Hi, you can call me Marble (this is my internet nickname), a lesbian in her early 20s from Poland. Just vibing here on Tumblr from time to time. If you want to look into my post/reblogs read my takes on #talk tag.
*I'm an adult and I post things for adults. I don't have time to block minors, feel warned!
You can ask me anything you want. I won't shy away, but remember that I'm not your therapist and all my opinions are biased forward women!
More information about me under the cut! 💕
If the part has * in front of it that means I changed something in the text and/or my views are different than before.
I desisted in the middle of 2023. I used to be a non-binary/agender and asexual individual for around 3 to 4 years, but I understood all of that was because of internalized misogyny and homophobia and I actually wanted to have my boobs intact and I did like being a woman before I was introduced to the trans community. (For clarification, I didn't take hrt or have any surgeries done. I've only transitioned socially, thank goodness.)
I'm an ex-Christian, now I don't really care, I don't believe in anything. Researching my Slavic roots at the moment.
I believe in critical thinking and triple-checking facts. Everyone can have their opinions, but actions should be based in grounded reality and unbiased scientific research. Read those books ladies!
I'm mostly talking about my experience as an ex-TRA, a lesbian, a woman, someone who lives in a misogynistic/conservative family and a country that has yet to legalize same-sex marriage, but you can safely transition here even as a minor.
*I'm a trans identified men hater. I don't care. Fuck all men, I don't care anymore. Gender dysphoria or perversion (autogynephilia) in males should have never been "solved" with a surgery and/or irreversible drugs/HRT. No other mental illness has permanent body modification as its treatment, same should be for gender dysphoria. The trans movement (men's rights movement in disguise) is the most harmful thing that happened to homosexual youth and I'm so tired of seeing more people being pushed into it just because they are themselves and aren't scared to dress unconventionally!
*I gave up on men. I don't believe it's a women's job to fix whatever they have going on. If they are so scared of women not wanting them anymore, they should adapt to the change.
*I don't block people, unless they're insufferable. We can have different opinions, different lifestyles, different views, but if you're annoying I draw the line there (because Tumblr dot com is my leisure time and I won't have the negativity of random people ruin my mood)
I make mistakes! I'm just a human being and, naturally, I will be in the wrong sometimes. May it be because of the language barrier or me just not thinking things through, doesn't matter. I will try to acknowledge my mistakes and say sorry. I'm still learning and there isn't a better way than through your own downfalls!
I also draw sometimes (I don't have much time for it right now, bc I'm in the middle of my academic years), you can find my work under #my art.
Nothing here is set in stone. As I grow as a person my views will probably change. If you have any questions, just ask them! I'm happy to answer all of them ❤️
The argument, however niche (it’s very niche) appearing for the first time in human history that people can and should be attracted to one another regardless of biological sex is a direct result of kids forming friendships, relationships, and entire communities and social circles with people they’ve never met online, resulting in a whole group of kids who think of people as disembodied concepts and selfies and personal posts. In this essay, I will-
The demographic of tumblr being largely the socially outcast and/or maladjusted and younger people/teenagers
the effect this has on their irl sexual activity or lack thereof, and confusing, fluid sexual desires
The normalization via various hook-up, dating, camming, etc. sites of becoming attracted to people via the internet
INHERENT DIFFERENCES IN FINDING SOMEONE ATTRACTIVE ONLINE AND ACTUALLY MEETING THEM
Sex in theory vs. sexual reality
How many young people don’t understand that how someone presents online is often not an accurate portrayal, physically or emotionally, of who they are
“Trans women are women/Trans men are men”: a brief history of how attempts to ease dysphoria have turned over time into making it deliberately difficult to separate trans people from the gender they identify as
The unfortunate implications this has on consent
Tying it all together: Confused young people, who are often isolated from their peers and trying on genders and sexualities like new styles as they grapple with their identity and puberty, are finding themselves attracted to carefully created and maintained online personas. These kids then, with the best of intentions, read about the struggle for trans acceptance and, failing to understand the multi-faceted nuances of real physical sex with someone, create rhetoric based around the validation of someone’s gender identity through sexual contact without understanding the gravity of what they’re suggesting
Also the Five Geek Social Fallacies are eternally relevant.
Especially when a community is composed of people who have felt invalidation and rejection (both real and imaginary) throughout their lives and felt deeply hurt by it, so they try to create a space where no one ever feels rejected or invalidated. This appeals to those traumatized by systemic racism/segregation/discrimination, as well as the impotent rage of entitled males who don’t think girls should be allowed to reject their sexual advances. All these feelings are lumped together and treated as equally justified and important. The feelings themselves are seen as proof of cruelty and oppression, so it’s morally unacceptable to ever do something that results in another person having those feelings.
So being a good person = always making other people feel included/valid, being a bad person = doing anything that results in another person feeling excluded/invalid.
Many people drawn to these communities are highly sensitive to perceived rejection, do not accept responsibility for their feelings, and do not accept that people have the right to set boundaries. They want these communities to be an escape from boundaries, from ever feeling rejected. So they’re willing to invest a lot of effort attempting to negotiate the inevitable issues that arise within that philosophy, because the alternative is accepting that other people have the right to reject them, and they aren’t sure anyone will choose to include them if it isn’t mandated by a moral code.
Of course these communities spring up within a broader society that believes women are inherently evil and must constantly earn the right to exist through martyrdom, always be selfless, serve others, never set boundaries or have needs. And it believes men are entitled to whatever they happen to want (especially from women), that their emotions dictate reality, and that it’s always someone else’s responsibility to make them feel better if they get upset. So when a community that says “boundaries might upset people so you mustn’t ever have them,” of course the result is a dynamic where men’s entitled demands get worse and worse and it’s normal for female people to develop moral OCD in a doomed attempt to always make everyone feel good
Reblog if you are an alpha woman who are unable to love, you support alpha women who are unable to love, or you just laughed really hard at the article title
Radical feminists only hate transgender women because they only see you as a woman if you can reproduce. Only thinking a woman is a woman if they can give birth is not truly revolutionary and ahead of time. If you think womanhood is defined merely by being able to give birth, you need to get with the times. Suck it.
have you ever talked to a radfem? do you have any idea how dumb you look rn?
infertile women are still women, you fucking misogynist? i need you to under that these are entirely your own words, not ours. this is what you draw from “males are not women, a woman is an adult human female”. a radfem has legitimately never said anything about her ability to get pregnant. i’ll eat my fucking foot if you find a single radical feminist who’s said anything along those lines.
you heard “female” and thought “oh the pregnant things. the things i fuck to have kids. the things to put my dick in. that’s what females are.”
female people and animals are not just your baby machines. female people are human. women are human. autonomous, intelligent humans. adult human females.
it’s deranged the way you people demonstrate how you think about women whenever you slip up. no better than your average right-wing male.
i'd like to attempt to have a conversation with you in good faith. why do you expect trans people and trans allies to be kind to you when you treat them like they should be punished for simply existing?
Hello, I'm happy to talk. But let's start first with you screenshotting where I do this so we start on a truth not a lie. Prove where I've said or suggested that - and we'll talk :)
PS - in the entire time I've been involved in this topic, no one has ever "called me out" on something I've actually said. They always assume, presume or simply make something up out of thin air. Like you're doing now.
i can't find inadmissable evidence that you actually *said* that trans people should be punished for existing, so i'll repeal that. however, your entire blog is filled to the brim with hatred.
here is an example of you and anon both being vitriolic, except you hid behind sardonicism while they were straight-forward with you. also, if your words here are to be taken genuinely (although they don't seem to be intended that way at all) it does imply that you expect trans people to be "lovely" to you while you give them less than nothing in terms of basic human dignity.
also, "women who say no". ok. would you explain that term please? in your own words, not a screenshot or link, ideally.
also, if we ARE going to speak in good faith, drop the sweet-like-arsenic attitude. be genuine and real with me. show me the same respect i'm showing you. stop mocking me.
What you’ve said here is almost unbelievable that you think this way, but I’m not surprised because I see this all the time within Trans Rights Activism (TRA). You said “here is an example of you and anon both being vitriolic, except you hid behind sardonicism while they were straight-forward with you.”
So you think the TRA is being ‘straightforward’ with me here? And you think I’m ‘hiding behind sardonicism’? What is clear here, is that you are again admitting that you can’t find anything I’ve actually done or said as bad and so you are jumping to assuming I mean something bad underneath it ‘hidden sardonically’ in what I’m saying. So, again, you have not found me to say anything ‘hateful’ (not even ‘straightforward’ hate!) but you STILL pretend I am hateful, even when I don’t do anything.
And yet, you see the TRAs straightforward aggression and threat to ‘get off their planet’ as somehow the better position here. So, straight up hate/threat/attack from a TRA is Good, and a sarcastic response from a TERF that reflects back to them what they’re doing is Bad? Wow!
My response to them showed that the “subject” of the conversation between me and anon was “THEIR” hatred, not mine - I merely revealed it. But you think I’m the baddy here? Lol!
Then, you say “it does imply that you expect trans people to be "lovely" to you while you give them less than nothing in terms of basic human dignity”. This is frankly hilarious - it is TRAs who expect women to be lovely at all times to them, and they consider women saying “No” to be “unkind”, rather than simply a human rightly stating their basic human boundary with dignity. And, TRAs are taking away women's basic human dignities and relabeling them as “hate”. This is called gaslighting, and it’s incredibly narcissistic - and you’re part of that cog turning in the trans activism machine.
It’s also interesting that when given the opportunity to find something hateful on my page - the only place you thought you found hate was an interaction with one of your own TRAs. Why not give an example of one of my own posts? My own blog articles? My own infographics? My own long, rambling monologs where I clearly state my thoughts and position straight-forwardly without hiding behind anything? Funny that, isn’t it! :)
Everything I say is “genuine and real”, whether to you or anyone else. Us TERFs have reality on our side, whereas the trans movement is what’s hidden behind smoke and mirrors and makes for the biggest political parody show we’ve ever seen! That’s where my humour comes in - because you keep giving us such comedy gold! Oh, whilst we’re talking about comedy, you might like my The Future Of Autism Politics Part 1 & 2 picture slideshow on my blog. It’s a great laugh at the mentality behind Gender Ideology…
Tumblr in 1860 probably: Please remember that some people NEED their slaves due to disabilities that prevent them from performing labor on their own. Don’t shame disabled slave owners.
liberal feminists on tumblr in 1860: have you ever considered that some slaves LIKE working on the plantations, and some female slaves CHOOSE to have sex with their masters?
#‘here are 10 slaveowners of color who are changing the face of slavery’#‘why minstrel shows can be crucial in gaining positive poc of color representation’#‘anti-slavery is southernphobic and diminishes longstanding traditions’#‘if slavery is abolished then how will black people find jobs?’
One day, I hope you embrace joy and love instead of hatred. I will fight for you regardless of your transphobia because the fascists will turn on you once we are gone. They will abandon you or harm you, but I hope we all live to see that never happens. You're my sibling, and im sorry to lose you as part of the lgbT community. We will always welcome you back when/if you change your mind.
Troons when they post the most basic TERF take on Tumblr Dot Com then get surprised when TERFs reblog it 😱 Also, are TERFs some kind of demons you can keep away with salt? Is the trans flag supposed to be a natural repellent?
