Hello we are the Malachite Collective/System Parallel, but you can call us Malachite. We collectively use he/they/it Pronouns and are 19. We are a primarily trauamgenic DID system.
This blog is mainly for system stuff and term coining, you can upload our terms onto any wikis just please credit us.
To see alter intros search #malachite collective intros
This pride month, can y’all actually listen to us intersex folk. Please. Not to get angsty here but it feels suffocating when our own community doesn’t listen to us
There is more after the cut. I just had to add it cuz I got sick and tired of it clogging up half of my reblogs/posts
Anti-endos are genuinely exhausting because they repeat the same recycled arguments over and over again like parrots and then act shocked when nobody outside their little echo chamber takes them seriously anymore. It is the exact same script every single time: “you’re invading our community,” “you’re stealing resources,” “you’re fake claiming DID,” blah blah blah. At some point it stops sounding like concern and starts sounding like people who are addicted to outrage and desperately need a group to villainize so they can feel morally superior online.
The funniest part is that plurality as a whole is already severely under-researched. People act like psychology has every answer about consciousness, identity, dissociation, and plurality when in reality the field still barely understands huge portions of it. Plural communities and discussions existed before DID was even formalized as a diagnosis, yet anti-endos love pretending history magically began the second medical terminology became convenient for them. Human identity is messy. Consciousness is messy. Trauma is complicated. The brain is complicated. But anti-endos flatten all of that nuance into the dumbest black-and-white worldview imaginable because complexity terrifies them.
And honestly? The “endos are invading our community” argument is one of the most hypocritical and irritating things they constantly scream about. Endogenic systems use tags like #plural because they ARE plural. That tag was never exclusively owned by anti-endos or medically recognized systems. If anti-endos deliberately lurk in inclusive plural spaces, stalk endogenic creators, interact with endogenic posts, and obsessively search tags they already know contain endogenic systems, that is not “intrusion.” That is them intentionally inserting themselves into spaces they KNOW are mixed and then whining afterward because they saw people they dislike existing peacefully.
You cannot knowingly walk into a broad community tag and then cry because the community is broad. That is your own damn fault.
And then anti-endos LOVE to scream about “resources being stolen,” except half the time they don’t even know what the resources themselves stand for. They constantly bring up things like Simply Plural, PluralKit, and Tupperbox as if those are exclusive DID-only sacred spaces being desecrated by evil endos. Meanwhile all three are openly inclusive or pro-endo. PluralKit and Tupperbox have outright acknowledged that even roleplayers can use the bots. Simply Plural allows people to use it as OC storage too. These resources were intentionally designed to be broad and accessible by the people who CREATED them. Anti-endos do not get to override the actual creators just because they personally dislike inclusivity.
That argument completely falls apart the second you look at reality for more than five fucking seconds.
And another thing anti-endos somehow STILL cannot understand despite how painfully simple it is: endogenic systems are not claiming to have DID. If someone believed they had DID, they would say they have DID. That is literally the point. Calling yourself endogenic is already separating your experience from DID/OSDD frameworks. This is not some impossible galaxy-brain concept. It is one of the easiest statements imaginable to understand, yet anti-endos intentionally twist it constantly because pretending endos are “faking DID” sounds more dramatic and gives them an excuse to justify harassment.
It genuinely feels like some anti-endos are less interested in protecting trauma survivors and more interested in controlling who is “allowed” to exist in plural spaces. The obsession is unhealthy. The harassment campaigns, stalking, mockery, dogpiling, misinformation, purity culture, and constant aggressive gatekeeping create more toxicity than the people they complain about ever did. You cannot preach about mental health while acting like a chronically online bully whose entire personality revolves around invalidating strangers on the internet.
And the irony is insane because anti-endos constantly prove the exact point people criticize them for. They claim they want safe spaces, yet they make plural communities hostile as hell. They claim they care about education, yet they spread misinformation constantly and refuse to acknowledge how little plurality is actually researched. They claim they care about respect, yet dedicate absurd amounts of time to mocking, harassing, and dehumanizing people they disagree with. If your movement relies more on aggression, ridicule, and social policing than actual discussion, maybe your position is not nearly as strong as you think it is.
At the end of the day, no amount of screaming online is going to erase people you dislike from existence. Reality does not magically disappear because anti-endos throw another tantrum on the internet.
And before anyone twists this around: this is not targeted at diagnosed systems. This is targeted at anti-endos specifically, because anti-endos can absolutely be singlets too. Being diagnosed does not automatically make someone anti-endo, and being anti-endo does not automatically make someone a system. The problem is the hostility, harassment, and obsessive gatekeeping — not whether somebody has a diagnosis.
What would you do if you were scrolling through recommended tumblr posts and one was from someone you don't know and it was just a picture of your dad captioned "fucking hate this guy" and it had hundreds of notes
“Im an anti-endo soulbonder!!” Yeah so I love eating cake! But I’m anti eggs and anti flour, oh! And I’m anti sugar! Also people who like eggs, flour and sugar are invading my spaces!! But I still love eating cake!
“Haha remember when murder-hornets were gonna be a thing? What a nothingburger.”
Yes, because the Washington state government activated like a sleeper-cell and ruthlessly, systematically hunted them down and annihilated them.
“Y2K came to nothing amirite?”
Yes because an army of software engineers working around the clock, losing sleep, and busting ass till the last minute prevented it from happening.
“Remember the hole in the ozone layer?”
You mean the one that was fixed through rigorous world wide government action?
One of the root problems of our society is a refusal or inability by media to articulate that all those “it’s gonna be an apocalypse” disasters were not disasters because we collectively did something about them.
The good news is this is actually quite correctable. I maintain my firm belief that we as humans are capable of solving almost all of our problems, when we decide to do so.
And I still think that’s going to happen. I don’t know when or how, but I do know that abandoning hope won’t help bring it about.
And I refuse to let the cynics own a chunk of my heart.
I hate how people will say "ampersands shutting down" when the app can't really shut down because it's offline first. Like guys as long as you have the software on your device(and make backups, Hell even back up an APK or exe file too) then you'll be good. The only thing that can really stop is updates. That's actually why we use ampersand. Because we know our stuff will mostly be safe for as long as we need it. Also the devs have been updating it a lot btw :).
The Concordia Project is a community-driven effort to create better tools for plural systems.
Plural systems often rely on apps such as Simply Plural or PluralKit to communicate, track switches, organize members, and manage daily life. These tools are incredibly valuable to us — but right now, there are very few of them, and most are maintained by very small, overworked teams.
Concordia is being developed to change that.
What is Concordia?
Concordia is being developed as a foundation-style project whose goal is to support the development of plural tools — including apps, websites, and other resources.
Instead of being just one app, the long-term goal is to build a sustainable ecosystem where multiple tools can exist, improve, and continue to be maintained over time, as well as being easily accessible to all plural.
What this means in practice
One way to understand this idea is to look at projects like Mozilla.
Mozilla develops Firefox, but it also acts as a foundation that supports technology that benefits the wider internet. It provides structure and support that helps important tools continue to exist and grow.
Another example is the Blender Foundation. The Blender Foundation maintains the 3D software Blender while also supporting the long-term development of the project and coordinating the community around it.
Similarly, Concordia’s goal is not only to develop a plural app — but to create a structure that can support ongoing development of plural technology as a whole.
This includes things like:
• developing new tools
• supporting developers who want to build plural resources
• helping projects stay maintained long-term
• amplifying existing tools so more systems know they exist
• connecting developers and creators to each other for support and collaboration
One of the first projects under The Concordia Project will be a new plural app and website, Concordia.
This app will be a system management tool, similar to tools like Simply Plural. It will allow systems to organize and keep track of information about their system in one place.
This will include things like member profiles, switch tracking, friending systems, system notes, a calendar and other ways to organize system information.
A major goal is to make sure that existing data from tools like Simply Plural and PluralKit can be uploaded, so systems don’t have to start from scratch if they choose to move between platforms.
Under The Concordia Project, this app will be continuously maintained and cared for, with the goal of providing a stable tool that systems can rely on long-term.
Why this project exists
Plural tools are extremely important for many systems, and something we rely on heavily in our day-to-day lives — but there are very few of them, and many rely on small teams working under a lot of pressure. Because of this, projects can sometimes slow down, struggle to be maintained, or even collapse entirely, leaving the systems who rely on them without stable tools.
The Concordia Project hopes to help create a future where plural tools are:
• easier to maintain
• easier to develop
• easier for systems to access
• and not dependent on just one or two projects existing
Another goal of the Concordia Project is to create tools that are free from system discourse ('syscourse'). Rather than participating in debates about who should or shouldn’t use plural tools, Concordia’s focus is simply on building and maintaining reliable resources that plural systems can use regardless of where they fall within community discussions or labels.
This is still an early-stage project.
Right now we are focusing on:
• researching community needs
• building a development roadmap
• connecting with debelopers and creatives
• and laying the groundwork for the project
If you’re a developer, designer, researcher, or someone interested in helping build plural tools — we would love to hear from you.
And if you’re a system who simply wants better tools, your feedback is incredibly valuable too.
More information and updates will be shared here, as well as our discord server, as the project develops.
Despite the chaos going on and the back and forth, I do hope we can remember that these tools we use are made by fellow systems, who also have their own journey and limits in terms of energy and stress management.
Sometimes I hope my anti endo friends find this blog and cut me off. Because I'm afraid to do it myself(I know I should cut them off myself I'm just afraid of what the outcome will be)