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[alilarew23]

what if god said yes

what if you got quiet. what if you got so quiet and you curled up in a little ball in your bed with a stuffed animal or a blanket or a pillow and you said, “god, can we talk?” and because god is you and you are god you didn’t have to wait and you didn’t have to go anywhere at all and—“yes,” god said. and you said, “god, i want an apartment with floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the city.” “god, i want the boy with the kind eyes and tattoo-covered arms and exquisite taste in music.” “god, i want to feel alive again.” “god, i want to travel first-class to switzerland.” “god, i want a hound dog named finn.” and god said, “yes.” and you said, “but how can you make this happen?” and god said, “i can make anything happen.” and you said, “quickly?” and god said, “i love you. why would i not make this rapid?” and you said, “i can trust you?” and god said, “like your life depends on it.” and you said, “my life does depend on it.” and god said, “i know. i’ve got it now. you’re safe. let me take care of it.” and you hugged god. and god hugged you. and you hugged yourself. and you drifted off to sleep saying, “i have it. i’m safe. i have it. i’m safe. i have it. i’m—” and you woke in the morning and the world was new. because you knew it was done. because god said yes. and god never goes back on a yes unless you tell god “no.” and any time throughout the day you thought, “is anything happening?” god said, “it’s all happening.” and you said, “but i can’t see a thing.” and god said, “i am your eyes.” and you said, “but i don’t have to do anything?” and god said, “you did the only thing needed.” and you said, “but what about my thoughts and my state and acting as if?” and god said, “i love you.” and you knew what that meant. so instead of worrying or wondering or obsessing another second, you went to the bakery and bought a slice of chocolate cake and drove home and sat on your back deck and ate and ate and watched the sunset and celebrated.

[konniesreality-deactivated20250]

💋

[eamour]

perfectionism prevents progress.

the more you try to do things the perfect way, the more you are a actually getting in your way. not allowing yourself to make mistakes, to learn from them and to keep going plays a significant role in manifesting.

letting go.

let go of doing it perfectly. let go of feeling guilty, ashamed, scared, empty, afraid, insecure, unstable, unfulfilled, restless, confused, overwhelmed, dissatisfied and unhappy. let go of following rules. let go of trying to reason and evaluate your every move. let go of doing all sorts of methods the planned way. let go of your fear to fail. let go of your conditions in order to manifest.

following rules.

who says you need to follow the rules? who says that you need to affirm 3 times a day around this exact time for exactly this amount of minutes while visualising the same scenario over and over again? you create these rules with which you operate with. and often times, you pretty much imprison yourself.

conditioning desires.

you condition your desires and lock yourself up, not allowing yourself to embrace your infinite capabilities. do you understand how unnecessary that is? how your actions are on the verge of blasphemy? you as a celestial, unstoppable, incredible and limitless being interfering with YOURSELF? make it make sense.

stopping it.

stop it. decide that you no longer want to continue living and feeling this way and free yourself. give yourself what you want. do it NOW. not tomorrow, not anytime later — now. and don't question it. just BE it. HAVE it. allow yourself to experience that freedom, that liberty and impudence.

freeing yourself.

you don't have to feel the way you do now. you can just stop feeling that way, declare something else to be your present reality and feel differently — better. realise that you have permission to change your feeling. there is no need to feeling scared in your own mind.

no one can punish yourself if YOU don't punish yourself. and your life is not meant to be a punishment.

with love, ella.

[eamour]

the law cannot fail you.

failure with the law doesn't exist. you cannot fail. whatever your assumptions are, they have to be physically displayed. you can never fail to express self because whatever state you are choosing to occupy right now will be reflected back to you.

to fail self.

the law will never fail to out-picture yourself. you see? the law is a universal law that will forever be valid. you can, however, "fail" to manifest what you want. in this case, it's not the law failing you but rather you failing to shift to your desired state. that, often times, is what we define to be "failure".

self can't fail.

self can never fail you or express something you're not. self is everything that you feel to BE and HAVE in your mind. self cannot let you down but you surely can betray self — aka, YOU — by not being and having what you want to be and have. by living in desire and by letting your inner man starve.

with love, ella.

[eamour]

decision making.

following my most recent post, i also wanted to make a post regarding the very nature of manifesting: decision making. once you have decided on manifesting a desire and know what it is, you will now decide to have it, as in, you know you want it so you know you have it. because that's all manifesting is, that's all we do. imagination creates reality based on the things we decide to imagine.

the choice is yours.

simple example · you want to have desire A. so, you have two options: you either have desire A or not. the answer to the question "how can i have desire A?" is the same: by having desire A. by claiming it entirely. no if's, no but's — it's yours. of course, you can choose to disagree and not have your desire A but ... would you really want that? you know the solution to your problem, you know how to fill the void within yourself and how to feel the way you would want to feel.

you decide, you choose.

whenever your mind wanders to places you don't like, making you feel uncomfortable while claiming to know your desire is yours, you can ask yourself this question: do i want to feel this way? or is there a better feeling/state i can occupy? if yes, wouldn't it be better if i start investing energy into fulfilling self instead of doubting it? see, you always have the choice. you can always select if you want to have your desire or not, if you want to remain in the state you are or shift to a new one, or if you want to change your feeling from bothered to calm.

make a move.

when i say "make a move", i don't mean it physically — i mean it mentally. choose the story you want for yourself and stick to it in your mind. experience it, discover it, live it, ... enjoy it to its core. make yourself feel fulfilled. again, don't be afraid of making that decision. it takes courage to step out of your comfort zone and face things you aren't used to. but at the end of the day, you need to be real with yourself. therefore, what is the story you want to persist in?

with love, ella.

[nakedbibi333]

A quick note on manifesting SPs…

I’ve been gone for a while now, so hello again! I have been wanting to change the structure of my blog for a long time now and I just didn’t know how to go about it (also I’ve been super busy with traveling and other fun life stuff!)

I wanted to make a quick post about some things I’ve learned recently about SP manifestations because they have simultaneously been the easiest, most fun, and also the most complicated forms of manifestation for me!

So, here’s a short and sweet list of some realizations that have helped me with my SP manifestation…

1. DON’T worry about “choosing the right person”

I had a lot of trouble with this at first. It would really worry me if I was truly choosing the right person for me, but let me tell you right now: IT DOESN’T MATTER! If you like them and if you want them, then it’s done! You have them! Anyone can be your person, anyone can be perfect for you, and anyone can be your soulmate if you believe in it. So believe in yourself.

2. Stop thinking about conditions

I can already see you typing up “but what if” this and that, but please hold your horses, love! Listen to me, NONE OF IT MATTERS! Yes, even what you’re thinking of right now! No condition is too big to hold you back from getting your sp! Trust me ;)

3. Allow yourself the space to change your mind

Let’s get a little personal now, last year I had a lot of trouble with this. I struggled with sticking to my SP even though deep down I knew I didn’t truly want to manifest them! I wondered and wondered why nothing would ever happen with them (no movement, no success, not even a dream about them!) UNTIL I realized the simple fact that I just didn’t want to manifest them. After I realized that, I allowed myself to explore my options freely, not letting circumstances like age, fame, or distance get in my way, and lo and behold, it became easy again. So please be kind enough to yourself to know when to let it go and move onto better things.

That’s all, loves! Please leave questions and success stories in the ask box and I’ll be back soon to let you guys know how I want to run this blog from now on. Love you guys ♡ !

[eamour]

the only way to change.

to manifest means to change. it means to shift your state, meaning to trade your dwelling for a new, more favourable one. and the only way to achieve a change from without is to change from within. it's because the world is a mirror forever reflecting your inner world where your self has to be expressed. whatever you assume to be true of yourself, whatever exists in your imagination can and will be out-pictured.

self must be expressed. 

you need to understand that your self concept and the beliefs you have about yourself are crucial when it comes to manifesting. the way you view yourself in regards to a desire says a lot about you, for instance, if you are able to manifest your desire in the first place, how long it might take you and if you're gonna sustain your desire for a longer period of time once it manifests into your reality. it’s impossible to run away from this or to stop your constant expression of self — so you might as well make self something desirable for it to be expressed. 

self has to change.

your inner world defines your outer world, and your outer world will always give you evidence of that. meaning, your self concept aka your body of beliefs about self aka your state has to be displayed physically. and the only way to change the physical world is to change those beliefs aka your state in your inner world —  your imagination. you have to change self for there is no one and nothing to change but self.

self is within.

when your inner man (you) is desiring something, it's desiring the feeling of having that desire. the happiness, the calmness, the joy, the confidence, the stability, … feelings just like these. those are the feelings that you actually long for rather than that desire's physical existence. and where does this take place? in your mind. the punch line of this is that with your inner man desiring and needing fulfillment from within, you are almost obliged to take action from WITHIN. you need to give yourself your desire and allow yourself to INTERNALLY experience these feelings. 

self is essential.

self is very important in terms of manifesting. not only does your concept of self determine your reality, a good self concept with a good basis of beliefs will make it easier for you to manifest and sustain your manifestation. you won't need to worry about losing your manifestation, hot and cold behaviour, and more because you no longer have thoughts coming from a poor state of mind.

self is reality.

that's also why trying to change the 3D is pointless. manifesting takes place inside, so does a change of self. you will always need to focus on changing internally first but also having it internally as well, as your aim is to FEEL — aka to be and have WITHIN — and not to have it physically. a change of self is a change of state and therefore a change of reality.

with love, ella.

[eamour]

the cycle of waiting.

one of the most common reasons to why people fail to manifest their desires isn’t necessarily because they fail to "manifest it correctly" but because they don’t even start to assume a new reality for themselves.

waiting for the change.

the question is, why do people wait so long to take mental action? scarcity is a reason most are familiar with. being afraid to make a move towards your desire especially when the possibility of failure exists. some feel insecure or overwhelmed and don't think they are mentally prepared for big changes. some feel uncertain about what they really want. some are used to their current circumstances, they refuse to get uncomfortable and would rather endure unpleasant feelings. and some have limiting beliefs hindering them from fully realising their potential.

depending on the outside.

you don't need your desires in physical form in order to feel its associated feelings. you don't need proof of it. not only because you long for the FEELING of having your desire and not your desire itself, but because the 3D could never change on its own. the 3D looks at you for validation, and not the other way round. you are the only evidence you need and your imagination has always been the validation for everything in your life. you are self sabotaging yourself if you rely on changes from without and built your faith upon things you can perceive with your senses. this way, you will keep letting the outer world define how much you can have within yourself.

conditioning your desires.

if you keep waiting for the world to change so you have an "excuse", a "permission" or a "reason" to finally change as well, you will be stuck in a cycle that will constantly repeat itself as you will remain as you are. if you won't take action from within, you will forever remain in a state of stagnation, feeling unsatisfied with the way life turns out to be. additionally, waiting for outer movement can also be a form of conditioning your desires.

stop wasting time.

stop waiting and living in desire. realise that imagination is the only reality and allow yourself to give yourself your desires. don't expect to be saved when you can be your only saviour. and remember, you can't change what's inside with what's outside. only if you, from WITHIN, are willing to change, you can alter the physical.

be the change.

so, what are you waiting for? why not feel the way you would want to feel? why not feel beautiful, loved, successful, healthy, intelligent and wealthy? why not start today? there is no reason for why you should deny yourself to feel these feelings. don't hold back, don't resist and no longer hesitate to finally fulfill yourself, rather than expecting the 3D to change on its own (which it can't, never did and never will).

it's important that you always keep in mind that you don't change once your 3D changes. you only really change if you change from within, not from without.

with love, ella.

[belief-unknowing]

I never understood manifesting (because the mind cannot understand, but that's beside the point lol) until I started exploring spirituality. That was my path, and it has helped me SO MUCH to listen to myself and my heart instead of trying to force my mind to become something it's not.

Let me tell you something: your manifestations can come on their own, without any effort at all from you. All you have to do is let yourself give up control and allow everything to work for you instead of trying to change it. The world is ALWAYS working in your favor, it is your resistance to the events that are leading you to your goals that throws you off track.

You see the events leading up to your desire as negative, and so you fight them and try to change them, not knowing that those events are unfolding exactly as they are supposed to. In trying to change the world, you actively fight against your desires.

The world is energy. All energy attracts like energy; that means that if you want something, it is coming to you - and if you resist something, it is also coming to you. What you put your attention on is what you will attract to you, and that means that if you spend your time fighting circumstances, what you're fighting will continue to come to you because that's all you're focusing on.

Diverting your attention away from your mind (not to say that the mind is bad, I love my mind! It just doesn't know how to manifest and shouldn't be asked to try to) and into your heart will make all of the difference in the world to your manifestations and spiritual journey, I promise. It's a hard thing to do, because we're so used to thinking all the time, but as you let go of your thoughts, you begin to see that they were never really that serious in the first place, and you feel so much peace.

Listen to yourself and live from love, I swear to you everything you desire will come to you, and you'll feel very peaceful while you watch your world unfold into the most beautiful life you could have never imagined 💕

[belief-unknowing]

Work on trusting yourself

If you live in doubt, it's going to be that much "harder" (all things exist within you, including trust in yourself, so it's not actually hard to get there) to manifest because you don't have faith that you can even do it in the first place. By doubting yourself off the bat, you're immediately conditioning your desires and telling them that you can't do it/ they can't come to you!

Now, I know this is easier said than done for some people, because some of us have trauma and mental health issues. I first want to say that YOU ARE VALID!!!!! It's OKAY to struggle, seeing your struggle is NOT going to make things harder for you or make your manifestation take longer!! Acknowledge that you are struggling and work on taking steps to help yourself through it (some examples include: meditation, shadow work, inner child work, speaking to your subconscious mind or higher self, etc) instead of hating on yourself for "failing".

Also, TAKE YOUR TIME!!! Change can take time and it can be a slow process to get to the point where you can trust yourself (I should know, I've been on this journey for 3 years now). Do not invalidate yourself for taking longer than others, you were dealt a different hand of circumstances than they were, and your journey will reflect what you personally have to work on/ struggle with.

Finally, for all my spiritual beings out there, ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE GUIDED. I stg, I didn't make any progress while scrolling on this app trying to take advice from strangers. Your higher self knows more about what you need than anyone here, and it's ALWAYS guiding you towards your desired outcomes/ what's best for you. Trust that everything is going to plan and allow yourself to be guided towards your own personal answers. I cannot stress this point enough. I've made more progress in these last few days being off of Tumblr and trusting my intuition than I have in months of being on this app!!

💕🍓🌸💕

[4dkellysworld]

Beyond the world of Maya

You must go beyond all that comes out of your mind. Your mind is the cause of all existence. It is your mind that gives birth to the universe, to God, to people, places and things. You must annihilate the mind. "How do I do this? By asking and inquiring, "To whom does the mind come? Who has a mind?" By observation. By intelligently observing your thoughts. Becoming the witness to your thought process. You begin to practice this but life interferes. Things happen. You get caught up again and again in maya, the grand illusion. You take things seriously. You think the world has something to offer you because all sorts of good things begin to happen in your life. And then of course, it reverses itself and there is a death in the family again or you lose your position you've had for twenty years. You go into bankruptcy. So again you begin to inquire and you run back to the teacher. The teacher tells you, "Do not react to conditions. Do not pay attention to the things of this world. Your body will do the work it came here to do. It has nothing to do with you. Whether you're in bankruptcy or you're a millionaire, whether you're sickly or well and whole, whether you live in a hut or in a castle, do not take these things seriously. But rather keep turning within. Go deeper. Dive deeper than you've ever dove before. Whatever happens to you in this world, simply observe. For the truth is that the substratum of all existence is love, harmony. There is nothing in the universe that wants to destroy you or hurt you. It is simply maya." The water in the mirage, that is maya; something that appears to be real, but upon investigation you find it's not. The whole world is like that. The whole universe is like that. Do not be fooled again. Do not take anything seriously. Turn within. Do not react. And vehemently make up your mind to go deeper this time, and not get lost in maya again.

from Robert Adams satsang

[eamour]

be kind to yourself.

whatever you have seen today, whatever you have witnessed today, whatever has made you go out of your character — you will choose to be kind to yourself. you will be nice to yourself. you will treat yourself with respect and compassion. you will be empathetic with yourself. you can react and respond to whatever has stressed you today but you are not going to let it control you, making you say or do things to yourself that aren’t healthy. you will choose to have love for yourself.

it doesn’t matter what you are going through right now or what you are currently experiencing — you deserve to treat yourself with kindness. your body deserves it, your mind deserves it, you truly deserve it.

  ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ with love, ella.

[eamour]

feeling is the secret.

the saying "feeling is the secret" is another phrase that neville goddard coined. now, when speaking of "feeling" it to be true, neville did not talk about an "emotion" but rather "knowing" things to be true. but what's so important about "feeling" anyway?

thoughts come from feeling.

your thoughts come from your feeling. to simplify it for you: your feeling can also be reffered to as your belief in something or your state of mind concerning something. therefore, feeling is the cause of thought. first you have a feeling, then you generate thoughts coming from that feeling. your thoughts determine what state you are in or what your underlying belief/feeling is.

change feeling, change self.

your feeling is the root. the origin. the beginning. it's the only thing you need to change in order to see change be reflected back to you. when you do that, you change self — because self, again, is what you feel to be true.

since your thoughts are not the cause of your manifestation but your feeling is, we need to change that first. your feeling or your belief/state is where you think from. it's where thoughts come from automatically. if you change your feeling, your thoughts have no option but to follow in regards to that state.

how do you change your feeling? in your mind. a belief or a feeling isn't hard to change. there are no blockages of your subconscious, there is no resistance that has to be dealt with. the only reason why you think that there might be obstacles you need to overcome is because you create them in the first place. you yourself are complicating it to change your state and make yourself believe in the difficulty or the idea that your mind needs to be "fixed". but you can uncreate those beliefs the same way you created them.

thoughts hold no power.

since the thought is created, it has no power of its own and no truth in itself. this is why you don't have to worry about thoughts or if you are thinking "good enough", having the "right" thoughts or micromanaging everything. don't try to think perfectly in your mind. the thought is not the root, the feeling is.

that's why "flipping" aka changing thoughts often doesn't do a lot. it does not change your feeling to begin with. and since you keep the feeling, you will also keep reproducing thoughts coming from that state. yes, today you managed to calm down by flipping thought A — but what if you get anxious again tomorrow because you get a thought B?

feeling is the end.

you know the term "live in the end"? this is what we mean we say it: when we want you to live in the end, we want you to feel as if you had your desire. we want you to go to the very end where you have it. we don't want you to worry about the how, the when, the circumstances or the bridge of events. we want you to feel. because once you do, you will also start to think from feeling aka from having your desire. just like edward art said, "change your feeling to what you want to feel. feel everything and the thoughts will come".

just feel it.

you waste so much time not doing what you should be doing. no, you don't need to firmly do sats every night before going to bed and attempt the void and make sure to write down all 100 affirmations in the same order and meditate for exactly 15 minutes... you need to feel. you need to be. you need to experience it in the mind. you need to give yourself the time to just have it. you need to allow yourself to get a taste of it. you have been forcefully and desperately trying to "do to get". just be it for a moment. give yourself the feeling you have been longing for. because you keep feeling what you don't want to, you just end up manifesting things you don't want. and you do things to get and not to change self.

⠀⠀⠀ ➜⠀this post was greatly inspired by edward art

  ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀love and light, ella.

[eamour]

creation is finished.

the phrase "creation is finished" is a principle that most of us are already familiar with. it‘s the unchangeable fact that creation, in other words, what you can imagine — and what you desire — already exists. but how can this piece of information be so significant?

infinite realities exist.

now, with creation being finished you have a large variety, an infinite amount of realities to choose from. anything that you can think of exists already. you don’t need to "create" it, it’s just there. whatever reality you are currently experiencing, there is a version of you right now that‘s doing something completely different. but there is also a version of you right now that’s experiencing things nearly identical to you, but they are wearing a different coat. or they have blinked a couple of times more. or they didn’t pronounce the same word you did in this reality the same way. whatever it is, any reality you can imagine — no matter how identical it is to another — it exists.

all versions of you belong to you.

it’s important to note that these infinite realities are all yours. you don’t need to ask anyone to give them to you, you don’t need to ask for allowance or permission and you don’t need to seek for something outside of you. whatever you want, whatever you desire and whatever you wish to experience — you can give it to yourself. you can have it. you can own it. because you are the only person who is allowed to grant yourself your desires, for you are the only operant power and it’s your reality.

if you can desire it, you can have it.

did you ever think about why creation is finished? why does imagination create reality? why is your 3D mirroring your 4D? it’s because something exists once you desire it. see, if you desire something, you imagine it. imagining as in becoming aware of it. and if you can be aware of it, you can manifest it. you can shift to the reality where you have what you are wishing for — because there has to be a reality where your wish has been fulfilled.

imagination is your confirmation.

knowing that you can have anything, that you can become conscious of having, implies that imagination (you can also say consciousness or awareness) is the only evidence you need in order to manifest something. if you ever wonder about whether a desire of yours seems too impossible to manifest, keep in mind that you are the only validation you need. you are your own confirmation. you wouldn’t be able to manifest it if you couldn’t desire it. that’s proof enough. so, never ever question your desires!

select your desired reality.

what are you waiting for!? your desired reality exists RIGHT NOW as you are reading this and is waiting for you to experience it! think of your imagination as a library. whatever you want, whatever book (here: reality) you want to read, you can get it. it’s ALL in there, don’t worry. your only job is to DECIDE and TAKE (here: assume) your desired story and make it yours!

  ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀love and light, ella.

[eamour]

creation is finished.

the phrase "creation is finished" is a principle that most of us are already familiar with. it‘s the unchangeable fact that creation, in other words, what you can imagine — and what you desire — already exists. but how can this piece of information be so significant?

infinite realities exist.

now, with creation being finished you have a large variety, an infinite amount of realities to choose from. anything that you can think of exists already. you don’t need to "create" it, it’s just there. whatever reality you are currently experiencing, there is a version of you right now that‘s doing something completely different. but there is also a version of you right now that’s experiencing things nearly identical to you, but they are wearing a different coat. or they have blinked a couple of times more. or they didn’t pronounce the same word you did in this reality the same way. whatever it is, any reality you can imagine — no matter how identical it is to another — it exists.

all versions of you belong to you.

it’s important to note that these infinite realities are all yours. you don’t need to ask anyone to give them to you, you don’t need to ask for allowance or permission and you don’t need to seek for something outside of you. whatever you want, whatever you desire and whatever you wish to experience — you can give it to yourself. you can have it. you can own it. because you are the only person who is allowed to grant yourself your desires, for you are the only operant power and it’s your reality.

if you can desire it, you can have it.

did you ever think about why creation is finished? why does imagination create reality? why is your 3D mirroring your 4D? it’s because something exists once you desire it. see, if you desire something, you imagine it. imagining as in becoming aware of it. and if you can be aware of it, you can manifest it. you can shift to the reality where you have what you are wishing for — because there has to be a reality where your wish has been fulfilled.

imagination is your confirmation.

knowing that you can have anything, that you can become conscious of having, implies that imagination (you can also say consciousness or awareness) is the only evidence you need in order to manifest something. if you ever wonder about whether a desire of yours seems too impossible to manifest, keep in mind that you are the only validation you need. you are your own confirmation. you wouldn’t be able to manifest it if you couldn’t desire it. that’s proof enough. so, never ever question your desires!

select your desired reality.

what are you waiting for!? your desired reality exists RIGHT NOW as you are reading this and is waiting for you to experience it! think of your imagination as a library. whatever you want, whatever book (here: reality) you want to read, you can get it. it’s ALL in there, don’t worry. your only job is to DECIDE and TAKE (here: assume) your desired story and make it yours!

  ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀love and light, ella.

[charmedreincarnation]

I wasn’t going to make a post abt this since I've talked extensively about it in my lucid dreaming guide. But If you're someone who appreciates structure and methodical approaches, I can't recommend the SSILD method enough.

SSILD stands for Senses Initiated Lucid Dream. It's a type of WBTB (Wake Back To Bed) method, known for its effectiveness and speed. With consistency, (in my experience) it won't take more than a week to experience your first lucid dream using this technique.

I remember my initial days practicing the SSILD method. On the very first day, even though I didn't achieve a full lucid dream, I was introduced to a myriad of new experiences. I encountered false awakenings, entered a hypnagogic state, and had a sense of semi-awareness. These experiences were new and fascinating at the time. And lo and behold, just three days later, I had my first lucid dream.

The SSILD method is particularly motivating, especially if you feel like you've hit a wall with your current lucid dreaming practices. It offers fresh experiences and quick results, which is really motivating.

So, for those stuck in their lucid dreaming journey, or those looking for a reliable method to start with, give the SSILD method a try. It was a game-changer for me, and I hope it works wonders for you too.

Read this post for more detail. And also read the Reddit post.

Reddit - Dive into anything

[becomingthatgirl111]

guide to become your best version ✨

the first step, be clear about what your best version would look like. questions to ask yourself.

what would my best version look like?

what habits would i have?

what would my life be like?

what would be my morning and evening routine?

what thoughts would i have?

what would i focus on?

what thoughts and habits should i leave behind?

how would i like to feel?

and lastly…

what can i start doing to connect with this version of me?

you can also add your own questions if they resonate with you, the important thing about this exercise is that you connect a little bit more with that better version of yourself.

from my experience, it is important to focus and work on these three areas of our life at the same time so that none of these areas are out of balance and we can flow to that version more easily.

it is important because i have realized from my own experience and from other people who send me questions that they only focus on one area, in most cases, the habits, and forget others, then when something happens or we go through a bad moment we feel lost and it seems that everything is "wrong" but if we work on these areas at the same time and we nurture them day by day we will have more control of our emotions and thoughts, then we will not stagnate in "bad times". remember, we can always go through bad times but these always bring us a learning experience.

✨ physical

daily movement, create an exercise routine

eating healthy food, for the sake and perfect functioning of our body.

create a daily routine that will help us reach our goals.

healthy habits

hobbies that help us connect with our best self.

focus on the well-being of our body

✨ mental and emotional

read about personal growth, psychology, and topics that will help us to improve our personal best.

journaling

keep a daily record of our emotions, as well as our habits.

focus on what we do want rather than what we don't want

detect what our negative thought patterns are and change them for - more positive ones according to how we want to think and feel from now on.

affirm positively

work on those areas of our life that we need to improve or are damaged

✨ spiritual

healing and balancing both your feminine and masculine energies

develop your intuition

have faith in yourself and in the process of creation (god, universe, energy…)

read about spirituality

meditate day and night

doing energetic cleansing

connect with your spiritual side

love yourself for who you are now

forgive the people who hurt us and forget the past

practice gratitude

practice compassion and tolerance towards yourself and others

connect with nature

this is what i believe brings us closer to becoming our best version, as i am always learning new things about the subject and evolving both personally and spiritually so i will continue to share this in future posts.

as always all questions related to the topic are welcome and if you have any doubts you can also ask.

[cinefairy]

the comforts of the imagination.

here i am— confused, scared & worried about whether im doing a technique right. here i am, struggling on finding fulfilment of my desires, not realising that fulfilment is already within me and has always been within me. i just haven’t trusted myself yet.

there is no reason to second-guess your worthiness of your desires. your imagination accepts you. your imagination isn’t asking you and will never ask you to be perfect. the great thing about imagination is that it will accept you for whoever you are. the only thing it asks you to do is fulfil yourself how you wish to.

stop worrying about the if/when/how/when why would you worry about that stuff? its a whole other layer that disrupts the peacefulness you could be receiving, its hard to stop the cycle of the comfortability but there’s no other way around it, the cycle has to end.

ask yourself: what will doubting myself bring me? nothing but more doubts.

what will seeking from the outside rather than inside bring me? nothing but chasing something that already exists within you.

what will worrying bring me? nothing but more worries.

now does any of that serve you? does it bring you goodness and peace. the answer is no.

give yourself what you want in imagination and imagination will not deny, it will not stop you and say “you cant have that” it will only accept what you accept.

so there you go, let go of everything that is not serving you & give yourself everything that you please and when i say everything i mean everything. do not hold back (because why would you when you’re free?) why settle for something less of what you truly deserve to have?

don’t shame yourself if you fall out of the state, get back in! that state doesn’t just disappear, its still within you. find it and go back in. it may feel uncomfortable at first and thats okay— when i get uncomfortable at my first newly state i perceive it as me finally stepping out of my comfort zone. i am not used to feeling this way, i am not used to giving myself what i please. it will be uncomfortable but soon this great feeling will be my home. it IS my home. i am just settling in.

you are surrounded by love, you are love, you are safe. imagination will not let you down. it will accept you— so now that you are aware that everything will be okay, that you are safe to imagine the things you’ve so deeply wanted. what are you gonna do?