i could hear you talk about sirius all day, you are so insightful about him and itās just very interesting to hear! it does make me sad when people erase the traits and dynamics that basically define him? fanon sirius is genuinely nothing compared to the compelling mess he is canonically.
Okay, this is gonna be so fucking long lmao.
The thing with Sirius is that, on one hand, Iām not going to talk about fandom Sirius, because fandom Sirius, for me, isnāt really Sirius Black. What theyāve done with him is basically a teenage fantasy from some low-budget Netflix-style series for Gen Z. So I donāt consider that to be Sirius Black. The Sirius Black whoās 1.70āÆm, skinny, wears crop tops, and acts like a 2010 Justin Bieber fangirl, thatās not Sirius Black, thatās something they invented, it doesnāt fit canon.
So Iām going to focus on canon Sirius, the Sirius Black in the books. Even people who claim to be fans of canon Sirius, who say all their theories, metas, and headcanons are based on the real Siriusāthe one we see in the booksāI still deeply disagree with what they say. They have a very idealized idea of him. Even fans of canon Sirius, who are aware of his flaws, still see him as the classic romantic rebel: the teen who grows up in a very conservative, right-wing family, rebels against the familyās establishment and the status quo, leaves home, gets a motorcycle, seeks freedom, joins a countercultural or political movement, fights for liberty and justice, basically the archetype rebel fantasy. And people forget that Sirius isnāt interesting because of that.
Sirius isnāt interesting because heās the archetypal rebellious teen who rejects his conservative parents and seeks freedom. Heās interesting āand tragicā because, no matter how hard he tries not to resemble his family, no matter how much he tries to do the opposite of what his family would do, and no matter how much he positions himself at the polar opposite of his familyās ideology, he ends up reproducing the exact same archetypes he was taught. You canāt just run away from your family and be free. If you want to truly unlearn all the toxic dynamics, behaviors, and ways of reacting instilled by your family, you have to work on yourself. And the first step is accepting that you are your parentsā child, a product of where you grew up.
Sirius constantly demonstrates this. He treats Severus terribly, just as Bellatrix might. Whatās the difference between Bellatrix and Sirius? Bellatrix doesnāt try to kill Severus, but her contempt and lack of respect toward him is exactly the same as Siriusās. Her disrespect toward house-elves is the same as Siriusās toward Kreacher. The ferocity with which Bellatrix despises āthe otherāāwhether political enemy or personal adversaryāis mirrored in how Sirius despises others in his social circle. Heās a reflection of his family and upbringing.
Yes, he might exist on a different political spectrum, which is why people find him ācool,ā but all the attitudes he learned from his mother, he never deconstructed. Heās still classist. He knows that despising Muggle-borns is wrong, so he redirects his discrimination toward other targets acceptable in his social environment. But he hasnāt actually worked on himself. The years of therapy required for someone raised in Siriusās environment to deconstruct all those attitudes would be enormous. Thatās a huge part of his tragedy.
He sees himself as a hero. He has a big image of himself, he sees himself as a rock star in his youth, pre-Azkaban, because leaving the family wasnāt just an act; it was a way to defy his mother. His whole problem with his family comes from his relationship with his mother. At his core, he isnāt rebelling against family ideals, heās rebelling against his motherās ideals. He has a toxic, dysfunctional dependence on her, which resonates later when heās locked in the family house for a year, drinking in her room. Why her room and not any other? There must have been empty rooms, but he chooses hers, and even imagines a hippo in there destroying things while he drinks and cries.
His motherās authority haunts him his entire life. He tries not to be like her, but he ends up behaving similarly. She would behave this way toward a muggle, he behaves that way toward other people. Many people miss this, and as a result, they overlook the most interesting aspect of his character. I wouldnāt call him a hypocrite, because he isnāt aware of it. He thinks heās doing everything right, but in reality, heās just a rich kid from a very conservative family, raised to believe heās superior, where violence and even sadism were normalized, and Sirius internalizes that.
Normalizing a near-homicidal attack on a classmate just because he dislikes them? Normalized violence. Constantly assaulting students at school? Normalized violence and sadism, clearly inherited from his family. Many of his behaviors are reflections of the Black familyās attitudes. Heās on a different political spectrum, but the thing is, not understanding that aspect of Sirius seems to me like leaving out a huge part of his character, and I think itās a waste of hours and hours of analysis on a character, starting from a premise that I consider wrong and very superficial, honestly. Because I think itās way more interesting to analyze Sirius not as a victim of trauma just because his mommy yelled at him or hit him. First of all, we donāt even know that his mother hit him, thereās no evidence that Walburga was a physically abusive person. Thatās totally a fandom invention. And also, we donāt have clear knowledge that he was abused in his home. What we know is that he and his mom had a very dysfunctional relationship.
To me, simply reducing Sirius to āhe was abused at home, escaped, became a hero because his family was awful, they were all right-wing racists, rich aristocrats, horrible and evilā and thatās why we admire himā girl, why are people so basic? Why are people so naĆÆve? Why are they so bland? Do you see what I mean? Why do people simplify the narrative so much?
You have a character with a toxic attachment to his maternal figure, which also shows in how he interacts with women in the series and how women perceive him. Remember that both Molly and Hermione judge him very harshly. Hermione is essentially Rowlingās voice in the narrative, and we know that for Rowling, Molly is the ideal mother who cares for her children. So narratively, Rowling is telling us, āThis is what she thinks of Sirius.ā
The fact that Bellatrixāa womanāis the one who kills him, and that the female figures he interacts with always have some conflict with him, fits perfectly with the theme of his problems with his mother. The fact that both he and his mother have such strong personalities aligns with why their confrontations were so intense and why he eventually leaves home. It also fits with his absolute rejection of everything social, ideological, and economic tied to his mother. But rejecting those things doesnāt mean he stops being her son, doesnāt mean he stops being part of his family, and doesnāt mean he ever worked on himself to deconstruct the attitudes he inherited during his childhood. Attitudes that are classist, violent, normalize problematic behavior, and ethically questionable.
Itās not that Sirius is irresponsible, itās that heās used to doing whatever he wants because he grew up in a family that believed they were above others. They could do whatever they wanted, however they wanted. This is also seen in Bellatrix. So discarding all these factors about Sirius takes away⦠a lot of what makes his character interesting.
I donāt usually talk about him much, because heās not in my top 10 favorite characters to discuss (also donāt a problem to do anyways itās interesting to analyze) but heās a character I analyzed a lot back in the day because he reminded me of people Iāve known; people from extremely conservative, religiously strict, messed-up families. People from politically far-right families who rebelled against their parents by adopting a completely opposite ideology: leftist politics, unions, activism. Iāve been very involved in grassroots politics, not online politics, but in associations and field politics, and Iāve met many āSirius Blacksā in real life. They had good intentions, but then youād go to a bar with them and if the bartender was slow, theyād treat the bartender like trash, because thatās how they were raised to see service. Just like Sirius does with Kreacher: āservice is service.ā
I found that to be a fascinating reflection of how these kids from oppressive, conservative families behave: they rebel against their parents by adopting the opposite ideology, but without deconstructing the values they were taught, so they always end up being the same archetype. Thatās what interested me the most.
So what surprises me about the fandom is that people rarely talk about this aspect of him. Even fans of canon Sirius donāt talk about this. And I donāt understand it, because to me, thatās the most interesting part of his character. You could analyze his relationship with his mother, which I also find super interesting. Honestly, men with mommy issues are fascinating to analyze, theyāre basically a meme, a clichĆ©, every single one. But I donāt know why the fandom doesnāt discuss these things more.