Appelle moi, mon cherie

Juli, 30, TMA trans woman, Communist, submissive(mostly), Elf-kisser. Ilaheechuck, Canada. This blog is NSFW

[lynx-girl]

To think, Shimarin was Trans this whole time. Good for her!

[sexy-necromancing-bird]

Is the guy in the cuck chair supposed to stay quiet or is he allowed to clap and cheer

[foxgirlmindcrank]

he's supposed to take notes and make an intrigued hum when an interesting plot point occurs

[conspiracydeerist]

[blu3str1k3]

[thisarenotarealblog]

one is getting cucked by the bottom and the other is getting cucjed by the top. Subject matter experts discussing the sex like a sports panel

[morganoperandi]

One cuck always lies, the other always tells the truth. You have one question to determine who’s a top and who’s a bottom.

[whumpster-fire]

[burningspite]

two cucks! having sex!

two cucks! having sex!

their partners!

their partners!

are flummoxized at best!

[tankie-transfeminist]

"white trans people are oppressors too" is just an obviously true statement I can't believe I have to say this.

[triple-a-battering-ram]

cowards

[sapphling]

many will attempt to "end" the hug after only five to ten seconds of holding you. crucially, this is where the claws come into play

[arcane-cataclysm]

The tme with the south park avatar and good omens tag would like to tell you everything "problematic" gooseworx has ever said

[zapatism]

bocchi bye bye

[lady-of-vitreous-sight]

The thing is: if your predominantly trans space makes a cis guy uncomfortable, that guy is probably not a good fit for the space. Like, cis guys who complain about egg jokes are, in my experience moderating such spaces, also extremely likely to start talking about misandry being a real problem and how feminists need to quiet down.

At the same time, I don't particularly think "taking action for the purposes of making someone uncomfortable" is good for a space, either. I think it's very easy for a space to produce a culture that makes existing users comfortable at the cost of making the space more hostile for new users.

But, uh, egg jokes are a part of transfem social reproduction. Venting about how men suck is part of being a woman (in fact, venting about how your oppressors suck is part of being part of any marginalized group). And, as a marginalized group, being loud is part of feeling safe.

I think "this is bad because it makes cis men uncomfortable" discourse is disguising one thing as another. Producing a reasonable sounding justification that preys on the listener's unfamiliarity with the problem (and, in fact, their tendency to center the experiences of cis men).

An important thing to understand in order to understand intersectionality is that "cis man" is not the 'average person'. In general, the experiences of the least marginalized are not a "canary in the coal mine" that must be looked to first. In fact, our movement must be built upon the experiences of the multiply-marginalized, not those closest to the top.

[psipudding]

nadeshiko's endless torment

[planetapolilla]

Big elf! and silly edit - Done for Wibber Rose!

[wertfi-penguin]

Maybe the most damming thing about Nolans odyssey is i haven’t seen a single gifset from it

[voidling0]

[sailatina3]

Im drinking a modelo!

[sailatina3]

Tastes like shit

[reblogs-and-musings]

gonna be real whiny for second here; i think izutsumi should be more hyped. like each of the other main characters get so much love, but mostly izutsumi is just. there. she deserves more love. i know she appears very unlikable! but that's why she's so great :D also because she's as canonically aro-ace as a character can get without right-out saying "i am aro-ace" and also she has two hearts. LOVE HER MORE

[yestermaisyy]

just rolled a joint in traffic, and i’m a GIRL!!!

[ministarfruit]

people are still thirsting over emoji angel in my notifs so this one's for you guys. I see you.

[ministarfruit]

I love this text post so I drew it

[yourmamabunny]

lesbian mom who gets, like, WAY too excited when their daughter comes out as a girl. who tells her that they always wanted a daughter anyways with an oddly intense and hungry stare and hugs her a little too long and too close, and insists on going out clothes shopping and picks out oddly skimpy girly clothes (and insists on changing together too!). who keeps eying up and making inappropriate comments about their girl's growing curves once she goes on hormones, maybe even copping a few feels "just to check". they get way more touchy and affectionate with their daughter than they ever were before, and the daughter could swear they're eying her hungrily... but surely they're just being a supportive mom...

[yourmamabunny]

alternatively, lesbian mom who ALWAYS knew their daughter was a girl, even before she came out, and possibly before she even knew herself! calling her girly pet names and giving her compliments that left her blushing but shyly pleased. referring to her as a daughter when talking to friends about her. giving her cute and girly gifts, sometimes even of cute and girly outfits. slipping hormones in her food and waiting patiently for the day that she realizes...