𖹭 𝚖𝚊𝚝𝚝 𖹭

she/they • 19 years old infj • 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇨🇦 • taurus free palestine 🇵🇸 free congo 🇨🇩 free sudan 🇸🇩

[olli-online]

don't mind if i do

[memory-of-stargazing]

“It just means you have to work double as hard as most people!”

Well maybe I don’t WANT to work double as hard as abled people!! Maybe I deserve a BREAK!! Maybe I’ve been working MORE THAN double as hard for MY WHOLE LIFE and it’s led me to immense burnout & caused me to develop several MORE disabilities!! Maybe I should be ACCOMMODATED so I don’t have to KILL MY BODY AND BRAIN over trying to do what abled people can do!! Maybe I DON’T have to work double as hard!! Maybe if there’s the option to let me NOT work double as hard, I should have it, because I’m already working double as hard JUST TO SURVIVE!!

Why do you think disabled people deserve less rest than mentally & physically abled people?

[thesireofsorrow]

going to get my blood tested and dr acula and nurse feratu walk in. hope everything is ok

[animentality]

[problemnyatic]

the most valueable skill a white leftist can ever learn is how to take an L with grace.

[problemnyatic]

You gotta be able to take an L if your moral and ethical belief systems are to be capable of guiding you. Otherwise you just have an idealized self where you get really mad and scared when anyone points out it isn't actually you. How the fuck are you gonna walk the walk if you can't handle being told when you are not, in fact, actually walking it

[problemnyatic]

you cannot just socially transition into being a good person you are going to have to settle for being a messy human being who has to try and fail and keep trying to get better like everyone else. yeah even when it's embarassing and sucks for you a lot.

[livseses]

Ya gotta learn to earnestly and honestly say "Oh shit, my bad."

[tartrazeen]

And to then end the sentence there, not launch into a paragraph of explanation or panicked super-apology.

[angelnumber27]

[honeysider]

[esynk]

[lonelydesolate]

genuinely just saw someone say transmascs 'transition into the highest form of privilege society allows'. what are we doing here

[rizahawkeyepierce]

dam they transition into billionaires????

[kindofabastard]

Yeah as soon as I changed my pronouns on amino when I was 15 I got called by the government and given one trillion dollars. I thought that was common knowledge??

[theangryman]

the majority of trans men immediately squander it on alcohol, gambling, and expensive cars because of our intense toxic masculinity/desperate need to do male stereotypes because we’re silly billies who don’t realize we can just be gender non conforming lesbians

so it’s a common misconception

[naga-noia]

upon changing my pronouns to he/him all of the melanin was sucked out of my body and all of my physical and mental disabilities were cured. I check my bank account and it says one mascutillion dollars deposited directly by jeff bezos

“welcome to the boy’s club,” he said to me with a smile and a wink. thanks big JBeezy

[spacephobos]

fucking love the pitt. they let the autistic girl chill with a dog fo a bit then her boss came in like "fucking love u girl my least troublesome intern wanna pick sooo much gravel out a dudes leg wound?" and she was just like 😀😀😀 incredible. banger autistic rep shes so me.

[beardedmrbean]

[mistressvera]

Oded Fehr as Ardeth Bay and Brendan Fraser as Rick O'Connell

The Mummy, 1999

[highfunctioningfool]

[endminx]

[cervinesatyr-deactivated2021083]

I have to reblog this every time because frankly this is absolutely genius prose

[write-with-will]

Oh to be the teacher that makes the ‘weird kids’ feel accepted

Oh to be the openly gay teacher that helps queer teens come to terms with who they are

Oh to be the teacher that doesn’t make fun of a kid for crying in class

Oh to be the teacher that makes you actually want to go to school

Oh to be the teacher who doesn’t let kids sit alone at lunch

Oh to be the teacher I never had

[hellischange]

if you want to actually materially address child abuse, the single most important thing you can do to start is give children the legally enforceable right to leave any situation they no longer want to be in.

church, extracurriculars, summer camps, school classes, their biological family's houses. notably, these are the places that child abuse is enabled by the child's inability to just fucking leave if they need to. they can't walk out of church if their youth pastor touches them inappropriately; they'll get punished for leaving. if they walk out of their house because their dad hits them, the cops pick them up and give them right back to their dad.

children need the legal autonomy to leave abusive situations in order to even begin to usefully materially address child abuse.

original post by qweerhet because it's unrebloggable but very important

[hazedxg0]

Hopefully one day people will learn that female-perpetrated sexual assault and abuse, especially CSA, is not an anomaly, or "so rare it basically doesn't happen" or a "whataboutism designed to silence women".

The reason you don't see it reflected in the statistics as much is because it's underreported, not because it doesn't happen. If you look into survivor groups, or ask professionals who treat C/SA survivors, you will find thousands upon thousands of people who were assaulted by women and girls.

This is idea does so much harm to survivors of female-perpetrated C/SA. It prevents them from even realizing they were assaulted in the first place, when it would be seen as "obvious" had the abuser been male. It prevents the police and legal systems from even considering to investigate because they don't even see it as a hypothetical possibility. It prevents people from getting the mental healthcare they need because of how under researched it is.

People are not being "over-dramatic" for calling you out for erasing this issue.

People are not "derailing the conversation" by asking you to at the very least remember the tons of survivors who were abused by women, during discussions of C/SA.

And if your C/SA advocacy hinges on the assumption that the abuser will always be male, you will fail thousands of victims.

[red-r0bin-yumm]

people don’t talk about how being autistic fucks with healing enough.

like - humans especially traumatised ones are resistant to change. it takes a lot for people who were abused and shit to get out of the mentality that they deserved it. it takes a lot for someone who believed they were unlovable to change that mindset. it takes a lot for someone who grew up in an unsafe environment to feel safe again.

but being AUTISTIC on TOP of that?? it’s horrid. your mind hates change and so those lessons that were beat into you are the only reality your mind accepts. it’s so much harder to heal when change is that fucking scary - even if it’s positive change.

idk. i feel like that intersection isn’t talked about enough

[shoefaced2]

I just want to remind folks that there is a huge gray area between "Your disability is an explanation, not an excuse" and "Some people's disabilities are so severe that they really do need to be excused from certain things, and no amount of coping skills or therapy or practice will actually fix that for them."

[youplush]

yeah