maryohtees⁷

[picrew as pfp, art from @reelrollsweat] army 💜 lgbtq+🏳️‍🌈♠️ dragons 🐲 she/them

[carolinecocoapowder]

asexual pie chart, by me

[rabbitheatedgrrrl]

Not wanting to have sex is NOT a problem. It doesn’t matter if you are asexual or allo, there is nothing wrong with not wanting sex. It’s just an activity. That’d be like saying that if you don’t like soccer, you need to go to soccer therapy to figure out why you dislike it and figure out how to like it because it’s for your own good. See how ridiculous that sounds? IT IS OK TO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX AND IT IS NOT SOMETHING THAT NEEDS TO BE FIXED!!!!!!

[gwythaint-fr]

I made this over a year ago and just realized hey, I've got a FR tumblr now, I can post it on there.

Anyway, I present Flight Rising Slander. (Made on my laptop with that crappy free video editor you get on pc lmaooo)

[zeniths-fr]

adopts for cecilism and maryohtees7!

[guileless-beast]

the solution to shipping non repulsed aspec characters is literally just keeping them aspec in a relationship. and i dont mean treating them the same as any other character in a relationship. yes, aces can have sex with other people, but they probably won’t enjoy it the same way an allo would. give them other reasons to like it. maybe they like the expression on their partner’s face. maybe they like making others feel good. maybe they have specific hangups about it- they can have sex with someone but only if their partner can’t see them. they can have sex with someone so long as it’s really romantic, or soft, or rough, or silly, or with no strings attached, or anything else. maybe they’d rather not be touched at all and just want to watch.

yes, aros can be in a romantic relationship with someone. but they won’t feel the same way as their partner does about it (or if they do, it’s gonna take a while. ex: greyros, demiros). give them more complex feelings about it: maybe they feel completely platonic love for their partner, but deep enough for them to want to be in a romantic relationship with their partner. maybe they feel queerplatonic about their partner. maybe they wish they could feel romantic feelings for their partner (cupiro). maybe they like kissing for sexual reasons but not romantic ones. maybe they like cuddling but not kissing because it feels gross. maybe all they like are kisses that arent on the lips. maybe they only like kisses that are. maybe they like having sex with their partner. maybe they don’t. maybe they want an open relationship. maybe they only want to fuck their partner.

and these are just the parts of the a-spectrum that i’m on (asexual, aromantic). i didn’t put anything down for aplatonics because i’m admittedly undereducated on the aplatonic parts of our spectrum :( any aplatonics or microlabels that would like to reblog with some ideas for other aspec identities in relationships are extremely encouraged!! i love hearing from our community!!

(Also, just to be clear, please don’t ship repulsed aspec characters. Don’t put repulsed aros into a romantic relationship, don’t make repulsed aces have sex, don’t force repulsed apls into having a friend. That’s erasure, just like how shipping a lesbian with a man or a gay with a woman is erasing their queerness. Please remember we are a part of the queer community to be respected, too, and taking our rep from us doesn’t help anyone. Yes, even if it’s yaoi or yuri. Leave them alone.)

[gingers-emotes]

Don't say when, say "if".

Instead of telling a little girl "When get a boyfriend when you're older", tell her, "If you get a boyfriend when you're older."

Don't tell a boy "When you want to date later in life", tell him, "If you want to date later in life."

Instead of telling a teen "When you start experimenting with things in college", them, "If you start experimenting with things in college."

Don't tell your preteen "When you start having sex as an adult", tell them, "If you start having sex as an adult."

Don't tell them when. Don't pressure them to go on a predefined path.

Tell them 'if'.

reblog to share this around . please .

[thewizardofhoes-speaking]

[the-trans-man-with-no-plan]

You can also TEXT "START" to 678-678 or go to their website! There are 700+ of you following me. You don't need to be from the US to reblog this. Reblog.

[homosexuality-offical]

i’m usually a gimmick blog but this is serious. Always remember start to 678678 it’s saved even me a couple times. I love you all, please be safe

[phannie-elvis]

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[suchawretchedthing-deactivated2]

people have to stop thinking of being touch-starved as like. an allosexual thing. my ace ass is perfectly capable of experiencing the skin hunger thank you very much

[anistarrose]

The sentences "Asexuals can still have sex" and "Aromantics can still date" need to go up on the high shelf for everyone except aces and aros talking about their own experiences. From now on, everyone else has to use the revolutionary new phrase "Asexuals and aromantics can do whatever the fuck they want forever."

[bonesbeetle]

buy my dragons ooooooo. all these guys are gened g1s, first two have 2 gem genes, the PC & veil have silhouette scrolls, the aether's a permababy, & the noc is an XYX. also got some ungened ones, here's scries

1st is XXY, last is XYY. i have way more gened & ungened, all here & here. you can offer for guys here or here too if you want! i can do hold & trades & haggling & whatever. & i can give a general price if you can't come up w/ one 👍

this is me RN 👆 come on people i gotta buy tony

[aequorin-fr]

FYI

As we were doing our FRFanArt thing, we noticed some strange behavior in posts. Be wary of Read Mores that look like this:

This (Read More) isn't a read more, but a hyperlink to a suspicious site.

Further, the images in the posts contain hyperlinks to the same site; thankfully, Tumblr previews links in images.

And finally? They're reposting your art and your posts word for word in order to this. The most recent posts I observed went up about 20 hours ago.

If you see someone doing this, report and block.

[flightrising]

From the veiled brambles and branches of the Tangled Wood, the elusive Nocturnes are beginning to spread across the realm. These oft-hidden dragons are again leaving the comfort of their dreary habitats and traversing Sornieth under the cover of darkness. On this, the shortest day of the year, Nocturne dragons rule the skies.

[flightrising]

Don't be suspicious!

Video Description: A video set in a spooky forest. In the background appears a Painted Marionette & Living Luminance. As the "don't be suspicious" meme dialogue progresses, the familiars approach the foreground & center of the video where they jam out to the rhythm of their own now-very loud song and unintelligible mouth noises. They suddenly stop and flee the scene, as if they've just been perceived. For being suspicious.

[augite-protector]

Hey so I just got some devastating news and I’m in full grief mode right now. Would people be willing to share dragons that make them happy for some reason or another? Be it silly or sweet or lore

[maryohtees]

Here's my comfort dragon, Sylvarden 💚 He's very dear to me and looking at his bio always helps me breathe a little better when I'm not okay. His bio is mostly specific things that work for me but I hope he can still be of some help to you too!

MaryOhtees7's dragon Sylvarden

Breed, raise, and train dragons on Flight Rising!

[maryohtees]

I just hatched this Umber/Fire XXY, does anyone want him? He'll probably be trained and sent to NoodleDad next push but I'm giving him a chance (scries under the cut)

Claimed!

Oooh that Banescale looks like burning wood :o And I didn't know Umber could have a green accent!

[maryohtees]

Hi! I'm selling two level 25s, both fully statted and stoned as Mire Flyers.

(edit: guardian sold!)

They're on the AH for 600g each, but lmk if you want to pay in treasure and I'll send a PA! I didn't want to underprice them and doing so I might have done the opposite, so yeah, also open to haggling!

Here's the Fae's build but the Guardian has the exact same one.

Mire Flyer Guardian lvl 25, 600g SOLD!

Mire Flyer Fae lvl 25, 600g

I bought them as fodder a while ago and immediately decided to keep them because I loved their colors. I had so much fun gene-ing and leveling these cool brothers so I hope someone will appreciate them as much as I did!

@fr-boosts

[renai-fr]

Dergtober Catch-up 10: Crossroads

There was a "Who's on First" style post about how many of FR's features have very similar names, a bit back (could probably dig it up, but it's 3am so, a problem for future Renai), and I thought a similar sort of thing could make a very good comic. Took ages though, ha! Hopefully the next couple prompts are easier. (transcript after the break)

Gloria!1: (is holding a map, inspecting it intently) Gloria!2: Ughhhhh... Just ask for directions already! - Gloria!2: (to passing Guardian) Hey, which way is the Crossroads? Got some stuff to trade with Swipp. - Gloria!2: (snatches map from other head) Caramel: Well, the Crossroads is that way, but for Swipp you want the Trading Post, over there. - Gloria!1: Why are you like this... Gloria!2: (while shoving the map into her/their bag, roughly) Oh, thanks! Say, from there, which way to the Marketplace? - Caramel: The Marketplace is over there, but that's merchants, not peer-to-peer... - Caramel: You actually want the Auction House, probably, Private Auctions. It's that way. You might want the message boards though, over that way. - Gloria!2: Great! After that, we just need to go to the Grand Exchange to pick up our new clanmate! Gloria!1: He just needs his moving fee paid. And this one, we know the way to. - Caramel: Oh good. But... for making new friends, don't you want... - Caramel: ...the Crossroads? (Gloria has fallen onto the ground, one head out cold and the other rubbing her forehead) Gloria!1: My head hurts.