Earning someone’s trust is way to easy
Honestly, the Conzept of trust is pretty easy to understand, yet so many people don’t get it. Let me tell you about it.
Trust is a mutual thing. Why trusting someone that doesn’t trust you?
So, for someone that can’t fully trust someone, the question remains. Why should people fully trust me? Don’t get me wrong, I guess you can trust me, but that doesn’t mean I do. Even when I do, I don’t. Can’t help it.
Over sharing plays a big role here. When I talk to people I don’t really know and I tell them some random personal stuff, that’s a bit out off place, they usually give back the same random shit. That automatically creates a safe place for more unusual topics that doesn’t belong in conversation like this.
Frankly, for me it’s actually nothing special when I over share, that’s just the way I communicate. Actually there are a lot of people that over share, but there are also a lot that don’t. But have you ever heard someone say to you “it’s so easy to talk to you” ? This is what I’m talking about.
This got me into a lot of interesting conversations. People telling me some random ass secrets about themselves and my inner monologue is “yo what the fuck, why are you telling me this? :)”. But I actually like conversations like this, at least it doesn’t gets boring.
Obviously that doesn’t imply the way people trust each other over time. For this I guess you need to be patient and at least a little bit trustworthy.













