the uncertainty girl

Ciara * 30s * trans * she/her * too shy to speak so I mostly reblog stuff * sooo good at writing bios

[our-queer-experience]

terfs on tumblr don’t care if they’re in your dnis. they’ll reblog your posts anyway. it would, however, be very funny if everyone just went into terf tags to block them on mass, ensuring they will never harass you and they will also not be able to interact on this website in any way that matters

[cuddlef1sh]

block then and FILTER THEIR TAGS

fucking hell if you have "terfs DNI" in your bio but you cant be bothered to block “radblr” “terfsafe” “gender critical” etc so you can see which seemingly-innocuous posts are actually recruitment attempts before you reblog them, you are worthless.

an “ally” who isnt willing to do One Single Fucking Thing to protect trans people might as well be a terf themselves. take some fucking responsibility

[mousidy]

a lot of my disillusionment with the trans "community" comes down to the fact that too many of you take "gender is different from sex" and go "ah ok, so instead of saying women are fragile and men are strong, I should say afabs are fragile and amabs are strong. to be Inclusive"

then you just treat gender like a surface level aesthetic draped over what someone "actually" is. really is indistinguishable from terf rhetoric

[theren5534]

The whole “gender is fluid, but sex is concrete” myth fucking sucks and I wish it never got spread around queer circles

[strawberry-crocodile]

god fromsoft sure does have a relationship to transfeminity huh

[strawberry-crocodile]

also really fun and exciting watching cisfeminist youtubers talk about characters like gwyndolin and miquella and not once talk about the way theyre transfeminized

[strawberry-crocodile]

fromsoft fandom is like a textbook example of the way transfeminized people are simultaneously sexualized and objectified while being denied womanhood. obviously these are characters and not people but if you see the way fans talk about them vs the actual men in the franchise its night and day. fun stuff!

[shorkcharlotte]

How specifically Miquella and Gwyndolin are both seen by the community as especially evil sinister and manipulative when other characters have done far worse. The most TMA video game characters to exist.

Its all the hatred while simultaneously being denied even any of the trans womanhood because god forbid you try and argue either one of them are transfeminine to anyone despite the mountains of textual evidence and vague lore you will hear some of the most vile transphobic rhetoric directed to these characters until you realize oh they think that about me too and stop talking.

[dreadwedge]

As a transsexual woman 👩 who has had multiple experiences ‼️ I have found 🔎 that the biggest block of cheese 🧀 is usually the one ☝️ that has the largest size 📈

[dreadwedge]

mature content

[asteroidtroglodyte]

Me, tears streaming down my face, sobbing, as I stare at the stars: it’s just so beautiful

The medieval peasant I went back in time to give a bag of Doritos to, concerned: what terrible and powerful sorcerers they must have in your age, to be able to veil the vault of heaven itself from view, as you say

Me, sniffling: I didn’t realize, I can’t, it’s so much, I, I… are the chips good, at least?

Medieval peasant, trying to make me feel better: they’re… magical, strange traveler

[dark-spirit-tamamoland]

they're still terming random transfems as i type this i see which does make quite a statement doing this today specifically

[puppetstuffing]

watched three girls who reblogged its new blog mutual aidpost (made literally 15 minutes ago) already disappear from its notifs. transfems are not included in their pride :/

[puppetedlove]

:)

[puppetvictim]

:)

[tamamowand]

QUITE the statement to be nuking transfems at the current accelerated pace right at the start of pride month like this, isn't it

[rabbitkinglune777]

cool. another black child died in a hate crime

[rabbitkinglune777]

South Carolina jury finds store owner not guilty of murder in killing of Black teen | CNN

A South Carolina jury on Monday found a store owner not guilty of murder in the 2023 shooting of a Black 14-year-old.

apparently the murder happened in 2023 after doing some research but the murderer has been found not guilty.

black children get murdered and become victims of hate crimes every fucking day. this is ridiculous

[rabbitkinglune777]

im posting this here despite the website being extremely white centered, I want people to understand how in this country it's basically ok to murder and victimize black people, especially women and children in the name of "self defense" and white America will reward you for your antiblackness.

[w0nderland42]

i get that americans love their cultural imperialism, but it really does piss me off that june is “international” pride month just because something happened in the united states.

in aotearoa, june isn’t our pride, it’s theirs. marsha p johnson and sylvia rivera are their historical figures, not ours. the phrase that “you owe your rights to Black trans women” is true there, but here we owe our rights to (mostly) Māori historical figures. i have the freedoms i do because of the legacy of an entirely different set of people operating in an entirely different context at entirely different times.

But because of american cultural imperialism, most queer people in Aotearoa don’t even know our own queer history. Carmen Rupe, Ngahuia Te Awekotuku, the Dorian Society, Gillian Laundon, Georgina Beyer, and the Wolfenden Association are some of our queer history. We should know their names! we should know what they did for us! but because of the power of the american imperial machine, we don’t.

our national pride month should be july, the month that the Homosexual Law Reform Act passed in 1986. our two largest cities hold their pride festivals in february and march, respectively. american queer history has very little (or nothing, depending on who you ask) to do with our queer history. anecdotally, from my own queries, queer youth in aotearoa know more about american queer history than our own.

anyway, happy pride, americans. i’m truly sorry that most of you don’t see the negative impact your nation’s culture has on the rest of the world. and to the rest of the world reading this, try searching for your own country and culture’s queer history, don’t accept the american narratives as your own. we deserve our own histories divorced from the cultural hegemony of the USA.

[bleedingheartdoe]

Love the genre of sadism that’s basically just extreme ‘cuteness agression’. “I love you so much that I get the overwhelming primal urge to violently manhandle and wound you, like some delicate prey thing that I need to rip open and savour the taste of.”

[creatingblackcharacters]

I would presume anyone would gauge this from my material but just in case:

I don't hold the violence of defense against racism as an equivalent to the violence of experiencing racism and someone inflicting that violence.

No, I'm never going to say "well yes he shouldn't have called you a slur, but hitting him back was just as bad!" Because it isn't. You don't get to inflict violence on a group and then expect them to be Held Above responding to it. You don't start fights and then say that it's a problem that someone fought back.

If that is a mentality that discomforts you, I am not going to argue. You may simply leave and not engage with me further. That is perfectly fine 🙏🏾

[smokeablunt]

[sonicismyboyfriend]

cool idea! anyone got a link for where to read / print these?

[anarchistserum]

Not exactly the same zines but it definitely looks like the same author judging by the mousegirl!

[merifrimox]

Though it seems the guide to safer drug use from the dhammaflow website contains all the individual ones anyway, on that page is actually another link, this one : https://dsdistro.noblogs.org/post/2025/03/26/radical-guide-to-safe-drug-use-pocket-zines/

Which has all the zines from the picture :)

[queer-as-city-folk]

The fact the 2 colors removed from the rainbow flag were pink and teal, is kinda ironic given that those same colors can make a trans flag

[queer-as-city-folk]

This is a coincidence of course, given the colors were removed in the 80s and the trans flag was made in 1999

[cuddlef1sh]

the sex-magic trans flag

[hirsuteandcute]

I'm just going to say it - body hair (and beauty standards in general) is truly one of the final frontiers of women's issues in the West. Too many women just love their gilded cage too much. It shocks me how virulently women will defend it. I barely open my mouth and the "well I like how it feels. it just makes me feel cleaner. sensory issues. I do it for me. feminism is about choosing (to conform)." brigade come rushing in by the dozens.

Well I don't like how it feels. I don't feel cleaner without body hair. I don't prefer not having body hair. But who will advocate for women like me, but me? For women who do like hair removal, they are advocated for every time they step out of the house and see 99% of the female population also conforming to that standard, or when they watch a movie and see all the shaved actresses, or view an advertisment, or open a magazine, or watch a music video, or scroll through social media, or walk down the streets without receiving insults and glares for having a completely normal bodily feature.

You genuinely can't even point out that hairlessness is a man-made standard without women losing their shit and acting like they are totally immune to propaganda they've been exposed to from birth. I'm so tired.

[knivesandteeth]

Sci fi should bring back the sweaty tanky top muscle woman fighting for her life but give some fucking underarm hair

[k-michaelis]

@hirsuteandcute

[segamascott]

[timefortigers]

problem i have is whenever i read write say or hear "sugar baby" my brain is like oh yeah, i know what that is! pretty sure we can reliably derive meaning for this term based on other definitions that precede it in our internal lexicon, like "sugar glider" and "bush baby". we are definitely talking about some kind of small arboreal marsupial with large eyes. it's probably not ethical for this wealthy patron to be keeping one as a pet

[the-upper-shelf]

Been feeling a little under the weather for a couple of days, so here's some Togekiss doodles I did this week. Haven't given up on Inktober yet, just gotta find the strenght to scan stuff lol