered that maybe the reason so many cis dudes are angry and aggressive isn't because of testosterone but maybe. like. personal issues. unmet needs. a social climate that teaches them that there are only like three acceptable emotional outlets for men max and one of them is being angry and shouting
so one thing i used to say and deeply regret now is that testosterone made me angry. because as soon as i got on tblockers and e, i became wayyyy less angry. and like, i thought it just made sense, cause 1+1 equals 2 right?
but then i met trans men and trans mascs who talked about how their their emotional experiences changed and i realized that not only was saying that invalidating and shitty but also just totally wrong.
because yeah, i wasn’t as angry anymore, but i was sad ALL the time. and after getting through the worst of the incredibly hormonal second puberty and learning to sort out my emotions, i realized that i was never really angry…i was just hurt. deeply hurt from all the lies i was told and how much i internalized that i was fucked up. hurt because the people who should have loved me unconditionally, laid out incredibly toxic conditions and treated me like garbage.
so yeah. it was personal issues the whole time. anyways, cis men, go to fucking therapy cause if you’re mad all the time, then you’re probably super fucked up.





















