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[magicisrealandsoismyally]

Intro Post ✨

✧ ⋆˙ Name: Magic

✧ ⋆˙ Age: above 18

✧ ⋆˙ Bisexual Transfem (she/fae/it)

✧ ⋆˙ Originally only dimension 20 blog, but I post about whatever now (still do post d20 ofc)

✧ ⋆˙ Desi (but like, an abcd), but saying this will probably not stop transmisogynists from assuming I'm white

✧ ⋆˙ Talking a lot about transmisogyny recently because morons won't leave me alone so there really aren't any dangers if I'm getting sent threats either way.

✧ ⋆˙ Fandoms: Dropout (mostly d20), Avatar: the Last Airbender, a bit of Just Roll With It (kinda just started), a bit of NADPOD (also just started), Hatchetfield, JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, Agents of Shield, PJO, and the Good Place.

None of that is to say these medias are perfect, about 90% of my time is spent critiquing the media I love because that's how I engage with them in a thorough way ✧ ⋆˙ https://bsky.app/profile/magic-is-real.bsky.social

✧ ⋆˙ I block regularly and for fun :)

✧ ⋆˙ I queue almost everything.

✧ ⋆˙ Definitely not a certain gimmick blog's main wink wink

✧ ⋆˙ "#magic talks" for posts where I am out of the tags

✧ ⋆˙ "#my goth gay heart" for posts where I am being gay and/or edgy

✧ ⋆˙ "#i love writing for my campaign :)" for posts where I am talking about the dnd campaign setting I am working on

✧ ⋆˙ magic-after-dark is my 18+ side blog, if you know me irl don't. just don't, you will regret the choice. i truly won't care, but you probably will.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

agab isn't a thing you are, its a thing you were

'assigned' is past tense. it was an event, coercive, forced without your approval because you were only minutes old. its not a label, its not an identity

"i am afab" no, you WERE afab. you ARE whatever gender you currently are. stop identifying with an event forced upon you at birth, even if you are cis.

[divineobject919]

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

>ask if it's about transmasc voices or predjacketing trannies >she laughs and says it's fine >only accepts stories about transfem perpetrators

[moonlitorchestrator]

no righteousness + no might = a worm

righteousness + no might = a fool

no righteousness + might = a beast

righteousness + might = a hero of justice

[neovagi]

Sure. Why not. Words don't mean anything anymore. Fuck it.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

dropout posts on the dash, where's the video of Sam Reich joking about transfems being predators

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

kill your white boy for me

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

kill your white boy for me

remember that time they aired an episode where Chris Grace said "Esk*mo kiss" and, in response to the backlash, they and Grace separately issued statements + edited it out of the episode? still waiting on Reich's statement about this

hint: this time it can't be played off as an honest mistake.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

#am i dumb i genuinely don't understand what his comment was supposed to mean#even the... host? seemed confused #like i genuinely don’t get it #and i am trans woman fyi #is it really that simple and I'm just like “that can't be it”

it is that simple, yes. a rich, powerful white man essentially said, "funny to be called a pedophile by a man wearing a lot of makeup" and expected everyone to laugh at it.

it's notable that the response was confusion. they knew that what he said was objectionable, they were trying to find a way to avoid that conclusion and couldn't find one. I also had this moment of confusion.

we, all of us, have been taught to dismiss and excuse transmisogyny. we've internalized it, the confusion happens automatically. deliberate effort is required to overcome that impulse to dismiss, and even that relies on us having noticed it happening at all.

he didn't acknowledge it because he knew he didn't have to. everyone in the room let it slide, they aired it uncritically, there is no outrage about it. it's just an awkward joke.

[lowhitpointspuppyplagueharpylady]

People don't get that non passing trans women are not seen as men, they are seen as non passing trans women and are treated the way they are according to the social script for trans women, which is transmisogyny.

[normalest-lux-ever]

Fun fact for anyone who does this, being a misogynistic man isn't funny just because you're trans or you think the idea of treating trans women like women is inherently funny, how funny do you think she finds your "ironic" misogyny when you punch down on the women that don't have cis privilege over you

[closet-keys]

if someone is cultivating an endless publication of 'crimes' (I'll say especially sexual crimes) with the only criteria being the demographic who committed them, you need to know that is wildly fascist behavior.

people who do this never care enough to vet whether any of it is real and you should assume most or all of it is bullshit, but it is important to stress that even if someone could ensure with 100% certainty that every single instance of sexual violence listed actually occurred in exactly the way they presented it, the fact that they are choosing to present these accounts only because of what demographic committed them means that it functionally exists as propaganda against a demographic. it is incontestably a tactic for manufacturing consent for violence against a group of people.

people who give a fuck about survivors of sexual violence care about the survivors. they might (for example) make a project elevating experiences by survivors of a given demographic (which is what transfemvoicesproject did) no matter who their aggressors were.

[mousidy]

my heart is so warmed by all the pushback against transmascvoicesproject ☺️💖

[mousidy]

genuinely so glad the person doing this is incapable of recognizing when a very good coherent argument has been presented to them in their askbox and just posts them all with the weakest counterarguments imaginable 😭 the situation could be so much worse but they have made it impossible to take them or their "mission" seriously

[mousidy]

I joke that trans men are my brothers which means I'll throw their xbox 360 out my bedroom window if they're misogynistic to me, but honestly I'm feeling so much camaraderie with my brothers seeing so many of you tear into this shit lmao. you wanna go halvsies on buying a copy of viva piñata to play together?

[filmnoirsbian]

I love getting unaccompanied minors (kids flying alone) who so clearly just. Don't want to be here lol. Sometimes I get to know a little of their story, like their parents are divorced, or a family member died and they're heading to the funeral, but usually they just don't want to talk about it and that's fine. But I always treat the flight like it's a challenge to make them smile. I offer them snacks and soda but that's never enough, that's whatever, they could get those from an airport vending machine. Chump change. So then I tell the worst jokes. Just the most embarrassing, kindergarten teacher, annoying dad jokes you can think of. And those always get a groan, or a "Seriously??" And that's my in! Now I can say "Why, what's your idea of a good joke? No, come on hotshot, make your best joke, let's see it." And they hem and they haw but of course they eventually tell me their very best joke because kids are little competitive comedy goldmines. And it's always super funny, so I laugh, and that's where they slip up. Because you know what you almost always do when your joke successfully makes someone laugh? You smile. And I'm like. Gotcha. Rookie move. Now you're going to end up having a good time in spite of yourself. I win.

[filmnoirsbian]

Did this with an 11yo u.m. today and he said "What did the ghost say to the other ghost?" And I said "What?" "Nothing. Ghosts aren't real."

[filmnoirsbian]

I'm literally a flight attendant, offering snacks and drinks is my job

[this-is-a-name-dont-worry]

gshsjb

[rat-in-apartment-b]

some of you before the reveal: i think jax is transmasc :)

some of you after the reveal: i think jax is transmasc :)

idk. hc whatever you want. i just personally think taking a canon transfem character and going but what if she was transmasc instead is weird behavior

[mousidy]

Sorry but I’m exclusively attracted to afab people. I wasn’t sent to conversion therapy twice as a teenager only to have people on the internet guilt me into trying to like people assigned male just like the Mormon counselors wanted. I will always advocate for trans rights but this kind of rhetoric will only hurt you. You cannot guilt or coerce people into sleeping with you or rather, you can, but you should’t.

I've been wanting to unpack this particular terf argument for a while but I'm not even sure what I wrote that you could be responding to here. yes it's bioessentialist to see trans women as our assigned sex before what we actually are, but that fact alone does not obligate you to sleep with anyone

it would be fatphobic to announce that you don't want to sleep with fat women, and someone simply calling that out alone would not constitute pressuring you to sleep with anyone you didn't want to

it's not carte blanche to announce all the minorities you don't want to sleep with and aren't attracted to

[mousidy]

also I promise you there are quite a lot of trans men who do not want to be told how attracted to their "afabness" you are. your obsession with people's government sex assignments is gross. spare us your essentialism and just don't fuck people you don't want to fuck it's that simple

[mousidy]

the fact that some trans men call themselves lesbians is not a blank check for you to reduce them all to their agabs. it's disgusting. stop

[fearlessfeministcat]

This is fucking disgusting. People should not feel ashamed because of their sexualitym you are not entitled to sex. Consent can be revoked at any time for any reason. Shame on you.

Its not "reducing people to their agabs" we have sex with genitals not identity

[mousidy]

textbook example of how you can be the most articulate bitch on the planet about how no one has to fuck a tranny, but if you come for their ability to announce unprompted to minority groups how unfuckable they think we are they crack out the language of sexual assault

[mousidy]

[pantsarecool]

Can you name all 57 women?

[pantsarecool]

“Cry me a river”

Ok❤️

[twoblogger-deactivated20260714]

My extremely controversial gaming opinion is that they should allow you to obtain meat in stardew valley and while I understand that the vast majority of people might not want to play with it I also think somewhat that the absence of any such mechanics in a farming simulator is a sign of broader disconnection and alienation from where food comes from etc

[twoblogger-deactivated20260714]

>’Farming’ game

>Unable to raise animals for meat because that’s not ‘cosy’ enough

>Where do you think meat comes from in real life