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tweeting "just because you don't like jax as a character doesn't mean she was poorly written" setting my phone to vibrate and shoving it up my ass

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leighways

"Ghost isn't metal" correct, it's penis music

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Reblog if you like

💥Penis Music💥

🍆🍆🍆

cuunos

*takes a bite of my cigarette*...... heh. the character...... *walks into a small puddle but it swallows me up like the ocean* *i am found dead years later in maine*

We can't have everything we want

I love my partner, and despite calling him my husband, we aren't actually married.

I would marry him in a heartbeat if I could.

I want to spend the rest of my life loving him, taking care of him and building a home for us where we both feel safe.

But I can't.

The laws in my country mean that if we do get married, the support that the government gives me for my disabilities gets cut off.

He is my heart.

I love him more than life itself, and I want to grow old with him.

My government won't let me do that.

My government will not let me live without fear of not being able to support myself due to my illnesses, and have a life with the person I love.

When did my quality of life become having to choose between my health and my heart?

#i love my husband #vent #disability #gay love #the government is a bitch #i can't do this shit anymore #i love him #i want to be happy #I want Us

dollymeup

Periodic kink blog reminder that:

Real sexism is not sexy.

Real sexual harassment is not hot, it’s awful.

Real women don’t owe you anything for simply existing.

If you’re doing anything without consent, you are objectively wrong, vile, and a predator.

If you disagree with any of the above, unfollow me and seek professional help.

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If I don’t see each and every single one of you reblogging this, I swear to god

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Trans related meme I found on Pinterest

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angiepants

This is a man loving blog btw. I know this is the man hating site and increasingly the trans man hating site but that shit stops at my borders

asexual-domme

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

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I don’t know if I’ve reblogged this before, but here it is again

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As someone who has experienced Dom drop before I cannot stress this enough. Not ever.

Doms do and say a lot of shit sometimes, most of the time it is not an accurate reflection of who we are or at least it is not ALL we are.

I need to know you are ok but I also need to feel like a person after everything is over, so let me hug you and kiss you and give you head pats to show you I care, that I love you.

That I am human.

And you care about me too.

I remember someone in here saying something along the lines of “ I’m not a kink dispensary” and I didn’t completely understand back then, but now I sadly do.

Please just give a fuck about people.