It is not that I am recently just hanging around on solo coffee dates, but that is what I am doing.
TBH, I am job hunting and activly working on moving out from a place I lived for 10 years so I am dosing myself some nostalgic moments 😭
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It is not that I am recently just hanging around on solo coffee dates, but that is what I am doing.
TBH, I am job hunting and activly working on moving out from a place I lived for 10 years so I am dosing myself some nostalgic moments 😭
It is so easy for me to forget that I love doing this work. Studying, reading, thinking, writing. And yet when I make the time and sit myself back down at my desk I fall in love with the process all over again. Gentle reminder to myself to keep making time for my own thought projects
How to Mentally Shift From Teacher-Guided to Self-Guided Learning
As someone who was homeschooled from Grade 8 till Grade 10, these are the small things that actually matter in the long run when you want to get ahead.
Because you can't always rely on teachers to help you through everything. Especially in college. So, hope this helps :)
Question the “I can’t do it alone” thought and replace it with “I can figure it out.”
The first thing is to change your mindset. If you have the perspective that you can only succeed or learn something if there is a teacher, then you've already relied on them.
So, instead of saying "I don't think I can do this alone", say "I can figure it out with some more time"
Tip: Whenever you feel that self-doubt taking over you, just remember the times when you've actually studied without a teacher. Especially during exam times, that counts as "doing it alone" too!
Accept learning is self-driven
Learning is not conditional. You can learn about various things entirely on your own if you put your mind to it.
The main thing you have to understand is that learning is always self-driven. Self-education is the best education, and the easiest way to do that is to sit down and actually start studying.
Teachers are guides, not handholding tools
I am not against teachers, in fact, I know how important a teacher is when it comes to learning. And that is why, you need to know the difference between someone you can go and ask questions to and someone you think you completely depend on.
Tip:
1. Ask questions when you genuinely have a doubt. If you haven't found the answer even after 25-30 mins, only then does the teacher come in.
2. If you do have to ask, group all your questions together for the topic and then go to the teacher.
[The reason why I give the 25-30 mins timeframe is because when you're learning, then you'll obviously have questions. And if you immediately go to teachers and ask them to clarify, you will get the answer, but it is possible that you forget it a lot quicker too. Because when you spend that much of time to find answers, then you'll definitely remember it longer.]
Embrace mistakes as learning opportunities and repeat each task
When you learn something new, you'll obviously do a lot of mistakes. That is a given.
And those mistakes are the ones that will stick with you. This is really common in subjects that require working and constant practicing. Like Maths, Physics, Accountancy, Statistics etc.
And for skills, you still need to keep doing repetitions of every single task until you finally understand the process.
Tip: Keep a small notebook where you'll write the mistakes you did for every single mistake that you keep repeating for a particular topic.
Surround yourself with the right people [environment matters]
If you are around people who don't focus on their studies and developing skills, who are lazy, and who ignore their work. It is highly possible that you will get influenced.
This is because environment matters. This does not mean you just stop being friends, it means that you make a few new friends that you can study with. Over time, you realize how productive you've really become.
Tip: People who drain your energy and distract you need to go out of your life.
Ask yourself “why” and “how” questions constantly.
The easiest way to learn is by asking two main questions:
Why do we do that?
How do we do that?
If you are studying a topic, start asking yourself these two questions for everything. Change the format of the questions too. "Why do we do X and Y and not Z?", "How do we know that?", "Why do we need to do this again?" etc.
Set challenges slightly above your current level
You will not be able to learn new things if you just stay in the same comfort zone.
And that is why, you have 3 levels in your learning journey:
Level 1 => Your comfort zone. Things you already know
Level 2 => Things that are out of your comfort zone but are managable
Level 3 => Things that are hard and cannot be managed yet without passing Level 2
Divide different tasks into different layers. And do the process in order so you can easily understand the process and adapt it.
Experiment with different learning formats (videos, podcasts, books)
When you want to study something or learn a new skill. YouTube, AI, and Books are your best friends.
When you learn using different styles, information sticks to your brain faster. So, experiment!
Tip: Use NotebookLM for this! It is the best tool that helps you combine every style
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Hope this helps ! :)
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Cooked apples and raisins for the win :)
I feel kinda ashamed about how little I've studied these past couple days. My exams were delayed, and now that I don't have those dates pushing me forward I just - don't study. I've been wanting to, truly, so much that it mentally hurts; but I also did everything in my power to avoid it. I can't understand.
I just feel weak in that aspect. And very, very guilty. Starting is so hard, and I should just sit my ass down, stop overthinking and overplanning and STUDY. It's so easy, and yet.
To all my girls who feel like they’ve hit rock bottom, there’s nothing stronger to push you forward than yourself and your perseverance.
“Please don't expect me to always be good and kind and loving. There are times when I will be cold and thoughtless and hard to understand.”
- Sylvia Plath
saturday 18/04/2026
literally 1 week in and i’m so confused. what even is going on. but yk what living the dream bc im confused doing what i wanna do.
♫ samba - clea vincent ♫
Reminder that spring will always come back, music will never stop being created, and there are still so many books left to read! You’re alive! You’re alive! You’re alive!
ᴀ ᴅᴏꜱᴛᴏᴇᴠꜱᴋʏ ꜱᴛʏʟᴇᴅ ꜰʟᴇᴇᴛɪɴɢ ʜᴀᴘᴘɪɴᴇꜱꜱ
my trick for getting through grad school is learning to navigate the quadrants with all their nuances
ᴛʜᴇ ꜱᴛʀᴀᴡʙᴇʀʀʏ ɢɪʀʟ’ꜱ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍᴀʀᴄʜ
hey everyone, i made a goal earlier this month to post at least 5 blog posts, as well as 5 substack posts this march. so, i've been overly trying to come up with post ideas, and if you didn't already see my moodboard for this spring and march, it's very airy, cottagecore bridgerton-esque aesthetic. and i'm SOOO in love with it. so, i wanted to delve into that aesthetic with these posts. and i thought this would actually be the perfect way to start spring.
⊹ ࣪ ˖ strawberry girl foods for march ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ strawberry shortcake
✿ strawberry jam toast
✿ yogurt with strawberries and honey
✿ strawberry lemonade
✿ fruit salads w/ mint
✿ strawberry pancakes
✿ simple vanilla cakes w/ berries
✿ ice matcha w/ strawberry foam
✿ strawberry milk
✿ strawberry crepe
✿ strawberry overnight oats w/ chia seeds + almond milk
✿ mini strawberry tarts w/ whipped cream
⊹ ࣪ ˖ places strawberry girls love in march ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ farmer's markets
✿ flower shops
✿ small bakeries
✿ botanical gardens
✿ local parks
✿ quiet cafes w/ outdoor seating
✿ bookstores w/ large windows
✿ lakes or ponds w/ walking paths
✿ garden centers are so cute
✿ strawberry farms (if they're open)
⊹ ࣪ ˖ things a strawberry girl keeps in her bag ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ lip balm or strawberry lip gloss
✿ a small journal or notebook
✿ pink or red pens
✿ sunglasses
✿ tiny bottle of strawberry/floral perfume
✿ paperback novel
✿ reusable water bottle (strawberry motifs)
✿ a scrunchie
✿ camera for photos
✿ little snacks, like fruit or granola
⊹ ࣪ ˖ little strawberry girl hobbies for march ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ baking simple strawberry desserts
✿ learning how to make homemade jam
✿ painting fruit and flowers in sketchbooks + pressed flowers
✿ writing poetry about spring
✿ collecting or making vintage recipe cards or a recipe book
✿ visiting local farmer's markets each weekend
✿ learning simple flower arranging
✿ having picnics
✿ learning an instrument like ukulele
✿ starting a tiny herb and fruit garden in the kitchen/your garden
✿ scrapbooking
⊹ ࣪ ˖ strawberry girl picnic ideas ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ fresh strawberries in a small basket
✿ strawberry lemonade in a glass bottle
✿ baguette slices or pastries
✿ cheese and fruit
✿ little jars of ham
✿ pink picnic blanket
✿ small book to read
✿ lying on the blanket watching clouds
✿ reading poetry and romance novels
✿ journaling
✿ people-watching
⊹ ࣪ ˖ strawberry girl books for march ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ cozy romance novels
✿ coming of age stories
✿ poetry collections
✿ classic novels w/ countryside settings
✿ baking and cooking books
✿ lifestyle books about slow living
✿ whimsical novels
⊹ ࣪ ˖ strawberry girl traditions for march⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ baking strawberry desserts on weekends
✿ listening to cottagecore playlists with spring ambience in the background
✿ buying flowers every friday
✿ going to farmer's markets every saturday morning
✿ having picnics whenever the weather is nice
✿ making homemade lemonade
✿ watching spring movies on rainy nights
✿ sending letters/postcards to friends and family
⊹ ࣪ ˖ small ways strawberry girls romanticize errands ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ bringing a tote bag to the grocery store
✿ walking instead of driving when possible
✿ stopping by bakeries
✿ visiting flower stands on the way home
✿ wearing cute outfits for simple tasks
✿ grabbing coffee or lemonade during errands
✿ let yourself WANDER instead of rushing!
thank you so much for reading this little guide, i may consider making a part two to this "strawberry girl" guide series, but i mainly will focus on other spring content. i will also be posting on my substack and instagram AND tiktok as well, so make sure to go check them out. if you have any other spring content suggestions, my askbox is always open and ready for ideas and questions!
xoxo mindy
ᴛʜᴇ ꜱᴛʀᴀᴡʙᴇʀʀʏ ɢɪʀʟ’ꜱ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍᴀʀᴄʜ
hey everyone, i made a goal earlier this month to post at least 5 blog posts, as well as 5 substack posts this march. so, i've been overly trying to come up with post ideas, and if you didn't already see my moodboard for this spring and march, it's very airy, cottagecore bridgerton-esque aesthetic. and i'm SOOO in love with it. so, i wanted to delve into that aesthetic with these posts. and i thought this would actually be the perfect way to start spring.
⊹ ࣪ ˖ strawberry girl foods for march ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ strawberry shortcake
✿ strawberry jam toast
✿ yogurt with strawberries and honey
✿ strawberry lemonade
✿ fruit salads w/ mint
✿ strawberry pancakes
✿ simple vanilla cakes w/ berries
✿ ice matcha w/ strawberry foam
✿ strawberry milk
✿ strawberry crepe
✿ strawberry overnight oats w/ chia seeds + almond milk
✿ mini strawberry tarts w/ whipped cream
⊹ ࣪ ˖ places strawberry girls love in march ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ farmer's markets
✿ flower shops
✿ small bakeries
✿ botanical gardens
✿ local parks
✿ quiet cafes w/ outdoor seating
✿ bookstores w/ large windows
✿ lakes or ponds w/ walking paths
✿ garden centers are so cute
✿ strawberry farms (if they're open)
⊹ ࣪ ˖ things a strawberry girl keeps in her bag ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ lip balm or strawberry lip gloss
✿ a small journal or notebook
✿ pink or red pens
✿ sunglasses
✿ tiny bottle of strawberry/floral perfume
✿ paperback novel
✿ reusable water bottle (strawberry motifs)
✿ a scrunchie
✿ camera for photos
✿ little snacks, like fruit or granola
⊹ ࣪ ˖ little strawberry girl hobbies for march ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ baking simple strawberry desserts
✿ learning how to make homemade jam
✿ painting fruit and flowers in sketchbooks + pressed flowers
✿ writing poetry about spring
✿ collecting or making vintage recipe cards or a recipe book
✿ visiting local farmer's markets each weekend
✿ learning simple flower arranging
✿ having picnics
✿ learning an instrument like ukulele
✿ starting a tiny herb and fruit garden in the kitchen/your garden
✿ scrapbooking
⊹ ࣪ ˖ strawberry girl picnic ideas ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ fresh strawberries in a small basket
✿ strawberry lemonade in a glass bottle
✿ baguette slices or pastries
✿ cheese and fruit
✿ little jars of ham
✿ pink picnic blanket
✿ small book to read
✿ lying on the blanket watching clouds
✿ reading poetry and romance novels
✿ journaling
✿ people-watching
⊹ ࣪ ˖ strawberry girl books for march ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ cozy romance novels
✿ coming of age stories
✿ poetry collections
✿ classic novels w/ countryside settings
✿ baking and cooking books
✿ lifestyle books about slow living
✿ whimsical novels
⊹ ࣪ ˖ strawberry girl traditions for march⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ baking strawberry desserts on weekends
✿ listening to cottagecore playlists with spring ambience in the background
✿ buying flowers every friday
✿ going to farmer's markets every saturday morning
✿ having picnics whenever the weather is nice
✿ making homemade lemonade
✿ watching spring movies on rainy nights
✿ sending letters/postcards to friends and family
⊹ ࣪ ˖ small ways strawberry girls romanticize errands ⊹ ࣪ ˖
✿ bringing a tote bag to the grocery store
✿ walking instead of driving when possible
✿ stopping by bakeries
✿ visiting flower stands on the way home
✿ wearing cute outfits for simple tasks
✿ grabbing coffee or lemonade during errands
✿ let yourself WANDER instead of rushing!
thank you so much for reading this little guide, i may consider making a part two to this "strawberry girl" guide series, but i mainly will focus on other spring content. i will also be posting on my substack and instagram AND tiktok as well, so make sure to go check them out. if you have any other spring content suggestions, my askbox is always open and ready for ideas and questions!
xoxo mindy
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