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I was going through the hall of fame blog and found these gems, so now have the tog characters as things I think they would post here
this may be an Unpopular Opinion (even on tumblr) but like the 8-hour workday is just Too Gotdamn Long
like even sitting in an office for eight hours a day isn’t particularly pleasant (or healthy, as we are beginning to see) but when we’re talking about doing *actual work* for that same amount time it gets pretty fucking brutal
doing literally *anything* (even leisure activities) for eight hours straight tends to be less than enjoyable but when we’re talking about things like construction, landscaping, factory work, and hell, even foodservice and retail, eight hours is a fucking ETERNITY
i might just be a lazy weak-willed bitch but honestly i think i’m not entirely wrong
this was being worked towards by leftist labor unions way back in the day after the time of FDRs new deal. people in the 40s and 50s were already starting to realize that we no longer actually needed an 8 hour work day or even a 5 day work week.
even with the comparatively primitive factory tech of the time we were already creating a huge amount of excess production back then and companies were making massive amounts of profit. So it already stood to reason that companies should either let their employees work less and thus each employee could work a shorter shift without lowering the yearly compensation of each employee, or in cases where businesses provide an active service they would shorten the shift but hire more people to cover the necessary operating time. but of course that would mean less money for people at the top so companies fought back hard and we ended up with nixon’s bullshit and so on and now its considered the norm for us to spend the vast majority of our lives doing work that really just amounts to waste.
The IWW realised this and were fighting for it all the way back in the 1930s. This is a take with a lot of historical and theoretical grounding, OP, so you’re standing in good stead.
I’d also like to add it’s also been studied and scientifically proven that after 6 hours, we have an extremely noticeable drop in productivity. Sweden saw nothing but benefits from a 6-hour work day, including worker productivity, happiness, and half the amount of sick-leave used when applied to nurses.
https://onlinemasters.ohio.edu/the-six-hour-workday/
THE 16 PERSONALITY TEST is generally based on the personality indicator developed by Katharine Cook Briggs and her daughter Isabel Briggs Myers. Their development of the test occurred in the 1940s and was built upon psychological research performed by Carl Jung in the 1920s. The type test is based on a series of questions that gather information on how a person usually responds or relates to various situations.
The answers to these questions are calculated to determine the person’s individual personality type. Important insights can be gained by understanding personality type, such as optimal career choice, better romantic partnerships, and paths to personal growth.
Personality Types: Tests that sort people into 16 different types which are organized by four pairs of opposite traits.
These pairs are:
Extraversion (E) and Introversion (I)
Sensing (S) and Intuition (N)
Thinking (T) and Feeling (F)
Judging (J) and Perceiving (P)
One of each pair is combined to create a 4-letter abbreviation for each personality type, such as:
ESFP: extraversion (E), sensing (S), feeling (F), perception (P)
INTJ: introversion (I), intuition (N), thinking (T), judgment (J)
These personality traits are grouped into four categories that describe the way in which a person interacts with the world. Everyone experiences both traits in each pair, but usually one is more dominant than the other in the 16 personality test.
Extraversion (E)
Extroverts are energized when in the company of other people, unlike Introverts who are usually reserved, quiet, and prefer to be by themselves. Extroverts like speaking their minds and thrive in social situations. They are usually popular and well-liked by other people. Extroverts may feel down and become drained if they’re not in the company of others for too long.
Introversion (I)
Introverted people are quiet, reserved, and more comfortable being alone than an Extroverted person. Introverts prefer to rely on themselves for entertainment rather than seeking interaction or stimulation from others. They are usually self-sufficient and would rather work alone than in a group. Socializing drains an Introvert’s energy, and they need alone time to recharge. Because of this they put less emphasis on socializing and social skills than an extrovert would.
Sensing (S)
Sensing individuals place great emphasis on what they see, touch and experience in the real world, unlike Intuitive people who would rather live in their imaginations. Prioritizing facts and practicality, those with a Sensing character are outward-looking and prefer not to deal with philosophical ideas or introspective ponderings. They would rather focus on what they can concretely experience with their senses.
Intuition (N)
Intuitive individuals put emphasis on imagination and ideas, rather than what is actually in front of them. They tend to prioritize introspection and dreaming, and oftentimes feel like they do not belong or live in the real world. Unlike Sensing individuals, who enjoy seeing, touching and experiencing the world, intuitive people are inward-focused and prefer living in their own heads. While Sensing people like facts and practicality, Intuitive individuals tend to lean towards allusions, read between the lines, and analyze things at greater depth.
Thinking (T)
Thinking individuals are objective, rational, and logical. Their decisions and actions are usually governed more by their minds than by their hearts. Many people often judge Thinking people as lacking emotion, but that is not true. They can be just as emotional and sensitive as the Feeling group, but feelings are not their main priority, and they can hide their emotions or prevent them from coming to the surface. They prioritize facts over feelings.
Feeling (F)
Individuals with the Feeling trait care more about emotions and expressing them than what is deemed rational or logical. However, this does not mean that Feeling types are irrational; it only means that those with this trait are more likely to express their emotions, as compared to Thinking individuals who prefer to suppress their emotions. Those who focus on feelings and expressions of emotion tend to be more open-minded, vocal, empathetic, and sensitive.
Judging (J)
Those with the Judging trait tend to strategize and plan before they act. They’d prefer a thought-out plan over going with the flow. They are organized, reliable, responsible, and have very good work ethics. They are always prepared, armed with checklists and contingency plans. They are likely to commit to future plans, but may forget to live in the present.
Perceiving (P)
People who have the Perceiving trait rather than the Judging trait value their sense of freedom. They do not want to be tied down to a specific activity or commitment if they think there is something better that is worthy of their time. They are excellent in spotting new opportunities, and they grab them whenever they can. They are good with improvisation, even in emergency situations. They take life as it comes and feel stifled if forced to stick to a schedule.
More than the Sum of Its Parts
Each whole personality type is more than the sum of its traits. In addition to each of the four main traits of each profile, further personality insights from the personality test emerge when the combination of those traits are taken into consideration.
For example, a person with the combination of Thinking (T) and Intuition (N) will behave differently than someone with the traits of Thinking (T) and Sensing (S). The combination of Thinking and Intuition reflects someone who is often in their head, thinking about all the different possible circumstances or even fantastic ideas. But someone with the Thinking and Sensing traits, who may also be often lost in their own thoughts, will be relying on their senses instead of their intuition, and their ponderings will be rooted in the current state of reality.
Test your personality and discover more about yourself.
aww I got ISFP! this is actually amazing, and tbh very comforting. Thank you <33
Oh sht that explains why I’m INFJ
❅ HERE are other personality tests that might help you, I’m listing it below so you can take the tests. ❅
1. Five Factor Model/ Big Five Personality Traits test
The Big Five personality traits, also known as the five-factor model (FFM) and the OCEAN model, is a taxonomy for personality traits. It is based on common language descriptors. When factor analysis (a statistical technique) is applied to personality survey data, some words used to describe aspects of personality are often applied to the same person. For example, someone described as conscientious is more likely to be described as “always prepared” rather than “messy”.
The five factors are:
Openness to experience (inventive/curious vs. consistent/cautious)
Conscientiousness (efficient/organized vs. easy-going/careless)
Extraversion (outgoing/energetic vs. solitary/reserved)
Agreeableness (friendly/compassionate vs. challenging/detached)
Neuroticism (sensitive/nervous vs. secure/confident)
2. (2.1)The InkBlot/The Rorschach Test Personality test (SET A)
(2.2) The InkBlot/The Rorschach Test Personality test (SET B)
- The Rorschach test is a psychological test in which subjects’ perceptions of inkblots are recorded and then analyzed using psychological interpretation, complex algorithms, or both. Some psychologists use this test to examine a person’s personality characteristics and emotional functioning. It has been employed to detect underlying thought disorder, especially in cases where patients are reluctant to describe their thinking processes openly.
3. (3.1)Type A/B Personality Test (SET A)
(3.2) Type A/B Personality Test (SET B)
- Personality type is a modified version of the Jenkins Activity Survey. This survey was originally formulated to detect behaviors which lead to heart attacks (Jenkins, Ayzanski, Rosenman, 1971). Type A personality generally refers to hard workers who are often preoccupied with schedules and the speed of their performance, relaxed, less ‘neurotic’, ‘frantic’, ‘explainable’. Type B personalities may be more creative, imaginative, and philosophical, highly organized, ambitious, impatient, highly aware of time management and/or aggressive. The test consists of 30 multiple-choice items. Scores range from 35 to 380. Type A is associated with a high score while Type B is associated with a low score.
INFJ!
I’ve known about the Meyer-Briggs test for years! I first took it in a freshman science class, then again in my senior Psychology class.
ENFJ-A!
is nobody going to talk about this painting
i mean those men are just casually rIDING THEIR BEARDS NBD
never mind them, i’m more concerned about the guy kidnapping a woman with his beard
the one dude has a literal handlebar mustache
oh shit
This is why I don’t play games like that
when the premiere of your movie is on the same night as your pajama party so you have to compromise
Seriously though like, I missed the boat on this whole radical honesty thing. I guess everyone wants to be true to themselves now? That’s…great…but like you’re really only ever going to meet a select few people you can be totally honest with about everything. Lie to strangers! Lie to authorities! Like damn didn’t you have parents that told you never to tell people on the phone that you were home alone? When the interviewer asks if you ever experimented with drugs, you say no! This is not a therapy session! He’s got no business asking you that anyway! Lots and lots of people are not entitled to your vulnerability. Damn.
I follow my grandmother’s rule: it’s only a lie if they have a right to know.
IT’S ONLY A LIE IF THEY HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW
“A female with ADHD may be less hyperactive and less impulsive than her male counterpart. Instead she may present with more subtle symptoms such as being disorganized, scattered, forgetful, introverted, withdrawn and socially isolated. She may have great difficulty keeping her focus on tasks, becoming side-tracked and easily distracted by things around her or even by her own thoughts. It may take her a little longer to process information, so that she appears “slow” or “spacey” or “flighty”, when in fact she may be highly intelligent. She may have a low tolerance for stress, feel extremely sensitive to criticism, and work hard to conform to adult expectations in hopes of gaining approval from others. She may have a hard time saying “no” to others, over committing to responsibilities that she cannot fulfill. It may be difficult for her to make firm decisions on even simple tasks, so that she seems wishy-washy and indecisive. Problem solving situations can become overwhelming and she may often find herself stuck, experiencing a sense of paralysis, unable to move forward at all. Managing her time can be quite a challenge, as well, and “running late” may be her norm. She may also be hypersensitive to her environment – the noise, the sights, even touch – and quickly become overloaded, “shutting down” and unable to function. She may feel and incredible sense of shame, berating herself for not “living up to her potential”.”
— Keath Low, MA
woah dude I’m honestly gonna cry this just describes my life perfectly…
how to live life like a ghibli film
1. go out in nature more. every studio ghibli film has some aspect of nature intertwined with the storyline. sometimes its hard to get the energy to go outside, but just going out on your deck or opening the window in your room or taking a walk around the block is enough. if you feel like it, go for a hike! go into the woods and look at every flower, and every tree. look at the mushrooms and streams and notice the beauty of them. look at nature like you’ve never seen it before. wake up at 4 and watch the sunset. put plants around your room. realize how beautiful the world is around you. appreciate it.
2. get a hobby! this step is certainly easier said than done, but its so worth it. struggling with mental illness makes it especially hard to get a hobby, but its very important that you don’t spend the majority of your time on social media. Start small. If you want to start drawing get a coloring book and fill in a picture with beautiful markers! If you want to write find a random prompt online, give yourself 30 minutes and see what you can come up with. Want to try baking? Start with an easy recipe, like chocolate chip cookies, and share them with your family or friends, or just yourself! Try out a bunch of hobbies, and see what you like best. Maybe you like making jewelry or writing poems or creating digital collages or making video edits or decorating your room or riding a bike or sewing or reading. The possibilities are endless, and getting a hobby you enjoy is very important, and fun.
3. start appreciating small things and noticing details. I don’t know how to explain this step, but in studio Ghibli films, small things always stick out. There are beautiful tiny details that make the story so much more magnificent. small details make the studio Ghibli films what they are. maybe on your way to school/work the sky was a really pretty color. Or the tea you made in the morning was perfectly steeped. appreciate small details of life that you don’t normally notice.
4. appreciate food. Pay attention to your food. If you can, try and make/bake your own food! But if you can’t, just be mindful of your food. Try not to eat while you’re on your phone. Dedicate times to just eating. Appreciating the food in front of you. Make yourself the ponyo drink with milk and honey, or ponyo ramen! Make yourself your own blend of tea like the Baron!
5. be kind and help others. Being kind doesn’t have to be a grand gesture, it can be smiling and waving at a baby in a café, or helping your mom finish the dishes, or paying for a friend’s coffee. Small gestures not only put good out into the world, but they also make you feel better. When you can, help others. Try volunteering at an animal shelter, or babysit for your aunt without charging her, or just listen to your friend when they’re going through something and be there for them. In every Ghibli film, the main character is always helping others, and being kind. Try to be like kiki, when she returned the pacifier to the mother who forgot it, or like chizuru from the cat returns, who risks her life to save a cat. Kindness comes in all shapes and forms, so just try your best to do what you can!
6. be your most authentic self. Stay true to who you are. dress how you’d like. Cut your hair like you’ve always wanted to. Stay confident and true to yourself. We all feel insecure sometimes, but we need to remind ourselves that we are great. Don’t try and force yourself to be someone you aren’t. Kiki felt insecure in her abilities as a witch, but she stayed true to herself, and believed in herself, and it paid off. Love and appreciate yourself, just the way you are.
7. (not really a tip but a fun suggestion) start collecting something! This is just an extra step that I wanted to include because I think its nice. But start a collection of things that interest you. It could be anything! Candles, stamps, teacups, antique figurines, 19th century photos, lip balms, books, key chains, flowers, hats. The choices are endless.
Omg this is so beautifully written 🥺🥺🥺🥺
051121 - “If you can’t beat the fear, just do it scared”. Life scares me.
sharing this cause i wish i learned this sooner
But did you really forgive them if you aren’t willing to let them back into your life
yes because you aren’t obliged to reconnect. you dont even have to talk to the person or wait for them to apologize because sometimes they wont even accept theyre wrong or toxic
you just have to forgive them for what they did, forgive yourself (if needed), learn from what happened and move on
he’s been split into his Law half and his Chaos half and his friends set them up on a blind date to fuse him back to normal
(Source: me)
My boyfriend has ADHD and I have Autism and he’ll still be like, “We need to go to the store.” And then two hours later he’s confused that I don’t have shoes on.
Like… You didn’t even say today, let alone a time.
Okay real talk - this is so 100% accurate BUT telling people they need to keep directly telling us to do something puts a lot of emotional labour on them. We want them to be our partners/ friends/ families, not our managers, so we need to find systems for this.
My flatmate and I have started splitting up chores so that we both know what we are each responsible for in a week. We have also set up a time for “flatmate meetings” where we can discuss new chores/ sort out any problems that occurred with chores in the previous week so they don’t happen again etc.
This means that neither of us feel responsible for everything and neither of us feel like we are nagging/ being nagged by the other.
It means we can both be really explicit about things for an hour or two a week and then move on with an equal friendship.
When we first moved in together she got upset with me because I hadn’t realised that she took out the bins for a full 6 months… We have come a long way!
I SO agree on the chores thing bc some chores are not so dopamine-killing for ADHD ppl and we will do them gladly. But I totally disagree with your stance on th emoitonal labor here. Telling people to be direct with their requests is not emotional labor. If anything, making indirect requests is an expectation for someone ELSE to do the emotional labor of realizing you have a need that you didn’t feel like openly expressing. It’s really really really not optimal communication at all to make indirect requests, and they can be very rude. Example: The floor needs mopping. Susan stands in the kitchen and says “Wow, somebody needs to clean this floor!” and walks off. That’s an indirect request. Susan actually has a desire- a need- she wants the floor clean. But Susan also does not want to take responsibility for it. That’s okay, but since she’s asking someone else to do it so she doesn’t have to, the mature thing to do is to say “The floor needs to be mopped, can you take care of it, Terra?” If you want someone to do something for you, you need to be able to make the request directly. Indirect requests are STILL requests except instead of honestly stating a need and respectfully asking the requestee, indirect requests childishly state a need ~in general~ with the covert intent to guilt someone into doing it like some kind of cheap reverse-psychology. It’s manipulative, guys. It’s considered ‘normal’ enough but a lot of what is considered ‘normal’ isn’t actually healthy. Making indirect requests is disrespectful and manipulative , an avoidance of stating your own needs, and probably related to fear of rejection.
It’s really not healthy to normalize this to the point of saying that ADHD ppl are asking their NT partners to do emotional labor by using open and HONEST communication. Wtf?
If you want someone to do something for you ASK THEM.
I actually completely agree with you on this and don’t think these two stances are mutually exclusive.
1. If you want someone to do something for you, being clear and not passive aggressive/coded is the most respectful thing to do (and the easiest way to ensure something is done). You can’t get too mad if someone isn’t doing something you need and you just decide to… never mention it? (Who does that help??)
2. Expecting someone to directly ask you to do housework every time it needs to be done in a home that you SHARE is putting unnecessary emotional labour on them. As people who know we tend to need structure we need to be explicit with the people around us about this (preferably before it creates issues).
Divvying up chores with my flatmate actually managed both of these. She let me know the current system was stressing her and suggested a change. I reflected and told her certain chores would be harder for me and would likely lead to me procrastinating but I wanted to make sure we both took on equal responsibilities and were both happy. We then worked together to make a system that meant no one had to ask and no one had to just “work it out” - we knew our chores and they were chores we could both do/were happy with (e.g. I always take out the bins, she always does the horrible, loud vaccuming). We wrote into the system time to talk about it in case it needed tweaking. Good communication and a good system.
Alternatively I recently told my boss that sometimes when she thinks it is obvious that I should just take responsibility for a project I would appreciate her being explicit (e.g. “I expect you to run this project and give it to me to review when it is 90% done”). In return I would ensure everything was done by required deadlines and alert her of any timing issues. This means there are no crossed wires and everyone gets what they want - things getting done without a constant need to check in and worry about it.
We all have some level of responsibility in making our own lives easier and recognising that what is obvious to us isn’t necessarily obvious to others. I thought it was obvious that my boss should give clear direction, she thought being that direct might be offensive or “bossy”. Different people need different things and it is important we are clear with the people around us about the things we need (and ask what they need) to ensure we have productive and positive relationships.
Talking about it and making a kind of agreement put us both on the same page and now there is far less awkwardness and miscommunication.
“It’s okay to feel tired. Take yourself to bed at 9pm, and tuck yourself in like the cute burrito you are. Tomorrow is new and full of opportunities.”
— Unknown
Move and live at your own pace. Just as important, live for YOU!